A gender where you’ve hoarded so many genders that some of them conflict, simply because you’ve collected so many terms. However, you still identify with all of the terms individually/have identified with them at some point and may identify with them again.
The purple represents female/feminine genders, the blue represents male/masculine genders, the black represents
I don’t identify with it, I just wanted to coin it!
Dharmagender: when you go through an imposition of gender or gendered expectations, but you do not feel victimized by them; instead, you feel like they were necessary experiences to give you a grander perspective or allow you to take up the role in the world you were meant to. May have conservative, conformist or heteronormative implications, but not necessarily so, as it applies also to taking up labels inside the LGBT community that allow you to better communicate who you are and thus have more ground and opportunity e.g. when you feel like revealing to people that you are nonbinary is enough, even though deep inside you know you could affirm yourself with many more specific terms.
dharmasexual, dharmaromantic: same as the above e.g. when you identify as abrosexual, omnigay, novosexual, etc. but you prefer to say you are bi because this label gives you a better currency in the social capital of the world
I have coined a new karmagender. Dharmagender has significant overlap with the antigenders of genderpunk and qiagender/quiagender, albeit it is not necessarily so – dharmagender just happens to more easily fall in line with whatever is more accepted by the circles you are in. I also indirectly expanded karma- into orientation territory.
Dharmagender: when you go through an imposition of gender or gendered expectations, but you do not feel victimized by them; instead, you feel like they were necessary experiences to give you a grander perspective or allow you to take up the role in the world you were meant to. May have conservative, conformist or heteronormative implications, but not necessarily so, as it applies also to taking up labels inside the LGBT community that allow you to better communicate who you are and thus have more ground and opportunity e.g. when you feel like revealing to people that you are nonbinary is enough, even though deep inside you know you could affirm yourself with many more specific terms.
dharmasexual, dharmaromantic: same as the above e.g. when you identify as abrosexual, omnigay, novosexual, etc. but you prefer to say you are bi because this label gives you a better currency in the social capital of the world
Sadmanafsi: (pronounced sad-ma-naf-see) a state of being where you believe that due to a trauma you experienced in your life, your sexual attraction has split between physical attraction (what gets you “sexually excited” physically) and psychological attraction (what you have sexual fantasies about, what you might dream about, etc). The emphasis here is that there’s a sharp/distinct disconnect between your mental state of being and your physical state of being in regards to what you find sexually attractive
Term and flag creator: myself
-Vasilisa
fact the grammarically null gender(s) always existed in all languages I see
se preparem q vou fazer uma bandeirinha poc amanhã. espirada na piada do papa é poc.
essa palavra ja foi usada para definir drags e trans finíssimas em danceterias GLS hehe
Supranagender (supra-agender) or Superagender (interchangeable with supergenderless and supragenderless): An identity that includes and exceeds genderlessness. For example, they would feel that their genderless level includes but also extends outside of being agender.
[Image: a flag with an inverted triangle at the front and three stripes colored with orange, lime green and fancy pink]
Freak Pride is associated with celebrating body modification culture, diversity, bodies and their subjectivity, promoting corporeal alteration and fomenting the different uses of the body.
Renaming the word freak meaning esquisito, esquisita or esquisite in Portuguese, as synonymous to being abnormal, aberration, weird, strange, odd and monster, similar to queer as a reclaimed word.
Transvestite is an historical word and has been used before the transsexual coinage, often to describe transgender people grouping them with cross-dressers and drags (drag queens & kings), specially trans women and she/her gays. Description shares transvestic, cross-dressing and cross-dreaming.
In English it’s seen as derogatory nowadays. -vestite derives -vestire, trans- meaning across as in transverse. Although it reminds travesti (as well as transvestigênere (transvestigender) and travestilidade (travestility)) from romance languages, it’s not essentially the same because West Iberian classifies travesti as a gender category.
This is also a word used in the Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries (STAR), which was a gay, gender non-conforming and transgender activist organization.
Hipstersexuality: one who believes that real relationships are too mainstream; being sexually hipster, someone who tries to be outside of the cultural mainstream.
A reclaimable slur used against pansexuals and pomosexuals. ~ Ap
tomorrow, or after, you’ll see me solidifying a little the qualities for epingender. just wait. @gender-resource
my new enigmatic comrade will help transcripting it
i have some crazy ideas for a supranull flag. and what about suprazerogender? let alone some other surrounding energies I’m feeling about the definitions but I can’t fully comprehend without resting a little
TMLTM (trans man loving trans man): a trans man attracted to trans men, primarily or exclusively; transcentered relationship(s) between men.
-Kau
If it’s transphobic for a gay man to not be interested in being with a transman, then how is it not transphobic (or at the very least trans fetishism) for a gay man (who happens to be trans) to only be interested in transmen?
I mean, the whole point is that transmen are men, full stop, no qualifications. Isn’t it?
Because trans men who are only interested in other trans men have completely different motivations than cis men who exclude trans men or are only interested in trans men.
Cis men who won’t even consider trans men as a whole generally do so because they think trans men aren’t real men. Meanwhile, cis men who are only interested in trans men generally don’t see us as people beyond us being trans, perceiving us as some fascinating anomaly rather than people.
Trans men who are only interested in trans men are generally trying to avoid the high risk of transphobia that comes with cis people. It’s essentially a way to completely bypass dealing with the cis men I described in the last paragraph. While highly limiting, it is an effective means of doing so.
Trans men are men, but that doesn’t mean any and all nuance gets thrown out the window when discussing us.
Inspired by @not-your-introsource ’s singlet sona flag, I made a flag for my coined term Blanket Self (the person who all or the majority of facets in a median system identify as). No meaning past different colors for unique facets & the circle symbol for the “blanket” identity.
I
wanted to make a median flag, since I haven’t found any that I really
like before, so here it is! I made a few different versions with varying
levels of complexity, so that there’s still icon friendly ones while
also looking unique and recognizable.
Feel free to use or edit these however you’d like to, so long as you credit me! The icon used in the flag is the plural spiral.
Cisqueerhet: identifying as and/or with/being cis*, queer, and het.
This includes: queer people identifying as/with be cis*het; straight cis*genderqueeries; cissex qingender hets; cisgender strayts reclaiming the q-word, and many other experiences.
Disclaimer: despite it encompasses many life experiences, it’s about consensual self-determination, if someone doesn’t want to be refferred by it but still identify with/as cisqueerhet, let them alone and don’t misdenominate.
white people ruined the non sexual intimacy of nakedness methinks
i think that for a species that come into the world naked and have such an easy time understanding sex, its ironic that the world at large cant accept that intimacy cant occur outside of sexual desire. there is intimacy in a shared bath between a mother and her child. between brothers sharing a bed. between friends changing in the same room.
and i said white people bc i feel like literally everyone else figured that shit out already? like in public bath houses and women walking around with their breasts exposed. europe got a hold of chriatianity and decided to put a worldwide ban nakedness and put these restrictions on the human body, bastardizing the nature with which we come into the world. its dirty, its deviant, its dangerous to be exposed in the appropriate spaces or ones own home.
the way young people have to cover up in their homes before guests come, the way shorts and other summer clothes are only perceived as sexual in nature and not the most effective way of combating a million degree heat, the way people freak out when they see a bra strap like it wasnt them who made bitches wear bras in the first place
[text ID: a tweet by Aqqalu @uyarakq that reads, “nudity shouldn’t be sexual. my ancestors walked the tundra with their tits out and nobody cared until those with a bible came.” / end ID]
Native women near me used to just wear basket hats and skirts and maybe necklaces for special occasions. It was common for ppl of both sexes and all ages to bath and sweat in sweat houses together, naked of course, bc nudity wasn’t that sexualized until the colonizers came.
this isn’t even a mogai blog but… I’ve been wanting to “coin” this term for a while and worked out a funky flag for it so I’ll just post it, y’know?
Presenting: boy+!
(Excuse the fact that the flag is a bit crusty/pixelated, I don’t have the software or patience to fix it rn)
Boy+ is when you identify completely as a boy, plus additional genders. You don’t feel partially boy, you aren’t fluid, you are entirely a boy… plus more! Maybe you don’t know specifically what that added something is, so boy+ is the best way to describe it. Or, maybe you have a lot of gender, but it all feels like it’s simply additional while your main gender is Boy(/man/guy/male/etc). Just, Boy+. Boy, Bath, and Beyond. Y’know?
