Even if I don’t want to be a part of sex myself, I do still have hormone responses to attractive people, and enjoy porn/erotica and masturbating. Seems like this could be me but I’m a little thrown by the terminology I guess. 2/2
The honest answer:
If experts can’t agree on how to define “sexual attraction” (psychologists, sexologist, hell even human biologists/ecologists), how the HELL do we expect the average person off the street to agree on a definition? Seriously. You ask 20 different people, you’re going to get 20 different answers for how they define “sexual attraction”.
The “personal” answer:
Sexual attraction, in my own eyes, can be defined as eagerly seeking out sexual contact with someone, fully aware of the risks/benefits it could give, and not under any kind of mind altering substance (drugs, alcohol, marijuana, etc.). It’s having the mental clarity of knowing what you’re getting yourself involved with, and happily consenting to it.
“Drunk sex” to me isn’t “true sexual attraction” (or anything like this) because alcohol (because of how it affects your brain) naturally drops your judgment and prejudice. You aren’t aware of what you’re actually doing.
The “who fucking knows” answer:
Honestly, we’re social by nature. We are all just trying to figure out where the hell we belong. So to me, the easiest way to describe aegosexuality in a way that’s graspable and you can understand is the phrase “Mostly in the head, rarely in the sheets”. Why do I say it like this? Because Some aegosexuals are totally okay with fantasizing about a sexual relationship but CAN NOT bring themselves to do “it” in the real world. Others? They might be okay with physical, sexual contact but under very rare circumstances.
Aegosexuality, just like asexuality and the rest of the human sexuality spectrum (whether allosexual/not-asexual or the entire asexual umbrella/community) is COMPLICATED AS SHIT. There is NO “easy” answer to figuring ourselves out (and that’s okay!).
Me attempting to answer your question:
If you feel comfortable exploring your fantasies in your head but you feel like if it came down to the “real world”, you’re just not that interested in “physically” experiencing whatever it is that’s rolling around in your head? You’re probably aegosexual.
While my go to definition of aegosexual is liking the idea of sex without wanting to participate, sometimes I do think that aegosexual is attraction without desire, which then isn’t attraction.
I find people attractive, but would never want to do anything of the sexual nature with the people I find attractive and most likely would never seek out a relationship with them.
Sexual attraction wasn’t even defined in the psychology course I took in college on Romantic Relationships (which I took the semester I started this blog In fall 2017)
As to OP’s question, the liking porn or erotica but not wanting sex ties back to the idea of being autochorissexual, or experiencing a disconnect because the self and your sexuality (hence why the more updated term is aegosexual or an identity less (a-ego, absence of the ego- identity) sexuality.
And to my followers: here you go, another person’s perspective and thoughts on being aegosexual! Woot! I am no longer the only person focusing on this identity (which I have been for the past 2.5+ years)! I’m excited to have another person to see ideas from who focuses solely on the aegosexual identity, as while others have times where they answer asks about it or make collages, there hasn’t been a consistent aegosexual/autochorissexual blog besides me in my memory!
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This is the “color negative” of our aegosexual flag we have for our profile picture (in simple terms – the opposite colors). So here’s another alternative aegosexual flag.
some mspec lesbian flag emotes, edited in the style of the mutant standard pride emotes! feel free to send us requests for more of these, they’re fun to make
from left-right, top-bottom: bi lesbian, pan lesbian, poly lesbian, omni lesbian, mspec lesbian. original flags by @bi-lesbian!
don’t start discourse on this post, you’ll just be blocked. also feel free to use in your servers!
[ IMAGE ID: A six striped flag with sideways V-shapes for stripes. The colors are red, black and blue. The second image is the same flag, except the stripes have been converted into 5 horizontal bands, with blue in the middle stripe, red on top and on bottom, and black bordering each as the topmost and lowermost stripes. ]
A new flag for sterofluid, a gender coined by @mogai-identities-blog ! Redesigned for one of our newer alters, as xe wanted different colors.
Definition: (also found in link) “A fluid nonbinary identity where you feel more feminine depending on
your crush/partner being feminine, or masculine depending on your
crush/partner being masculine. Can fit for androgynous, too.”