I don’t know if there’s already a term like it, but I couldn’t find anything. I feel like there probably is somewhere and I was too impairment to find it… but, anyway! If you want to make other versions of this with other genders, go for it, I don’t own the concept of a plus sign.
i absolutely love this term and the flag, so i figured i’d touch it up for you!
My girlfriend, ADHD: *spitting out words at an ungodly rate for like an hour straight*
Me, her autistic gf who doesn’t mind the rants because it means I don’t have to talk:
I personally like to be nonverbal when possible because it’s just more comfortable, but that doesn’t mean I necessarily like to be alone all the time. I do like the company of my friends but I hate having to respond all the time because it’s tiring.
My girlfriend though, talks so fucking much. I hope she never stops.
| Not false or imitation; true to one’s own personality, spirt, or character.
| See also: genuine, honest, trustworthy, real
(Image description: the trans, genderqueer, demiboy, demigirl, nonbinary, genderfluid, maverique, androgyne, agender, and neutrois pride flags, every image has a white rectangle with a black border in the center, the box contains the above definition of the word “authentic”.)
Hetero (adjective): connoting someone who is attractionally/affectionally or relationally straight, het (adjectival) or hetero- (prefixal); denoting someone whose attraction to someone is derived from a relationship between two folks, in which their genders or sexes are different, mismatched or opposed to each other; being attracted to people of dissimilar or opposite gender(s). Similar to contraic, penulti-, differo- and enanteic.
Cusper: someone who “cusp” between binary genders’ states; or staying between a transgender person’s identity and a “cis” gender non-conforming expression; i.e. being a trans duaric/ultramoric (or transhet) woman represented by the vincian label “bear”, “otter” or “twink”; a trans duaric/ultric man that feels joyful or genderly euphoric for being referred as “butch”.
This flag is almost like a greyed version of the original cusper flag, but I didn’t change the middle stripe. I’m personally (spiritually) between an otter vincian’s state and a trans hetero woman’s form. I put emphasis on the hetero part for this flag. – AP
Sidenote: there’s a lot of confusions between the terms perisex, endosex and dyadic. I feel I know the differences in definitions, but apparently they are the same?
Since rainbow capitalism sucks, here are some small queer shops to support this coming pride month instead of giving all your money to Disney and Walmart!
If you have a shop or know a shop you want to promote, please reblog with a link!
I have a shop and I’m celebrating my 1 year of making Pride stuff! I make sewn goods (mostly masks, scrunchies, and headbands) but I offer a lot of customization and I’m always down to try something new if nothing quite matches what you like!
Weramoric: the ample version of toramoric; denoting, or relating to, amplusic gay man; connoting someone who is affectionally or relationally homo- masc or gay/queer (nonstraight) men in general; a gaiety/queerness in which you might be, not strictly, indeed attracted to men or amply gay, queer or unstraight for male people.
It’s similar to vincian, toric, mascic and viramoric, but this is intentionally ample and not inherently diamoric, gai or gay, therefore not strictly that thing, they may be flexible or in grey area, have flux or fluid attraction, etc. Might be used as wer- as in Middle English wereman.
The purposeful inclusion of non-binary folks can be called weren-, just as in toren- and viren-. Ending colors resembling a pluralian flag, as in amplitude.
Hetero (adjective): connoting someone who is attractionally/affectionally or relationally straight, het (adjectival) or hetero- (prefixal); denoting someone whose attraction to someone is derived from a relationship between two folks, in which their genders or sexes are different, mismatched or opposed to each other; being attracted to people of dissimilar or opposite gender(s). Similar to contraic, penulti-, differo- and enanteic.
Cusper: someone who “cusp” between binary genders’ states; or staying between a transgender person’s identity and a “cis” gender non-conforming expression; i.e. being a trans duaric/ultramoric (or transhet) woman represented by the vincian label “bear”, “otter” or “twink”; a trans duaric/ultric man that feels joyful or genderly euphoric for being referred as “butch”.
This flag is almost like a greyed version of the original cusper flag, but I didn’t change the middle stripe. I’m personally (spiritually) between an otter vincian’s state and a trans hetero woman’s form. I put emphasis on the hetero part for this flag. – AP
It’s March 14th, 2021 and, as promised, my a-spec art book is available today and above are some samples! There are 140 pages with 160 art pieces in total. I’d love some feedback (if possible!)
Thank you again to everyone who has supported this idea and my artwork in general ♥️
I’d really appreciate it if you could reblog this so that the people who liked/reblogged/commented on my 60k post could see it? Thank you!
(Please don’t remove this caption or repost this!)
I hereby declare that the muti gender attracted community be called the BOP community:
Bi, Omni, Pan/Ply
(even if you don’t personally identify with the mentioned labels, if you’re attracted to 2 or more genders you can still identify as a part of the BOP community, if you want to)
Definition: a plural exclusive term for headmates who do not experience sexual attraction when awake in meatspace and exclusively experiences sexual attraction when in headspace/paracosms.
🌧 Drearomantic
Definition: a plural exclusive term for headmates who do not experience romantic attraction when awake in meatspace and exclusively experiences romantic attraction when in headspace/paracosms.
🌧 DreaAroace
Definition: a plural exclusive term for headmates who do not experience romantic or sexual attraction when awake in meatspace and exclusively experiences romantic and sexual attraction when in headspace/paracosms.
Someone who is velaurian might change between the two (such as genderfluid and omnique people), may be both at the same time (such as bigender etc. people), may identify with both due to being a system, may be abrosexual, or any other reason for identifying with both labels. Some velaurians may also identify with mesque.
Term comes from “veldian” and “aurora”, and the flags colors come from both the turian/veldian flag and the aurora lesbian flag.
this isn’t even a mogai blog but… I’ve been wanting to “coin” this term for a while and worked out a funky flag for it so I’ll just post it, y’know?
Presenting: boy+!
(Excuse the fact that the flag is a bit crusty/pixelated, I don’t have the software or patience to fix it rn)
Boy+ is when you identify completely as a boy, plus additional genders. You don’t feel partially boy, you aren’t fluid, you are entirely a boy… plus more! Maybe you don’t know specifically what that added something is, so boy+ is the best way to describe it. Or, maybe you have a lot of gender, but it all feels like it’s simply additional while your main gender is Boy(/man/guy/male/etc). Just, Boy+. Boy, Bath, and Beyond. Y’know?
I don’t know if there’s already a term like it, but I couldn’t find anything. I feel like there probably is somewhere and I was too impairment to find it… but, anyway! If you want to make other versions of this with other genders, go for it, I don’t own the concept of a plus sign.
i absolutely love this term and the flag, so i figured i’d touch it up for you!
oooooh yeah this flag is gender for sure
We coined Hyperboy to mean the same thing, but honestly love that. Hoarding synonyms time?
Attractive aspecs: “But you can’t be asexual! You’re so hot and sexually appealing and you can have anyone you desire!” Unattractive aspecs: “Lol you’re not ‘asexual’ you just can’t get laid ‘cuz you’re an uggo and you want to feel better about it”
timgender: a gender that is connected to the character Tim from the ARG series Marble Hornets, can also be used as a kin gender for Tim from Marble Hornets. -🌸
Craysnakegender is a gender related to Craig from the show Sanjay and Craig. It feels snake-like and a bit chaotic. Craysnakegender can feel gross and a bit masculine too.
mosquitogender: a sinister gender that feeds off of other people (mainly their opinions and feelings) and forms based around that. this gender is also for those whose gender feels a connection to mosquitoes, or relates to both of these. -🌸
Candeonian: a gender that is glittering, gleaming, and calming. It is like sunshine in a dark house, it brightens the identity progressively over time, making each gender turn from a “dark” or “dim” gender to a “bright” or “glittering”/”gleaming” gender. Etymology: Latin, “candeo” meaning “I am brilliant”
Gendernihtian: a gender that is the spitting image of a dark night. It is connected to summer nights, the falling of the sun under the horizon late at night, the sound of nightingales and soft night birds chirping, as well as the sound of crickets chirping. This gender can be connected to soft pillows, the sound of rain, and candles blown out by a window draft, but doesn’t have to be. This gender is incredibly soft and peaceful, but is easily disrupted by other genders. Etymology: Old English, “nihtian” meaning “to become night”
Me looking at Tumblr’s new partnership with a totally anonymous app run “by teenagers, for teenagers” to provide mental health support for the LGBTQ+ community: 😬😬😬
Like, even if I were willing to be an unpaid moderator on that site, which for the record I’m absolutely not, I don’t think I could, because my mental health practice license requires me to ensure my work meets a minimum standard of safety for the people I’m helping. And this app is so likely to turn toxic or dangerous that being involved with its ordinary functioning could cost my license when something goes wrong.
I started moderating internet support communities for at-risk teens 20 years ago, and all Trill leaves me with is a sense of “Oh you mean so well you dear sweet people” and 😬😬😬❌🚫⚠️
yeah i literally work for a counselling service as their Resident Young Person (fun fact) and like. Having young people involved in governance? Great! Having young people do therapy for each other, or have to manage an entire goddamn service with no/little adult support? Bad! Bad!
“By young people for young people” always contains the inherent risk of adultifying the young people involved, which is shitty for their mental health. Like, I got hired at 18 and I get paid (I keep reiterating this because whoo boy so many “gifted” and/or “passionate” young people get pushed into doing free labour, which is bad!) and it still took me years to get over the impulse to “forget” to charge for my work hours, because I was so damn used to doing this kind of shit for free. Greta Thunberg has (correctly) accused world leaders of stealing her childhood by being so slow on climate change that the young people have to School Strike.
And this is like, one mental health risk to its participants based only on the structure of the thing, it isn’t even getting into any of the nitty gritty of the problems you mentioned.
I think a lot of teens see the broken mental healthcare system and feel an altruistic desire to step in and “fix” the situation themselves.
There’s a very real problem of teens not getting the help they need, particularly marginalized youth, and it’s heartbreaking to see someone you know reach out for help and not find it. Most people with basic compassion still feel terrible when it’s a stranger asking for help, and I think most of us know what it’s like to feel rejected and unsupported.
But, fuck, mental healthcare is not something Just Anyone is equipped to provide. A good amount of professionals aren’t even really equipped to provide it. And I don’t just mean they’re bad at it and can cause harm- though that’s part of it. I mean they don’t have the mental and emotional capacity to take on something like that.
From grades 8-11, I spend a good two to three nights per week talking my friend down from suicide or self harm. I had panic attacks because of it, I failed tests, missed sleep, skipped the SATs, lost connections with other friends, got in fights with my family, and destroyed my mental health over it. Even when that friend eventually stopped talking to me and found other people to help them, I impulsively continued to offer that help to everyone else who seemed to need it; I had entire relationships founded on providing that kind of support with people I would otherwise never have spoken to, some of them genuinely manipulative and shitty people.
My whole sense of self-worth was founded on this Helpful Therapist Friend persona, and my understanding of how to make friends, and what made a friendship Good and Deep and Meaningful revolved around how well I could therapize people in crisis.
It’s legitimately traumatizing. How could it not be? When you’re repeatedly made to feel like you alone are responsible for someone’s well-being, for whether they live or die, or even just for whether they harm themselves- that is traumatizing. When you feel driven by guilt to help someone who may not survive the night if you don’t- that is traumatizing. And even if it’s not, it’ll still leave a mark.
There’s no one neat solution to this stuff, but god, “teenagers helping teenagers” sure isn’t one of them.
As someone who had severe mental health issues as a teenager, I really don’t think it would’ve been a good idea to have other teenagers playing therapist for me. Especially when you can’t guarantee the other teen will even be remotely understanding. Depression and generalized anxiety? Sure, they might more likely be understanding. But OCD? My peers didn’t know what the fuck to do with my OCD. Parents who treated me like shit for my ADHD? I’ve had too many peers say that my parents were in the right when, when I told an actual therapist about it, she called it emotional abuse. Trauma from being raped? There was a reason I didn’t tell anyone, and that reason was “my actual classmates openly insisted that women can’t do that and that being coerced doesn’t mean you didn’t consent.” I also doubt that the average teenager will be able to recognize when another teen is in an emotionally abusive relationship and being gaslit into believing that they’re the problem.
Some problems should really be left to someone equipped to handle it. Who actually knows shit about these kinds of problems. Random teenagers on an app are not equipped to handle a lot of things and should not be asked to.
Ah, yeah, I was The Therapist Friend. I took a lot of pride in the fact that people seemed to inherently trust me and felt like I gave good input and advice. But when you’re mentally ill yourself, that’s an added burden and when it’s someone who is extremely sick that you’re dealing with… yeah teenagers shouldn’t be the ones dealing with that.
reminder: post truthism is just another lexeme to undermine communities and silence marginalized and oppressed people for their identity lanes (woke points)
No specifically but quasiplatonic is the possible/potential one since some people interpret their quasiplatonism as a mix of amical and sensual (additionally everything that a romantic relationship has without romanticism).
Some exemplary forms of attractions mixing plural aspects:
Dorare/Doraricity of spiritual and alterous aspects;
Eroticity of romantic, aesthetic, sensual, social and sexual ones;
Platonicity of amical, social, impersonal and qplatonic.
There’s also specific terms for people not distinguishing those types of attraction, such as quoi-, platoni-, amicus-, amante- and sequence-.
I don’t actually ~coined~ it, just lexically expressed a translation of something already existing (signified). Some simply examples:
Platonic friendship: social interaction/intimacy (pre-)existing in your mind;
Social friendship: relation characterized on socializing with each other, often associated as acquaintanceship;
Amical friendship: trustful and loyal you engaged so much that tastes almost as QPPs or best friends, still not the same.
Amizade (or amistad) generally relates parceria (team play, association or partnership), so it’s possible for romances (romanticities) or qplatonicities (qplatonities or qplatonisms) to be amical. E.g.
Amical-qplatonic partnership: a QPR/QPP with mutual collaboration, contemplative experience of affinity and almost near to a doraric/alterous relationship anarchy (free love);
Romantic-amical partners: constructing a close relational friendship into a relatious romantism/romanticism and interpersonal communication that it works like best friends even though they have amorous/gamous fidelity or some other form of commitment.
[image: 5 stripes with purple, red, white, blue and green]
Piá: a slang similar to guri, indicates a dude or guy in South Brazil, specially Paraná, but also more inclusive than both and some people interpret this as a third gender and gender neutral.
It was historically used to denote an indigenous boy, a biracial/mestizo (or mestize/mestiza) [racially mixed] or at least nonwhite nonwoman (but in diminutive). Note I’m triracial and this is within my lane to reclaim this identity for myself any ways, but this label is pratically used regardless of ethnicity, culture or race.
– Ap
i said it WAS. IT’S NOT anymore. twitterers are boring
The palette is taken from a chameleon. While the shapeshifter therian/otherkin is controversial, there are those who feel this accurately describe their kin-type. This palette was chosen because chameleons can change the colors of themselves.
*Clarification* Obviously it is impossible to physically shapeshift. The human body does not have the biological cells capable of that. Shapeshifter, here, is used as a KIN IDENTITY and THAT IS IT.
I recently found this polyam flag design, made by u/opensofias of reddit, and I wanted to base some of my own poly- flag redesigns on it :]
Polyamory (polyam): The capability or desire to be in a relationship
with more than one person at once. Polyamorous can be used both as a
description of a relationship with more than two people and as
description of people who desire such relationships. Polyamorous
relationships can include or be defined by any type of attraction, not just romance.
Blue – openness and honesty among all partners
Red – love and passion
Black –
solidarity with those who must hide their polyamorous relationships from
the outside world
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Polyplatonic (polypl):
The capability or desire to be in a queerplatonic or
intimate platonic relationship
with more than one person at once.
Polyplatonic can be used both as a
description of a relationship with more than two people, and as
description of people who desire such relationships. Polyplatonic is an identity is similar to polyamory, but specifically refers to queerplatonic and intimate platonic relationships.
Green – the opposite of red (which is a romantic color)
Purple – the opposite of the yellow pi symbol on the
polyamory flag
The other colors do not have meanings and were chosen to
resemble the polyamory flag
Since the original colors of the polyplatonic flag have little meaning, I decided to make a version with my own colors! I much prefer this one, but I figured I’d include a redesign with the original colors for sake of clarity.
Yellow – platonic attraction and relationships
Yellow & Pink –
queerplatonic attraction and relationships
White – fluidity and vastness of experiences
Black – stability and shared experiences
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Polyaffectionate (polyaff):
The capability or desire to be in a relationship
with more than one person at once.