[ IMAGE ID: A six striped flag with sideways V-shapes for stripes. The
colors are white, black and blue. The second image is the same flag,
except the stripes have been converted into 5 horizontal bands, with blue in the middle stripe, white on top and on bottom, and black bordering
each as the topmost and lowermost stripes. ]
Definition: Sterofluivir is a nonbinary identity where you feel either masculine, xenine, or nonbinary in nature depending on your crush’s/partner’s gender. Sterofluivir is a type of sterofluid.
blackberrynonbinary/blackberryenby: a slightly flux (but not fluid) neutral gender that is sweet, small, and overall happy, and makes similar genders ‘happy’ around it
gooseberryambi(guine): a slightly flux (but not fluid) ambiguine/masculine + feminine gender that is sweet, small, and overall happy, and makes similar genders ‘happy’ around it; a gender that is a combination of strawberryboy and blueberrygirl
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enby skeptics are the flat earthers of the discourse community tbh
forstiric: a gender reminiscent of and/or related to a forest during a storm. this could be aesthetic, or more metaphorical, with this gender experiencing difficulties and parts of it potentially ‘bending’ or ‘breaking’ without the entire gender being fully destroyed
bechstiric: a gender reminiscent of and/or related to a beach during a storm. this could be aesthetic, or more metaphorical, with this gender experiencing difficulties and parts of it potentially being ‘swept away’ and ‘deposited’ elsewhere without the entire gender being fully destroyed
bylstiric: a gender reminiscent of and/or related to a building during a storm. this could be aesthetic, or more metaphorical, with this gender experiencing difficulties and parts of it potentially ‘collapsing’ or ‘shattering’ without the entire gender being fully destroyed
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hi there, i made a neonic flag bc there werent any :):)
quick explanation of the colorz:
green = liveliness and energy
pink = kindness and positivity
blue = fashion and beauty
black = coolness and superiority B)
if this is too similar to any other flag or if theres any issues with it, plz lmk!
also feel free to edit it as you see fit!
Non oriented: someone without an affectional or relational orientation.
It can group identities like void-, apa-/apath- and pomo-.
outergender: a gender characterized by dysphoria, alienation and feeling wrong, different from everyone else. Fluctuates in clarity and definition. May accompany C-PTSD.
(I want to add that this gender could change/resolve with treatment/therapy)
Note: these terms are not intended to replace the terms; asexual, aromantic, aqueer/aquasiplatonic, aplatonic, aalterous, asensual, aaesthetic or apanspec.
Noenyo ( naan-in-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sexual attraction to no one of any gender(s) or lack there of.
Stripe meanings: no attraction to any binary gender, no attraction to any non-binary genders, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, asexuality, asexual attraction.
Noagno (naan-aag-no)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive romantic attraction to no gender(s) or lack there of
Stripe meanings: no attraction to any binary gender, no attraction to any non-binary genders, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aromanticism, aromantic attraction.
Nounemo ( naan-oo-n-moe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive queer/quasiplatonic attraction no one of any gender(s) or lack there of
Stripe meanings: no attraction to any binary gender, no attraction to any non-binary genders, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aqueer/aquasiplatonicality, aqueer/aquasiplatonic attraction.
Nopyo ( naan-pie-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive platonic attraction to no one of any gender(s) or lack there of
Stripe meanings: no attraction to any binary gender, no attraction to any non-binary genders, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aplatonicality, aplatonic attraction.
Noflico (naan-flea-co)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive alterous attraction to no one of any gender(s) or lack there of
Stripe meanings: no attraction to any binary gender, no attraction to any non-binary gender, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aalterous, aalterous attraction.
Nosoqo (naan-so-que-oh)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sensual attraction to no one of any gender(s) or lack there of
Stripe meanings: no attraction to any binary genders, no attraction to any non-binary genders, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, asensuality, asensual attraction.
Nomicbo ( om-mic-boe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive aesthetic attraction to no one of any gender(s) or lack there of
Stripe meanings: no attraction to any binary genders, no attraction to any non-binary genders, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aaestheticism, aaesthetic attraction.
Note: these terms are not intended to replace the terms skolio- or cetero-
Nonenyo ( known-in-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sexual attraction to non-binary people
Stripe meanings: attraction to enbies of binary/3rd gender alignment,attraction to enbies of no/mutli alignment, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sexuality, sexual attraction.
Nonagno (known-aag-no)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive romantic attraction to nonbinary people
Stripe meanings: attraction to enbies of binary/third gender alignment, attraction to enbies of no/mutli-alignment, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, romanticism, romantic attraction.
Nonunemo ( known-oo-n-moe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive queer/quasiplatonic attraction nonbinary people
Stripe meanings: attraction to enbies of binary/3rd gender alignment, attraction to enbies of no/multi-alignment, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, queer/quasiplatonicality, queer/quasiplatonic attraction.