Polyaffectionate can be used both as a
description of a relationship with more than two people, and as
description of people who desire such relationships.
Polyaffectionate relationships are
based on tertiary attractions, such as intimate platonic, queerplatonic, and alterous relationships.
While not aro-exclusive, the term “polyaffectionate” was coined within the aromantic community as an alternative to polyamorous, due to its strong
association with desiring multiple romantic* relationships, and discomfort
with the “amorous” label.
Green – connection to the aromantic spectrum and/or the distancing of oneself from romance
Yellow
– platonic attraction and relationships
Yellow & Pink –
queerplatonic attraction and relationships
Blue – alterous attraction and relationships
Grey – refers to the grey areas of attraction, relationships, and society in general
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*While polyamory isn’t
inherently a romantic label, not every non-monogamous person is comfortable associating with romance, even tangentially.
Roigeo: A gender connected to being a king and the geo element; being a geo king. This gender is connected to genshin impact, geo aesthetics, king aesthetics, and non-binary manhood.
Georeine: A gender connected to being a queen and the geo element; being a geo queen. This gender is connected to genshin impact, geo aesthetics, queen aesthetics, and non-binary womanhood.
[Image Description: A 7 striped horizontal flag. The colors go: yellow, light green, green, dark purple, dark red, pink, light pink. The flag on the right has two masks (one happy, one sad) filled in with white with a purple outline. /End ID.]
> Dianvile
🌀 | A gender related to morality and the struggle of trying to figure out what’s bad and what’s good. This is only for neurodivergent people.
📄 | Color meanings are greens & yellows represent typically good or pure things, while reds and pinks represent typically bad things, and purple represents the divide between them.
eldritchgender: a gender that is connected to things considered ‘eldritch’. it is vast, unknowable, uncanny, otherworldly, and ghostly. this gender may been seen as unearthly and strange, and feel entirely like an eldritch being. -🌸
[image id: a flag with 4 layers of repeated spikes, the colors of these are red, orange, yellow, and pale cyan. layered on top is 5 black, duplicated otamatone outlines. end id]
Definition: a plural exclusive term for headmates who do not experience sexual attraction when awake in meatspace and exclusively experiences sexual attraction when in headspace/paracosms.
🌧 Drearomantic
Definition: a plural exclusive term for headmates who do not experience romantic attraction when awake in meatspace and exclusively experiences romantic attraction when in headspace/paracosms.
🌧 DreaAroace
Definition: a plural exclusive term for headmates who do not experience romantic or sexual attraction when awake in meatspace and exclusively experiences romantic and sexual attraction when in headspace/paracosms.
Quigamenromantic: a romantic orientation that is adjacent to demiromanticism/abroromanticism that seems to fade in and out of existence, or turn on and off randomly. This orientation may be experienced in any number of ways, not the least of which is the one described above. This orientation may also be mspec/bispec, and may be combined with t4t, nb4nb, and other similar terms.
(From the Italian for ‘connection’ and ‘fluid’)
Here are two potential versions of quigamenromantic and quigamensexual flags!
The bottom right is the one I made first, the dark green being picked directly from the demiromantic flag and the other stripes from the abroromantic flag. Then I switched out the green for purple to create the one on the bottom left, for quigamensexual.
But then I was like I don’t love this and I want a different option, so I took the color scheme and ran with it to create the one in the top right, which I call the watermelon flag, and then I once again swapped out the greens for purples and here we are!
Since gemder go brr was uncomfy making sexual flags, I decided to make my own comic/toonsexual flags based on the romantic ones. If you feel more comfortable in imaginary sexual relationships than real ones, this maybe the flag for you. This could be due to neurodivergence and/or past trauma, or just due to asexuality.
I think that would be gender nullarity (a gender arity that is null/absent, as in, you can’t be classified as trinary, binary, unary, etc.). You can read more here and here. There’s also equary. Being nullary not essentially means you are agender, anyways it’s an a-gender arity (anarity/anariality/aleptarity/aleptary).
But just because you are unconfident of using gendered bathrooms, doesn’t mean anything about experiencing a gender identity. There are several reasons for it, specially local transgendercide statistics and cultural exorsexism or transmisogyny (transphobia/cissexism/transmisia or binarism/enbyphobia).
Are you neutral/epicene or indifferent/apathic or
to genders? Just because I don’t feel okay in bathrooms with 🚹 icons, doesn’t mean you aren’t male. It could be because external non-consensual objectifying, fetishizing and condemnatory looks/judgements. That’s why unisex/gender-neutral public toilets are healthier than gender-based bathrooms, even the inclusive-intended ones. It’s like separating them into hair types, that would be unconfortable/offensive for a lot of people, that doesn’t mean they are hairless.
You could be pronoun non-conforming and pronoun questioning.
An orientation in which one experiences attraction only to their idea of what a person is like. This attraction may fade as one learns more about the other person, or one may not feel as attracted to the person themself, but still feel attraction to their conception of the person.
Firstly, a little defenition (because I didn’t precisely what it was and a lot of people probably don’t either) :
Functional diversity is a politically and socially correct term for special needs, disability, impairment and handicap, which began to be used in Spain in scientific writing, at the initiative of those directly affected, in 2005. (from Wikipedia).
Here’s the pride flag :
Functional Diversity
Flag meanings
Background : Disabled pride
First stripe (from left to right) : Chronic pains
Second stripe : Mental and intellectual functional diversity
Third stripe : Physical functional diversity
Forth stripe : Neurodiversity
Fith stripe : Disabilities
Note : I’m personally not a fan of those terms because it implies that saying disabled is inherently badnegative. But I’m only “against” that when it’s a non-disabled person saying those terms. If you’re disabled and identify as a person with special needs and/or with a functional diversity, it’s amazing, super valid and you’re wonderful!
Uranodionian (uranodioning): the bisexual gender; a sexually ambiguous person; bisexous; ambivalent oriented/mixed orientation-gender; experiencing heterosexual and homosexual attractions; being uranian and dionian; both variant & conformant; an equaric duaric; a contraic/enanteic symmaic; straight gay. Encompassing bi women (uranodioningin) and men (uranodioningtum).
GØy, gøy, g∅y or g⌀y (or g0y): a word, derived from gay at least in Brazil, to describe a subcultural and countercultural movement and community, of MLM, MDM and MSM (men who like/date/sex men), ascribing or prescribing a unwillingliness to perform sexual acts anally, however it’s dubious whether the unwillingness is bottomingly and/or toppingly intercoursality/penetration, depending the individual’s response intrapersonally.
Flag is a vertically horizontally arbitrarily inverted spin of the “Brazilian” and “American” g0y flags, findable in Wikimedia Commons.
Note: some say the etymology is goy, but it’s called gói in Portuguese, so it doesn’t make total sense to affirm so when it’s a term predominantly Brazilian, specially because I’ve never seen gǾy/gǿy nor gǾi/gǿi.
Since gemder go brr was uncomfy making sexual flags, I decided to make my own comic/toonsexual flags based on the romantic ones. If you feel more comfortable in imaginary sexual relationships than real ones, this maybe the flag for you. This could be due to neurodivergence and/or past trauma, or just due to asexuality.
Definition from the LGBTA wiki: a musicagender and xenogender in which one’s gender is best described as being or being like rock music, metal music, or similar genres. It is loud, aggressive, and expressive.
«Western Scholarship on Third Genders: What does the Gender “Trinary” Do?» referring to third-genders contrasted with binaries
Mar 16: non-trinary is coined synonymously with non-quaternary, but meaning the same as “aquaternary” alluding a tridimentional trinary (a conventional trinary (M./F./N. [N. of neuter/neutral]) that includes nullity
Mar 17: (qua)ternary/binary nongender unspecification is also beyond neither and both
JUNE 4: @exorsexistbullshit coins (or recoins independently/isolatedly) “gender trinarism” describing it as “the idea that all nonbinary people are just a separate gender from women and men”
11 June: first atrinary flag, using anonbinary flag format
16 August: second atrinary flag, using abinary flag template
2019
Jan 6th: @momma-mogai-sphinx coins the first flag for “anontrinary” and groups atrinary, anontrinary and anonbinary as “specific subcategories for nonbinary gender identities”
Jan 20th: leptary is coined, now nontrinary is a nongender arity and atrinary an agender arity
Mar 27th: gender arities are reorganized and explained individually
Jul 8th: user leptrois (us)/we explain(s) leptarity/leptariety
Do you remember another significant event for trinary? Comment in the notes or reblogging so we know/sending an ask
PSSD (Post-SSRI/SNRI sexual dysfunction): an iatrogenic, distressing, multidimensional sexual health condition caused directly by the previous use of selective serotonin/–norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs/SNRIs)/tricyclic antidepressants (TCAs).
Não existe só um tipo de amor, nem somente o singular e o nuclear.
O intuito da postagem não é catalogar um glossário léxico, mas sim mostrar que a não-monogamia não está presa somente a polifidelidades, também há termos que não foram muito difundidos, academicamente falando, especialmente na lusofonia (língua portuguesa).
Como diz na própria imagem, a não-monogamia engloba todo relacionamento interpessoal que não se enquadra na monogamia estrita, onde há uma monofidelidade estrita a ser seguida (aquela onde há uma fidelidade singular, à só uma pessoa, e qualquer coisa fora da norma, como a amizade colorida, já é uma infidelidade).
É muito comum, confundirem o poliamor e a monogamia como se fossem polares opostos ou separados, mas podem se juntar, inclusive há uma área cinza que fica entre a monogamia e a não-monogamia.
A diferença entre os sufixos -gamia e -amor são para separar casamentos (gamos em Grego) de relacionamentos amorosos [românticos ou (quasi)platônicos]. O não-monoamor engloba o poliamor, a não-amoridade (engloba a arromanticidade e aplatonicidade), relações livres, a não-monofidelidade (onde há fidelidade fluída, fidelidade nula ou plural, e entre outras formas, porém consentidas), entre outras não-monoamoridades (plurais ou nulas). Para algumas pessoas, a infidelidade também faz parte do não-monoamor, porém isso não é oficial.
Amoridade (amoria ou amorismo) é para distinguir de outras formas de amores ou amorosidades existentes fora de relacionamentos “amorosos” e gâmicos, visto que em inglês o sufixo é “amory”, que quando traduzidos podem significar afetividade amorosa (ou afeto amoroso) apenas. Pode também significar namoro, mas nem todo relacionamento amoroso é visto dessa forma, podem ser companheirismos ou parcerias.
Amizades são aderentes à não-monogamia, como quando elas podem ser coloridas, saí da monofidelidade estrita, onde são esperadas exclusividades singulares das práticas sexuais, românticas, estéticas, na maioria das vezes as sensoriais (visto que nem todo toque, seja labial ou não, é interligado a atração erótica-sexual), entre outras afetividades, advindas do ciúme ou não, são pré-determinadas para a continuidade existencial da relação. Logo, amizade colorida e suingue cai no não-monoamor, podendo existir uma ambivalência mono-poliamorosa.
A monofidelidade pode variar, então deixo claro que ela somente é empirista (construção social) e intra-interpretativa (interpretação entre membres da relação). Na monofidelidade clássica por exemplo, era esperada que as “ficadas” (vulgo relacionamentos sem vínculos, popularmente pegações, sexo casual ou “rolos”) antes do relacionamento não existissem, mas esse pensamento foi desconstruído com o tempo, porém ainda muito presente culturalmente, quando como é desconfortável citar experiências passadas dentro da relação atual.
Há relacionamentos onde têm fluidez amorosa, ou gâmicas, podendo entrar em espectros tanto da amoria singular quanto da não-monoamoria como quando um relacionamento termina e volta, quando a relação se abre e depois fica fechada ou quando há uma polifidelidade e muda para monofidelidade, as possibilidades são diversas, contudo isso não seria uma monoamoridade estrita.
Gamias fluídas são aquelas que podem ser monogamias, mas que são aderentes à não-monogamia, ela não é estrita mas pode fluir entre ser uma gamia nula e singular, plural e singular, plural e nula, ou todas as coisas juntas. Nesse sentido, o casamento acabaria, reataria ou incluiria multilateralmente mais de duas pessoas, e por aí vai.
Como comentaram, gamia, do grego “gámos”, tem a ver com quanta gente você quer ter como parceire afetivo mais profundo; o casamento tradicional graças aos deuses está morrendo há décadas aqui no Ocidente e nos satélites dele, e não serve como referência tão grande assim.
Já em casamentos, grupais ou singulares, podem não ser vistos como dentro da não-monogamia, há afirmações de que a poligamia são várias monogamias estritas, tanto que ressignificaram termos como a poliginia e poliandria dentro do poliamor, para casamentos plurais consentidos e com liberdade de escolha, diferentes das tradicionais bigamias e poligamias. Há também casamentos abertos ou livres, podendo fechar quando fluídos, onde o casal (ou trisal, quadrisal, etc.) pode incluir outras parcerias dentro da relação, sendo chamadas de relações multilaterais, podendo adotá-las como membras do relacionamento sem a intenção de casar (ou amasiar) com ela também.
A sologamia (ou autocasamento) é mais cultural e performativa, nunca foi jurídica, só a solteiridade (ou solteirismo) que é um estado civil, onde a pessoa pode ser nonamorosa e não querer um relacionamento com ninguém, ou desejar um relacionamento quando amorosa. Não devemos confundir agamia (casamento nulo), sologamia e anamoria com o celibato involuntário (incel, popularmente “não escolhi mas estou esperando”).
Os conceitos culturais de monogamia podem mudar dependendo da época e localidade, a monogamia clássica é chamada aquela onde duas pessoas se casam virgem e mantêm relações sexuais e românticas exclusivas ao matrimônio, adicionalmente essa amoridade deveria durar até a morte sem divórcios, algo muito raro no Brasil porém existente. Sabe-se que é mais praticado dentro da heterogamia (casamentos entre homens e mulheres).
Observações: é possível uma pessoa ser poliamor e agâmica ao mesmo tempo, muitos dentro do poliamor não desejam casamento por ter uma alusão do amor livre com anarquia afetiva; relacionamentos amorosos e casamentos podem ser românticos ou (quasi)platônicos (ou amicais), pois são interpessoais, logo podem ser classificados tanto como amizades quanto romances, porém são diferentes de relações sociais e familiares onde o amor é distinguído. Contudo, somente membros dentro da relação vão poder dizer se o que elus vivênciam é romantico ou (quasi)platonico. Complementando: anamor e agamia têm a ver com não querer relacionamentos afetivos, e não tem a ver com não sentir atração (sexual ou romântica), como na assexualidade; Monogamias são aderentes na não-monogamia quando não são estritas, cluster marriage é um exemplo que vocês podem verificar nas referências; Ninguém está rotulando ninguém, vocês podem se identificar como indefinides ou incertes afetivamente falando e não especificar se são plurais, fluídes ou singulares; Fiquem a vontade para desenhar outras bandeiras.
#Resumo: foram abordadas as definições de não(mono)gamia/amoria, podendo ela ser parcial [semi(gamia/amoria)], fluída, singular, nuclear, plural ou até mesmo indefinida.
Na imagem as definições de não-monogamia, agamia, anamor, fluências gâmicas e amorosas, com exemplos de não-monoamores. Ao lado esquerdo as bandeiras da não-monogamia, de relações grupais, poliamorosas e livres (rli), das gamias fluídas (gamyflux), da polimonofluidez (polymonoflux), agâmica, da relação aberta e um símbolo do amor livre.
Vivo fazendo junção de palavras sem contextualizar, como se aqueles termos fossem retirados de livros cheios de cripto-arcaísmos academicistas e preciosismos neo-linguísticos. Só que não, eu mesmo invento sem criar livros enormes e cheios de devaneio para explicar coisas do dia-a-dia. Mas vou fazer um pequeno glossário antes de começar os textos.