Nonpyo ( known-pie-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive platonic attraction to nonbinary people
Stripe meanings: attraction to enbies of binary/3rd gender, attraction to enbies of no/multi-alignment, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, platonicality, platonic attraction.
Nonflico (known-flea-co)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive alterous attraction to nonbinary people
Stripe meanings: attraction to enbies of binary/3rd gender alignment, attraction to enbies of no/multi-alignment, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, alterous, alterous attraction.
Nonsoqo (known-so-que-oh)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sensual attraction to nonbinary people
Stripe meanings: attraction to enbies of binary/3rd gender alignment, attraction to enbies of no/multi-alignment, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aestheticism, aesthetic attraction.
Nonmicbo ( known-mic-boe)
Stripe meanings: attraction to enbies of binary/3rd gender alignment, attraction to enbies of no/multi-alignment, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sensuality, sensual attraction.
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive aesthetic attraction to nonbinary people
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sexual attraction to bigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to bigender people with binary gender(s),attraction bigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sexuality, sexual attraction.
Deuxagno (do-aag-no)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive romantic attraction to bigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to bigender people with binary gender(s), attraction to bigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, romanticism, romantic attraction.
Deuxunemo ( do-oo-n-moe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive queer/quasiplatonic attraction bigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to bigender people with binary gender(s), attraction to bigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, queer/quasiplatonicality, queer/quasiplatonic attraction.
Deuxpyo ( do-pie-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive platonic attraction to bigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to bigender people with binary gender(s), attraction to bigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, platonicality, platonic attraction.
Deuxflico (do-flea-co)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive alterous attraction to bigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to bigender people with binary gender(s), attraction to bigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, alterous, alterous attraction.
Deuxsoqo (do-so-que-oh)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sensual attraction to bigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to bigender people with binary gender(s), attraction to bigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aestheticism, aesthetic attraction.
Deuxmicbo ( do-mic-boe)
Stripe meanings: attraction to bigender people with binary gender(s), attraction to bigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sensuality, sensual attraction.
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive aesthetic attraction to bigender people
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sexual attraction to trigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to trigender people with binary gender(s),attraction trigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sexuality, sexual attraction.
Troisagno (twa-aag-no)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive romantic attraction to trigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to trigender people with binary gender(s), attraction to trigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, romanticism, romantic attraction.
Troisunemo ( twa-oo-n-moe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive queer/quasiplatonic attraction trigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to trigender people with binary gender(s), attraction to trigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, queer/quasiplatonicality, queer/quasiplatonic attraction.
Troispyo ( twa-pie-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive platonic attraction to trigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to trigender people with binary gender(s), attraction to trigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, platonicality, platonic attraction.
Troisflico (twa-flea-co)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive alterous attraction to trigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to trigender people with binary gender(s), attraction to trigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, alterous, alterous attraction.
Troisoqo (twa-so-que-oh)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sensual attraction to trigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to trigender people with binary gender(s), attraction to trigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sensuality, sensual attraction.
Troismicbo ( twa-mic-boe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive aesthetic attraction to trigender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to trigender people with binary gender(s), attraction to trigender people with non-binary gender(s), being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aestheticism, aesthetic attraction.
Not sure how long your req has been in my inbox so im sry if its been here awhile, i wasnt notified for sum reason. 🤷 So heres some i was able to whip up using my flags from this post and the most common trans and cis flags ive seen!
Momeflux: Mome raths from Alice and Wonderland, and a gender that fluctuates. It’s masculine leaning and fluctuates between genderless and male but with a feeling of being strange and curious like the movie.
B+ (bi plus): plusic inclusion of identities that are not essentially bisexual in nature, like bigender, bisexous, b-spec and m-spec; feeling represented when people add B+ in the LGTB+ acronym variations.
A- (prefix a): representing yourself as the a in the alphabetical variations of LGBTA+, BATPANDA, QUILTBAG, -QIA+; being asexual, a-gender, androgyne, ambisexual, aromantic, ace-spec, aro-spec, a-spec, anattractional or any other identity variance prefixed with a-.
T* (trans*): used widely within the LGBT+ community to refer to people who are transgender, or self-identfy with related terms and concepts. The asterisk in “trans*” is meant to indicate any and all suffixes that may follow the prefix “trans,” including -gender, -sexual, and -vestite/vesti[c]; making yourself added as the T in post-updated LGBT initials.
– AP
Updated the flag. Should I also put the hot pink and royal blue from bi flag?
To all of us who are a wacky mess and don’t really understand wtf we are.
You are valid my friend. Just because you don’t know which one suits you best or you just don’t like fitting into one term, you’re okay, you’re still part of the community and I love you.