Polinormatividade: normas (popularmente cagação de regras) inventadas só para dizer que este é o padrão poliantrópico (poliamor ou poligâmico). Já citada em textos de Assexual Orelhudo. Lembrando que polinormativo é diferente de ‘polissexista’ ou ‘poligamismo’, nada se compara ao monogamismo e mononormatividade que são supremacismos e elitismos afetivos. Poliginia mascunormativa e falocêntrica: basicamente a primeira e velha imagem do que monogamistas pensam sobre o que é poliamor e poligamia, alegando ser a coisa mais machista do mundo dicishétero (onde só o homem é livre para se relacionar com quem quiser). Isso é uma realidade compulsória e sentida até mesmo em relações não-mono. Há uma prescrição cis-heteropatriarcal do como relacionamentos poli ‘funcionam’. Mascunormatividade foi cunhada na orientando.org, se não me engano, para se referir a norma masculina (dentro e fora do meio não-binário). Supremacia monogamista: todo o higienismo de relacionamento amato-normativo, que se baseia na idéia como se relacionamentos estritamente monogâmicos, monofiéis e fechados fossem o correto e os únicos funcionais. Também advocam e defendem a infidelidade sem consentimento, talaricagem não-consentida e traição, dando-as perdões fiscais, para jamais admitirem que praticam abusos e auto-destruição em nome do amor monogâmico, pondo toda culpa na não-monogamia. Monofidelidade performativa: fingir que sua fidelidade singular e estrita é perfeita, também evitar falar de pensamentos ‘carnais’, promíscuos e/ou epicenos, ignorando e superficializando atrações estéticas por outras pessoas, psiquicamente nem se identificando com a animalia. Performatividade advém de ‘performative allyship’, junção inglesa pra ‘militância de telão’, ativismo pelo qual só é exercido em frente às câmeras. Ou seja, alusão de que para a sociedade, sua relação é linda e maravilhosa (eternamente feliz), mas omitindo os bastidores implicitos e ocultos da espera da vida pública.
Agora iremos traçar o que é gamia, e o que a diferencia da amoria (amorismo/amoridade, vem de amory/amorous, relação amorosa). Seria namoro um relacionamento amoroso? Há quem defina que seja um combo de compromisso, seriedade, fidelidade, afeto e sexo. Mas e assexuais não podem ser monoamor ou poliamor também? Logicamente essas combinações não são reais para todo mundo.
Casamento afinal, o que realmente é? Um trato assinado para relações estáveis civil / religiosamente? O tempo passa, o que antes era chamada de relação amasiada (amasiar poderia ser morar junto, fazer tudo que fazem na gamia numa relação amorosa porém sem oficialidade), hoje já é casar, para boa parte da população. Há também as queerplatonicidades (ou relações quasiplatônicas), que se assemelham muito a isso, com um tom de amicabilidade, familiaridade e proximidade sem serem românticas ou amicais, semelhantes a ‘melhores amizades’ porém ‘quase-platônicas’. Vale lembrar que amizade e platonicidade (não confundir com platonismo) também são empiristas (construídas socialmente).
Quando falamos de poliamor assexual, há muitas pessoas que presumem que assexuais são pessoas absolutamente românticas (adicionalmente excessivas). Mas já imaginou aroaces (assexuais arromântiques) se declarando poli? Essas pessoas existem, tanto é que existe a bandeira polyaffectionate (poliafetuosa) para pessoas arromânticas (a que está na imagem). Tendemos a enxergar os conceitos de exclusividade amorosa sem uma fidelidade totalitária, como representada por aí. Lembrando também que há espectros das assexualidades e arromanticidades, e até mesmo pessoas que evitam rótulos -sexuais e -românticos para usarem -sensoriais/-sensuais, -sociais e -platônicos, devido a conotações pessoais (tanto externas quanto internas). Arromanticidade, nonamor, sologamia e agamia são separadas.
Desconstruindo tudo isso, podemos afirmar que, assim como existem relações estéticos e mentais (espiritual ou intelectual), há casamentos que são apenas platônicos e poliamorias meramente afeituosas e amicais, até mesmo celibato romântico. Tantas combinações e formas, formando diversas afinidades mútuas e afetividades interpessoais (um leque de a/diversidades), que podem ser variantes e diversificadas.
Sobre a segregação de gênero: mulheres têm grande dificuldade em reconhecer e externalizar seu poliamor. Por que homens aparentam sentir-se livres para fazerem o que quiser, enquanto mulheres se sentem hiper-protegidas ou ameaçadas dentro de relacionamentos? Por que a representação homenil de poli é hipogâmica na maioria das vezes?
Todo esse elitismo mental e social, enfrentados por pessoas não-mono, pode ser sentido por pseudo-monogâmicos que reforçam sua monofidelidade sem estrutura. Ou seja, muita gente é afetada em nome do cis-heteroamor mononormativo, dicisheterossexismo sentido de longe e de perto. E como vem gente dizer que isso tudo não é repressão, opressão ou um tipo de discriminação?
Outra coisa: heteroPATRIarcado, ou seja, o pai (homem) arca com a relação heteronormativa. Pessoas lésbicas e sáficas são diretamente fetichizadas por homens (e na maioria das vezes sem consentimento). E se o homem que manda, homens gays que são mais punidos. A transhomofobia de homens cis é majoritariamente contra pessoas designadas homenis/masculinas ao nascer e que são variantes (trans/gays/bi/pluri/nb/etc.). Desde criança somos repreendidas para não sermos femininas, andróginas, meninas, ‘mulherzinha’ ou homo-afetivas. Putafobia enfrentada na pele, enraizada pelo imperialismo e obscurantismo de períodos colonialistas. Isso reflete em como a homossexualidade e transsexualidade são criminalizadas e condenadas em certos países da Afro-Ásia, onde há específicas permissividades para mulheridades trans e lesbicidades (lesbianidades e saficidades pluris), tudo em nome do homem-centrismo poligâmico. Concluí-se que a transhomofobia feminina/mulheril também é maior com indíviduos designados femininos/mulheris ao nascer e que são variantes. A homossocialidade nos provoca a competir e nos desvencilhar da irmandade (fraternidade / sororidade). transhomofobia pode ser substituída por cisheterossexismo
Vale lembrar que poligamia e bigamia são vistas em certas intersecções da não-monogamia como monogamias plurais, pois monogamia é definida como estrita e sem liberdade (autoritária, fechada e não-livre).
Descrição da imagem: Símbolos poliamor em volta, lembrando o sinal de às, que na comunidade ace simboliza aroaces, tanto de área cinza quanto preta. Escrito: Amoria é só relacionamento sério e estritamente mono? Gamia: casamento, relação amasiada ou marital? Polinormatividade, poliginia falo-centrica e mascunormativa, supremacismo monogamista, monofidelidade performativa e monossexista, heteropatriarcado heteroterrorista, prescrição mononormativa e a política de respeitabilidade. São todas as realidades da monogamia clássica que nos imobiliza até hoje, trazidas junto ao imperialismo. Muitos agem como se casassem virgem hoje em dia, pois virgindade assim como o romance são empiristas (construções sociais) e auto-interpretadas. Poliafeição (poliafeto) sem romance e poliamor sem sexo? Existem! E não se resume apenas a amizade. Poliafetividade poliace existe e resiste! Nossa existência te ameaça? Por que se sente defensiva pelo nome da monogamia? Tudo isso leva questionar como você se relaciona? [fecha descrição]
Apresento o desenho mais mal pintado dos ultimos anos, feito para celebrar a data de hoje. É o aniversário de uma amiga querida e, este ano, uma data interpretada como o “fim da escuridão” [www]. Contudo, para mim e para a minha comunidade, é ainda uma outra coisa: É o dia da visibilidade bissexual, e tal como no ano passado, voltei a fazer um desenho para comemorar.
Primeiro, curiosidades sobre o desenho:
As cores predominantes são as cores da bandeira bi, rosa escuro, roxo e azul escuro. As cores derivam de fusão entre o triângulo rosa – que foi por muito tempo usado como um símbolo gay (apesar de originalmente criado para distinguir pessoas homossexuais durante o holocausto) – com um triângulo azul, simbolizando a atração por géneros diferentes do próprio. O roxo, inicialmente lavanda, simbolizava a intersecção entre esses dois tipos de atração.
As duas luas são um símbolo bissexual, que foi criado depois dos “biangles” (triângulos bissexuais, que não aderiram tão bem por fazer lembrar o símbolo nazi).
Tentei retratar dinâmicas diferentes entre as personagens, pois acredito que todo o tipo de relacionamento é válido e há pessoas bissexuais em todos os tipos de situações: relacionamentos poliamorosos ou monogâmicos, em relacionamentos, solteiras, casadas e divorciadas, de todos os géneros e com pessoas de qualquer género, quer mulher, homem ou uma pessoa não-binária. Também tentei colocar alguma diversidade etno-racial.
Agora, vamos mesmo à parte ativista porque eu não podia postar isto sem um textão:
» A bissexualidade define-se como (potencial) atração por dois ou mais géneros. Isto quer dizer que uma pessoa bi não gosta de necessariamente a) apenas pessoas de dois géneros b) apenas homens e mulheres/pessoas cis c) pessoas do próprio género d) pessoas do género oposto.
Essa definição é usada por organizações, aqui algumas: [www]. Digo isto para não me virem com a definição de dicionários que nem reconhecem a existência de pessoas não-binárias. Negar a definição das próprias pessoas que são algo é uma bela merda, mas ainda o é mais se a definição for usada por organizações.
“Bi” não tem de significar “dois” da mesma forma que o cavalo-marinho não é um cavalo, outubro não é o mês oito e o elemento químico bismuth tem mais que duas cores quando cristalizado [www]. A etimologia da palavra nem sempre pode ser levada à letra.
Mesmo que se levasse o bi no sentido literal, ainda seria possível bissexuais não gostarem só de homens e mulheres. O bi pode ser entendido como dois grupos, como “género igual e géneros diferentes”, ou “intersecção entre homo e heterossexual”, embora esse não seja um entendimento tão inclusivo.
Pessoas bissexuais não são transfóbicas por causa da identificação. Aliás, se ser bissexual implicasse transfobia, não haveria uma sobreposição tão grande entre a comunidade bi e trans.
Uma pessoa pode ser simultaneamente bi e pan (se gostar de todos os géneros), ou bi e poly (se gostar de um numero entre dois e vários géneros). Ou outra label do espectro multissexual. Mas se a pessoa só gosta de 2 géneros, as labels disponíveis são apenas bi, heteroflexível e homoflexível. E queer, porque queer acaba por ser mais uma atitude política que uma label, embora também possa ser um termo ofensivo.
Uma pessoa é que sabe como é que se identifica. Se alguém diz que é pan/poly/outra label, não é “basicamente bissexual” e não deve ser obrigada a aceitar bissexual como termo guarda-chuva. Por outro lado, uma pessoa que se identifica como bissexual e gosta de mais do que dois géneros não deve ser obrigada a usar outras labels por causa de definições desatualizadas e de pessoas que acham confuso que conceitos se sobreponham. Aliás, ninguém é obrigado sequer a usar labels.
Se a label é importante para a pessoa, deve-se respeitar isso e não tentar mudar a label ou silenciá-la. Labels podem ser importantes por muitas razões: [www].
» A bissexualidade não implica:
…Tendência a trair (não, bissexuais não sentem falta “do outro” género). Se a pessoa trai, ou é por falta de ética ou é porque o relacionamento não está a ir muito bem. Muitos bissexuais até são indiferentes ao género, então porque que se trairia alguém por causa de uma caraterística que não faz diferença?
…Que se seja poliamoroso, pois de novo, ser bissexual não faz com que se sinta falta de nada e há pessoas bissexuais que se dão bem em relacionamentos monogâmicos e/ou fechados.
…Que se pare de ser bissexual quando se está num relacionamento ou casado. Fidelidade a alguém não implica que não se reconheça que a pessoa com quem houve comprometimento podia ser de outro género e que isso não impediria a atração.
…Indecisão, nem confusão. Sim, é possível que alguém questione a sua orientação e decida usar a label bi enquanto isso, mas mesmo que possa concluir que é hétero, use a label como “stepping stone” para se assumir/entender que é gay ou lésbica, ou mesmo concluir que é de outra orientação OU género qualquer, não deve ser desrespeitada enquanto o faz, e quem é de facto bissexual não deve ser desmerecido por causa de a label ter sido usada por quem NÃO é.
…Que não se tenha preferência. Há bissexuais que têm, e outros que não. Para grande parte das pessoas bissexuais, género é como cor de cabelo: algumas pessoas preferem pessoas loiras, outras morenas, outras ruivas, e outras simplesmente não acham que faça grande diferença. E mesmo que alguém prefira uma pessoa loira, isso não a impede de se comprometer com uma morena.
…Atração apenas por homens e mulheres, por apenas dois géneros, por apenas pessoas cis (ou seja, não-trans), pelo próprio género, pelo género oposto. Se há pessoas bissexuais que apenas gostam de alguma dessas combinações? Sem dúvida. São a totalidade? Não, de maneira nenhuma. Sei que estou a repetir-me, é que parece que isto não entra na cabeça de quase ninguém.
» A bissexualidade não é: Uma fase, folclore, indecisão, poligamia, um passo intermédio entre hétero e gay, 50% atração por homens 50% por mulheres, uma versão transfóbica de pansexualidade, aquilo que pansexuais “basicamente” são, atração por 2 sexos, etc… as razões para isso foram praticamente todas mencionadas em cima, foi só para reforçar.
Era isso, a minha contribuição é pequena mas fico feliz por tê-la feito. Espero que ajude a combater o apagamento sistemático desta orientação, já que é por esse motivo que o dia não é chamado “Dia da bissexualidade” e sim “Dia da VISIBILIDADE bi”.
Uma pessoa Trans é uma pessoa que não se identifica com o género atribuído à nascença. Uma pessoa Cis é o oposto.
Há motivos para escrever/dizer apenas “Trans”, ou “Trans*”, em vez de especificar entre Transsexual e Transgénero – esses dois conceitos são ligeiramente distintos [ver mito 2], então dizer Trans é mais inclusivo. A palavra também pode servir de guarda-chuva para identidades não-binárias, embora seja raro que se-a use de forma tão abrangente ou mesmo que pessoas não-binárias se revejam na label/comunidade trans.
Podem ver as bandeiras em cima. Não são tão usadas, mas decidi também mostrar bandeiras mais específicas dos géneros trans-binários. Uma mulher trans é/identifica-se como MULHER e deve ser tratada com tal. E vice-versa.
*OBS: A bandeira para mulher trans é muitas vezes designada “transfeminina”, e a dos homens trans é designada “transmasculina”.
Por ordem, as bandeiras são a bandeira trans, transfeminina e transmasculina.
Aqui estão alguns termos associados à comunidade trans num geral:
IAFAB/IAMAB – “Intersex assigned female/male at birth”, ou seja, termo exclusivamente para pessoas intersexo que foram designadas mulheres/homens à nascença. Pode estar relacionado com o facto de que muitos médicos operam as crianças ao nascer, sem esperar que a pessoa em questão cresça para poder consentir e ignorando que a comunidade intersexo se opõe a isso (não é um procedimento medicamente necessário, causa mais danos do que resolve e geralmente só é feito para a criança ser mais aceitável pela a sociedade). Alternativa: FAFAB/FAMAB (”forcibly assigned female/male at birth”);
Aqui estão alguns termos associados a identidades trans binárias:
FTM/MTF – “Female to male/Male to female”. São termos “ultrapassados” e que não devem ser aplicados a pessoas trans a não ser que as mesmas os reclamem, pois passam a ideia de que, respetivamente, homens trans nasceram mulheres e mulheres trans nasceram homens.
FTF/MTM – “Female to female/Male to male”. São termos que substituem os anteriores pois rejeitam a ideia de que mulheres trans nasceram homens e homens trans nasceram mulheres – sempre o foram, a sociedade é que não sabia e, como crianças têm uma fraca noção de identidade, não tinham como protestar.
Creo que una de las más importantes creaciones de AVEN es el Triángulo de AVEN, con él puedes explicarle a la gente por qué las categorías rígidas que se asignan a la gente: “homosexual”, “heterosexual” o “bisexual” y ya, no representan la realidad, eso no representa la diversidad y que cada persona es única en su manera de sentir, la sexualidad es un espectro, y una buena manera de representarlo rápida y gráficamente es este maravilloso triángulo que he querido representar de manera que se entienda mejor. Espero que lo compartan.
Alright, I was uncomfortable making flags for the sexual interpretations – so I apologize for that. But, here they are!! Again, flag colors made using my synesthesia! (hope i spelled that right?)
a gender related to princesses, but not in the typical way of big castles, flowy dresses, and princesscore, instead more related to magic, discipline, court life, and princess school!
|| flag id: 2 images. image 1: a 6-striped flag. the colors in order from the top are light pastel yellow, light yellow, pastel pink, pink, pastel purple, and light purple. image 2: the same flag with an added emblem of a white crown. end id ||
no real color meanings, yellow pink and purple were part of the request! also see princessgender!