Portuumian: a gender that feels like it holds or harbors other genders, and that is provides shelter for those genders, usually water genders. Latin: portus – harbor
Erbosogender: a gender that feels grassy, toasty, and warm like a summer day. It is connected to grassy meadows, small flowers, weeds, and summer. Italian: erboso – grassy
Autongender: a gender that is graceful, small, soft, and has a “smell” of cinnamon and pumpkin. It is connected to autumn, pumpkins, Halloween, and anything autumn-y. Venetian: auton – autumn
Pludmalean: a gender that feels sandy, thin, and glassy. It is connected to summer, beaches, tropical breezes, hot weather, and water. Latvian: pludmale – beach
Nevicatagender: a gender that is small, cold, and frosty. it is connected to snow, winter, cold weather, snowfall, and air. Italian: nevicata – snowfall
Nevischiogender: a gender that is super tiny, infinite, and clumps with other genders to form one large ice gender. It is connected to snow flurries, winter, and snowstorms. Italian: nevischio – snow flurry
Pessumgender: a gender that is near the bottom of the gender identity overall. it is vague and relatively undefined. Latin: pessum – to the bottom
Iugagender: a gender formed by two combined genders of different alignments. Latin: iugus/jugus – joined together
Bollagender: a gender that is bubbly, light, and small. It is connected to the air, bubbles, and summer. Italian: bolla – bubble
Anguiculigender: a small, snake related gender. it is connected to snakes, bogs, and summer. Latin: anguiculus – small snake
Ranunculigender: a gender that is small, related to Anguiculigender, frogs, and summer weather inside of a marsh, as well as lily pads. Latin: ranunculus – small frog
Ningitgender: a gender that is freezing cold, small, quiet, snowy, and gives off the vibe of a windy city in the middle of a snowstorm, with people bustling around in warm clothing and the bright lights from the stores surrounding them. It is connected to snow, snowfall, icicles, winter, and bright blue shades. Latin: ningit – it snows
Vulcanugender: a gender that is hot, fiery, tall, and loud. It is related to volcanoes, pits of lava, summer, and fire. Sicilian: vulcanu – volcano
Incendiumgender: a gender that feels fiery, hellish, and hot. It is connected to the depths of Hell, hot flames shooting up from a campfire, and the sound of crickets. Latin: incendium – a fire, inferno, conflagration; heat; torch.
Caykgender: a small, warm, and sweet gender. It is connected to cakes, bakeries on a sweet and rainy summer afternoon, the sound of the wind through the trees, and the feeling of a warm store. Middle English: cayk – cake
Alsiagender: a gender that feels frozen, cold, and chillingly vague. It is connected to snowfall, an empty forest full of snow, and the sounds of the blistering cold wind on top of a mountain during winter. Latin: alsia – chilly, cool, cold.
Somniorumgender: a gender that feels sleepy, dreamy, and calming. It is connected to quiet summer nights, the last bit of light in a house, and the blowing out of candles, as well as slumber. Latin: somnium/somniorum – dream
Decembrisine: a slightly masculine gender that is uncomfortable and cold. it relates to winter, candles, snow, leaves, bare trees, evergreens, mint and plants, pie, blankets, and cold air. it is fluid, but not flux. it takes up a good chunk of the identity, but overall is very pristine and held closely to the user and may flow away on occasion. Related to Octobrisine. Latin: decembris – of December
Septembrisine: a slightly feminine gender that is comfortable and toasty. it relates to autumn, candles, holly, crunchy leaves, wilting trees, pumpkins, maple trees and plants, apples, cozy blankets, and quiet air. it is not fluid, but flux. it takes up a good chunk of the identity, but overall is very pristine and held closely to the user and may flow away on occasion. Related to Octobrisine. Latin: septembris – of September
Novembrisine: a slightly agender-aligned gender that is comfortable and warm. it relates to autumn, candles, slowing days, crunchy and wilted leaves, bare trees, pumpkins, gourds, and plants, pie, cozy fireplaces and blankets, and clear air. it is very fluid, but very flux as well. it takes up a good chunk of the identity, but overall is very pristine and held closely to the user and may flow away on occasion. Related to Octobrisine. Latin: novembris – of November
Octobrisine: a slightly neutral gender that is comfortable and warm. it relates to autumn, candles, snow, leaves, bare trees, pumpkins, allspice and plants, pie, blankets, and clear air. it is slightly fluid, but not flux. it takes up a good chunk of the identity, but overall is very pristine and held closely to the user and may flow away on occasion. Latin: octobris – of October. (new flag, coined by ME in 2019)
Ranarumgender: a gender that is bouncy, small, cute, and loved by almost all other genders and the user. It is connected to summer, frogs, marshes, the sound of rain, and streams. Latin: ranarum – rana – a frog
Grandinatgender: a gender that is rainy, small, and round. It is connected to hail, thunderstorms, the sound of rain on a tin roof in a small cabin in the woods, overcast winter days, and snowfall. It is masculine-aligned. Latin: grandinat – (impersonal verb) It hails
Nivegender: a gender that feels cold, vast, and snowy. It is connected the winter, evergreen forests covered in snow, bakeries, and snow. Interlingue: nive – snow
Burblengender: a gender that feels bubbly, warm, and connected to the ocean. It feels like bubbles under the ocean that come to the surface after the crashing of a wave. It is also calming. Middle English: burblen – to bubble
Decembrean: a cold, icy, and glassy gender that feels like a cold afternoon in December. It feels like a quiet crackle of a fireplace and the cold air blowing out of the chimney as the warm scent of fire and cinnamon billows out. It is connected to the month of December, snowfall, and winter in general. it is also mildly masculine, but mostly nonbinary. Related to Decembrisine. Old French: decembre – December
Novembrean: a cold, comforting, and crunchy gender that feels like a tepid evening in November. It feels like a farming of the harvest and the chilly air blowing through the calm night sky and the smell of previous rainfall echoes as petrichor. It is connected to the month of November, the Harvest, and autumn in general. it is also mildly feminine, but mostly nonbinary. Related to Novembrisine. Old French: novembre – November
Setembrean: a warm, comforting, and peaceful gender that feels like a warm morning in September. It feels like a clear, empty beach and the smell of a tropical breeze coming through as summer ends, as well as the smell of food on a boardwalk. It is connected to the month of September, the beach, and late summer and related concepts in general. it is also mildly AGIN, but mostly nonbinary. Related to Septembrisine. Old French: setembre – September
Uitovrean: a cool, comforting, and calming gender that feels like a chilly night in October. It feels like a calming, festive night and the cool air blowing through the calm trees and the smell of candles scented all autumn-y. It is connected to the month of October, Halloween, candles, candy, and autumn in general. it is also mildly masculine, but mostly nonbinary. Related to Octobrisine. Old French: uitovre – October
Abyssicolagender: a gender that is deep, infinite, connected to the ocean, and bathymetric. It feels like the cold bottom of the ocean and the vents shooting from the Earth, feeding the small amoebas stuck in the darkness. Latin: abyssicolus – deep-sea-dwelling
Ananasian: a gender that feels small, tropical, and floral. It feels like a tropical orchard on a beach, full of pineapple and mango trees rolling about on the ground, with the sound of the waves crashing in the distance and the sea breeze blowing throughout the trees. It is connected to pineapples, the beach, summer, and tropical climates. Latin: ananas – pineapple
Cacaoticagender: a sweet, square, and calming gender. It is connected to chocolate, the color brown, and rainforests. It feels like a rainy day underneath a canopy of leaves and it smells of a chocolatery and a candy store. Latin: cacaoticus – chocolate
Minttusuklaan: a gender that feels refreshing, small, and square. It is connected to mint, chocolate, and sugary candies. It smells of both a chocolatery and of a mint garden at the same time. Finnish: minttusuklaa – mint chocolate
Afagender: a gender that is dusty, nostalgic, and tiresome. It gives off the vibe of an empty home covered in dust and spiderwebs, left for years until someone discovers it. Latin: afa – dust
Fragagender: a gender that is sweet, flowery, and slightly masculine. It is connected to strawberries, bubblegum, and summer. It feels sweet and fresh like the strawberry section of a garden or a farmers market, and makes the user feel more feminine than masculine at time. Latin: fragum – strawberry
Cerasisgender: a gender that is small, wide, and related to cherries, summer, and rain. It smells of a cherry ice cone, and is calming. Latin: cerasus – cherry
Cerasorumgender: a gender that feels small, feminine-aligned, and calming. It smells of summer, cherry orchards, and beach breezes. Latin: cerasus – cherry
Cerasegender: a dark, masculine-aligned gender related to cherries, the night, wine, and winter. It feels cool, small, and refreshing, like cherries left in the snow. Latin: cerasus – cherry
Cerasumgender: a small, round, and sweet gender related to cherries, summer, winter, and evening. Latin: cerasus – cherry
Cerasogender: a gender that feels proud, small, warm, and connected to cherries, cherry pies, masculinity, and colorful evening sunsets. Latin: cerasus – cherry
Cerasigender: a gender that is unknown, masculine, and connected to the depths of hell, cherry wine, and fire. Latin: cerasus – cherry.