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[ID: a white t-shirt flat against a white background. on the chest is red blocky text in all-caps that reads, “angels have no gender but lots of sex”. End ID]
A gender relating to bonfires and other outdoor flames (such as those that come from fire pits), specifically the feeling of euphoria that comes from the smell of their smoke.
Pyra (Pyras) – Derived from the Ancient Greek “pûr (πῦρ)”, meaning “fire, blaze”.
Fumo – The latin verb for “smoke”.
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didn’t like the flag, made a new one – feel free to use either
This term was flagless earlier today so I made a flag for it. It’s meant to look like the hot sun over a desert.
“Hotgender is a gender in the Season system which can be described as "A gender connected to hot weather”. One who identifies as this gender might find euphoria in hot weather or heat in general. This gender can only be felt during hot days.“ (From lgbta wiki)
a gender related to apples, puppies, and apple puppy aesthetics! this gender can feel like a connection to both apples and puppies, or like the gender itself is an apple puppy! can be seen as a combination of pupgender and any apple gastrogender(s)!
|| flag id: 2 images. image 1: a 5-striped flag. the colors in order from the top are brown, light brown, white, light yellow, and red. image 2: the same flag with an added emblem of a brown paw print. next to the paw print is a small red apple emblem. end id ||
term and flag by me!
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no real color meanings- top brown as a common color in dog’s fur, and bottom colors resemble that of apples!
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3 flags, all of them are made out of three coloured stripes – the top one is purple, the middle one is pink and the bottom one is green. The first flag is left without any modification, the second one has text on it “all gender identities” on purple stripe, “aesthetics and their cores” on pink stripe and “fluidity and flux of gender” on green stripe. The last flag has genderfluid symbol, it’s a circle with asteriks in the middle and wavy line connecting circle with female and male gender signs that are connected into one.
Coricfluid
Coricfluid is gender made by user Mycosst on lgbta wikia and I decided to make alternative flag + another meaning.
Coricfluid means that your gender, it’s intensity or how you perceive it changes due to aesthetics you see (on pictures, art) or you’re around. Gender can but doesn’t need to be fully dependant on the aesthetics. Coricfluid can also mean that your coric gender is fluid and aesthetics you’re around don’t need (but can) influence your gender identity.
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TERF or in TERF rhetoric (transmed, anti-kink, anti-ship, anti mspec lesbian/gays), anti endo-systems, sysmed, don’t believe in D/As, make fun of tone indicators, rainbow meatie, believe RPF is okay, believe pronouns equal gender, if you’re American, you’re on thin ice /srs
A romantic identity on the aromantic spectrum in which one’s autism greatly affects one’s romantic orientation/lack of romantic attraction. Autiaro is not autism as an orientation, but rather an aromantic identity that is so heavily affected by or influenced by one’s autism, that one’s aromanticism and one experience of having autism cannot be unlinked from each other.
🎧 Autiace
A sexual identity on the asexual spectrum in which one’s autism greatly affects one’s sexual orientation/lack of sexual attraction. Autiaro is not autism as an orientation, but rather a sexual identity that is so heavily affected by or influenced by one’s autism, that one’s asexuality and one experience of having autism cannot be unlinked from each other.
a gender related to pineapples, puppies, and pineapple puppy aesthetics! this gender can feel like a connection to both pineapples and puppies, or like the gender itself is a pineapple puppy! can be seen as a combination of pupgender and any pineapple gastrogender(s)!
|| flag id: 2 images. image 1: a 5-striped flag. the colors in order from the top are brown, light brown, white, light yellow, and gold. image 2: the same flag with an added emblem of a brown paw print. next to the paw print is a small pineapple emblem. end id ||
term and flag by me!
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no real color meanings- top brown as a common color in dog’s fur, and bottom colors resemble that of pineapples!
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(I’ve never done this before, but I’m going to because it’s very specific and I’m pretty sure it hasn’t been coined yet?)
Cyfnosgender
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A gender that feels like a summer evening/night, a breeze after you’ve been swimming, hanging out with friends, and blackberries. It’s a calm, nostalgic gender.
The name is derived from the Welsh word for dusk/twilight, by the way. It’s said like “kuv-noss”. I can’t explain the flag, and it’s a pretty crappy flag, but whatever.
bendrownedgender : a gender that is deeply connected to and influenced by the creepypasta character Ben Drowned, from the Legend of Zelda Majoras Mask ARG. -🌸
Definition from the LGBTA wiki: a musicagender and xenogender in which one’s gender is best described as being or being like rock music, metal music, or similar genres. It is loud, aggressive, and expressive.
Made a flag for a gender coined by my friend Disco @rainbowtalon!! She coined it n chose the colors + stripes meaning, I just made the flag for them!!
Monstercatic/Badkitic: a gender identity relating to a love of monstercat beginning in the early 2010s, that still persists as part of the bearer’s life.
Each Stripe represents a genre of EDM music and its color has a specific track tied to it + the colors were taken straight from each tracks video!
You can see the meanings under cut!!
With Logo Without Logo (direct links to em juuust incase tumblr ruins the quality. Warning they’re VERY BIG images- just sayin incase someones pc doesn’t handle loading big files too well!)
🌈❗Pls respect my Banner, thank you!❗🌈 ❌🌈Pr-oshi-ppers/An-ti-An-tis do not interact🌈❌
Femaslinity or femmaslinity: refers to the act of having or showing qualities associated with femulinity- a set of behaviors, presentations, and roles which were/are typically culturally associated with being a femasle/femache (femmache/femmasle); the augmentative of mascfem/femmasc/femasc.
Femmasline can be a form of experiencing both masculinity and femininity as a unified/united gender quality (monogender/unigender, gendervast or multigender/polygender), being between masculine and feminine (centrigender, midgender), a combination (genderpotion, gender shuffler) or the qualifier of a lideogender (lideospec) expression. Lideo being an ideogender (ideospec, lideobinary in ideobinary), similar to lingender/liagender (liaspec, liabinary in viabinary, a viagender).
Persaficto-: An orientation and subset of Ficto- where one is only attracted to fictional characters that are portrayed by live action actors; When one is only attracted to fictional characters that are played by real, in person actors
Impersaficto-: An orientation and subset of Ficto- for either fictionkin or introjects who are only attracted to their character or the character thier based on(for introjects); this could mean attraction to themselves or to portrayals of that character, regardless of if that’s the one they came from
Introimpersaficto-: An orientation and subset of Ficto- and Impersaficto- for introjects who are only attracted to their character/the character their based on; this could mean attraction to themselves or portrayals of that character, with it more likely being to the fictional versions of themselves
Kinimpersaficto-: An orientation and subset of Ficto- and Impersaficto- for fictionkin who are only attracted to their character; this could mean attraction to themselves or portrayals of that character, regardless of if that’s the one they came from
I didn’t have any ideas for flags, so if anyone wants to take a crack at it, go ahead! ~Mod Shady
Definition: A neurogender which can only be understood in the context of being autistic or when one’s autism greatly affects one’s gender or how one experiences gender. Autigender can be a stand alone gender or it can be used in combination with another gender to show that one’s experience of that gender is heavily influenced by being autistic.
Autibxy : A gender that is both autiboy and agender/no gender. You can be a autiboy and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling autimale and not feeling gender.
Thanks to @wikipunk for giving my this wonderful idea! 💛
I coined the term and created the flag. ( •̀ ω •́ )✧
Autigxrl : A gender that is both autigirl and agender/no gender. You can be a autigirl and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling autifemale and not feeling gender.
Autixnby : A gender that is both autienby and agender/no gender. You can be a autienby and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling autienby and not feeling gender.
Autixenbx : A gender that is both autixenby and agender/no gender. You can be a autixenby and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling autixenby and not feeling gender.
a gender related to kiwis, puppies, and kiwi puppy aesthetics! this gender can feel like a connection to both kiwis and puppies, or like the gender itself is a kiwi puppy! can be seen as a combination of pupgender and any kiwi gastrogender(s)!
|| flag id: 2 images. image 1: a 5-striped flag. the colors in order from the top are brown, light brown, white, light green, and greenish tan. image 2: the same flag with an added emblem of a brown paw print. next to the paw print is a small kiwi emblem. end id ||
term and flag by me!
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no real color meanings- top brown as a common color in dog’s fur, and bottom colors resemble that of kiwis!
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