Cerasusgender: a gender that is small, connected to orchards, cherries, summer, and colorful rainbows, as well as the smell of the rain, cherry scented candles, and the feeling of snowfall. Latin: cerasus – cherry
Nitidagender: a gender that is bright, colorful, vibrant, and tropical. It is connected to birds (particularly canaries and macaws), the ocean, tropical climates, and the smell of lime and piña colada. Latin: nitidus – shining, polished, gleaming.
Fulgidagender: a gender that feels quaint, cuddly, and calming. It is slightly masc-aligned, related to rainbows, summer, and the sounds of the rain in a forest. Latin: fulgidus – flashing, glittering, shining.
Dugagender: a gender that is bright, airy, colorful, wet, and warm. It is connected to rainbows, the sun after the rain, and various other things. This gender is the smell of petrichor after rainfall in autumn, and is quaint and peaceful like a clover on the ground. It is a rare identity that very rarely shows up, also like a rainbow. Old East Slavic: duga – rainbow.
Pluvialegender: a gender that is dark, cloudy, dull, wet, and cold. It is connected to rain, the clouds during the rain, and various other things. This gender is the smell of nitrogen after a thunderstorm in summer, and is loud and expansive like a puddle on the ground. It is a common identity that very commonly shows up, also like a thunderstorm or rain. Italian: pluviale – rain. An opposite to Dugagender.
Algificagender: a gender that is white, airy, grey, wet, and freezing. It is connected to snowfall, the sky after it snows, and various other things. This gender is the smell of cinnamon and apples inside a home in winter, and is quaint and peaceful like a snowflake floating down to the earth. It is a rare identity that very rarely shows up, also like snowfall in winter. Latin: algificus – producing cold.
Caminettogender: a gender that is toasty, warm comfortable, and calming. It is connected to the smell of smoke on top of a mountain, a warm fireplace, autumn and winter, and the smell of pies. Italian: carminetto – fireplace
Kaldurgender: a gender that is freezing, cold, and uncomfortably small. It is connected to the smell of winter air, shopping at an outdoor market, frosted grass fields, and the winter season. Icelandic: kaldur – cold.
Pluvieuxgender: a gender that is calming, rainy, and related to a shopping district during the rain, the sound of it on a tin roof, the smell of petrichor, and autumn. French: pluvieux – rainy
Pacatogender: a gender that is placid, calming, quiet, and peaceful. It is connected to the rain, summer, and the sounds of a fountain in a mall. Italian: pacato – placid. It is slightly masculine, and is also connected to city life
Tramontogender: a gender that is placid, peaceful, connected to the sunset over the ocean, summer, the smell of the sea breeze, seashells, and nightfall. It is feminine and neutral-aligned. Italian: tramonto – sunset
Stravagantigender: a flamboyant, calming, and extravagant. It is connected to theatre, summer, and the feeling of silk and velvet costumes, as well as the feeling of rhinestones. Italian: stravagante – eccentric.
Nubeculagender: a gender that is small, fluffy, cute, and related to the rain, summer, autumn, and the feeling of rain on clothing, and the speeding of vehicles through the rainy streets of a city. Latin: nubecula – a cloudlet (a tiny cloud)
Magnoliegender: a soft, comforting, and petite gender that feels like a magnolia orchard in April. It feels like a planting of magnolia trees and the new, warm air blowing through the calm afternoon sky and the smell of small flowers echo through the air. It is connected to the months of spring, the magnolia tree, and magnolias in general. it is also mildly feminine, but mostly nonbinary. Italian: magnolie – magnolias
Folatagender: A gender that is wispy, small, and calming. it is connected to the wind over a lavender field, spring, and the blooming of new flowers when April comes. It is also connected to the brief showers of rain and snow that comes with the aforementioned qualities. Italian: gust of wind, windflaw.
Cithgender: A gender that is faint, thin, and cool. it is connected to the showers over a frosted forest, summer, autumn, and winter, and the wilting of trees when October comes. It is also connected to the brief showers of snow and sleet that comes with the aforementioned qualities. Irish: shower (brief fall of rain)
Lietusgender: A gender that is dreary, withered, and cool. it is connected to the showers over a paved road, window shopping on a rainy autumn day, and winter, and the deluged roads of a town when winter dawns. It is also connected to the heavy showers of rain and snow that comes with the aforementioned qualities. Latvian/Lithuanian: rain
Pastalachgender: A gender that is bright, vibrant, and colorful. it is connected to the rainbows and showers over a paved road, summer thunderstorms, pastel colors, art, and summer, and the moist fountains of a town when spring dawns. It is also connected to the bright colors of spring and summer and rainbows/rain that comes with the aforementioned qualities. Irish: pastalach – pastel
Triugender: a gender that is tall, proud, ancient, and cozy. It is connected to trees in the wind, falling leaves, autumn, and spring. It is also connected to the sounds of rustling leaves in the forest and the birds chirping in the morning. Gothic: triu – tree
Flammivomagender: a gender that is fiery, flaming, and blazingly hot. It is connected to magma, lava, volcano explosions, the formation of new, tropical islands, earthquakes, and summer. Latin: flammivomus – vomiting flames
Nijigender: a gender that is bright, colorful, neon, and connected to rainbows. it is also connected to the sun, summer, and rain. Japanese: niji – rainbow
Niugender: a gender that is tropical, funny, and round. it is connected to forests, coconuts, summer, and the ocean. Bugotu: niu – coconut
Mesipuugender: a fragrant, feminine-aligned, honey related gender. It is connected to bees, water springs, spring, and honey. Estonian: mesipuu – beehive
Uhagender: a gender that is tropical, rainy, and calming. It is connected to tropical storms, rainy days, the sound of thunder, and summer. Bugotu: uha – rain.
Lietainsian: A gender that is dreary, withered, and cool. it is connected to the showers over a flowering field, window shopping in a mall on a rainy summer day, and frosted windows when autumn comes, and the deluged roads of a town when winter dawns. It is also connected to the heavy showers of rain and snow that comes with the aforementioned qualities. Latvian: rainy
Gloinean: a nonbinary-aligned gender that is glassy, thin, faint, and connected to summer. It feels like a summer day at the beach, with the sand and water being shone upon by the sun, and the warmth and tropical smell of a beach house with the sun shining through the windows onto the brightly colored walls. Irish: gloine – glass
Klaasian: a masculine-aligned gender that is glassy, thin, faint, and connected to winter. It feels like a winter day in a cabin, with the snow and frost being rained down from above, and the coldness and rustic smell of a cabin with the frost clinging to the windows and the snow being stuck to the ground. Latvian: klaas – glass. related to Gloinean
Viatronian: a feminine-aligned gender that is glassy, thin, faint, and connected to autumn. It feels like an autumn day in a valley, with the leaves and rain falling onto the cold, crunchy ground, and the coolness and cozy smell of a cabin with the faded sun shining through the windows onto the dimly colored walls. Dalmation: viatro – glass
Vidrean: a masculine-aligned gender that is glassy, thin, faint, and connected to spring. It feels like a spring day at a hot spring, with the flowers and water being shone upon by the sun, and the warmth and fragrant smell of a flower garden with the sun shining onto the brightly colored petals. Catalan: vidre – glass
Decolorisian: a gender that has, overtime, faded from being a certain idea. It is vaguely NIN-aligned, and is connected to the rainbow. Latin: dēcolor – discolored
Montagneuxean: a gender that is mountainous, craggy, and rocky. it is vague as well, but when a peak is “discovered”, it becomes clear. It is connected to mountains, rocks, and summer, as well as snow capped hills. French: montangeux – mountainous
Circumplectogender: a gender that encompasses all other genders and turns them into one, uniform, simple gender, or simply sums the gender up into one term (ie 40 genders -> polygender). Latin: circumplecto – I encompass
Nauticagender: a gender that is small, nautical, and connected to summer. it is also connected to small oceanside towns that have plenty of gift shops at every corner, similar to places common on Atlantic. it is connected to the cool feeling of these gift shops as summer settles over, and the sound of the ocean is heard in the distance, longing to be homely to the creatures living there. Latin: nauticus – nautical
Stellatogender: a gender that is celestial, starry, calming, and summery. It is connected to the deep space, summer, star-filled skies, and supernovas. It is a very wholesome and calming gender that is nonbinary-aligned and wispy. Italian: stellato – starry
Buuburugender: a gender that feels quiet, grassy, calming, and related to summer. It is connected to grassy meadows in summer, cows grazing in mountain valleys, and the bright, airy feeling of a cirrus filled sky. Bugotu – buuburu – grass
Ikivihantagender: a gender that feels eternal, tall, large, connected to coniferous forests, evergreens, and cabins covered in light snow in winter. Finnish: ikivihanta – evergreen.
Nahigagender: a gender that feels sandy, glassy, grainy, and thin. it is connected to sandy shores, beaches, and the ocean. Bugotu: nahiga – sand
Iskaldurian: a gender that is icy, thin, and unknown to the user. it is connected to cold, Arctic snow, winter, and waterfall. Icelandic: iskaldur – icy
Feeagtigian: a gender that is fairylike, ethereal, thin, and relatively hidden. It is connected to cotton candy, forests, and fairies or the Fae. Afrikaans: feeagtig – fairy, fairylike.
Nouagean: a gender that is cloudy, small, vague, connected to summer, winter, and cloudy afternoons, as well as the feeling of reading on a rainy day. Norman French: nouage – cloud
Neisian: a gender that is the epitome of a snowy weather, frosted winter glass, bright blue gems, and the falling of the snow in the country. Norman French: neis – snow
Foudrean: a gender that is powerful, connected to summer thunderstorms, rainy afternoons, rainbows, thunderbolts, and petrichor. French: foudre – thunderbolt
Detcherquean: a gender that is loud, calming, related to extremely rainy weather, summertime, and autumn. Norman French – detcherque – downpour
Crachinian: a gender that feels thin, glassy, somewhat rainy, and quiet. it is connected to drizzle early in the morning, dew on grass, and waking up to rainy weather. French: crachin – drizzle
Broussinian: a gender that is connected to Crachinian, and is also slightly masc-aligned, wintry, and cold. Norman French: broussin – fine drizzle
Brisean: a gender that is breezy and carefree. Norman French: brise – breeze
Bllasean: a gender that is thin, rainy, calming, and watery. It is connected to fine raindrops on window panes, summer evenings, and warm weather in the morning. Norman French: bllase – drizzle
Bliasean: a gender that is foggy, vague, connected to mountain air, log cabins in the woods, adventures, and frosted evergreen trees. Norman: bliase – fog
Arsionian: a gender that is fiery, hot, tropical, calming, and related to hot weather, foreign islands, summer, and the flowing of the ocean waves on an empty beach covered in seashells. Norman: arsion – hot weather
Ocheanian: a gender that is similar to Arsionian. it is connected to the deep, cold, and enveloping ocean, deep sea creatures, and beaches. Norman: ochean – ocean
Fraisean: a gender that is flowery, calming, sweet, and related to spring, summer, strawberries, and leaves. French: fraise – strawberry
Neigeuxian: a gender that is snowy, feels like a snowed in day at home, connected to log cabins, snowy mountainsides, winter, and hot cocoa. French: neigeux – snowy
Neigean: a snowy gender that is related to logs, evergreens, and winter. it also feels like snowfall on a cloudy winter day, the aftermath of the snow, and the melting of it afterward. French: neige – snow
Printempsian: a gender that is springy, flowery, and calming. it is connected to flower gardens, a rebirth of the earth, spring weather, light morning and afternoon showers, and fruits. French: printemps – spring
Automnauxian: a gender that is autumny, slow, and calming. it is connected to pumpkin patches, a closing of the earth, autumn weather, gentle morning and afternoon showers, snow, and the Harvest. French: automnaux – autumn
Estivauxian: a gender that is summery, flowery, and calming. it is connected to palm trees, a rebirth of the earth, summer weather, heavy morning and afternoon showers, tropical beaches, and fruits. French: estivaux – summer
Hivernauxian: a gender that is wintry, lethargic, and calming. it is connected to evergreen forests, freezing of the earth, winter weather, light morning and afternoon snow showers, and snow-covered plants. French: hivernaux – winter
Ensoleillean: a gender that is sunny, flowery, and warm. it is connected to sunbathed flower gardens, scorching of the sand, summer weather and storms, morning and afternoon showers, and tropical fruit. French: ensoleillean – sunny
Pluvieuxian: a gender that is rainy, flowing, and calming. it is connected to wet flower gardens, a drenching of the earth, spring weather, light morning and afternoon showers, and fresh fruits. French: pluvieux – rainy
Pleuvoirian: a gender that is connected to rainy weather, the feeling of rain on skin, summer, and a shady grove and the smell of petrichor throughout the grove after the rain. French: pleuvoir – to rain
Pluieian: a gender that is rainy, calming, wintry, and connected to the rain, the sounds of it from indoor, drenched grass, and flowers blooming after a storm. French: pluie – rain
Ruusanian: a gender that is flowery, calming, prickly, and sweet. it is connected to gardens, rose bushes, summer, and roses. Greenlandic: ruusa: rose
Syrenian: a gender that is flowery, calming, flowing, and sweet. it is connected to gardens, lilac bushes, summer, and lilacs. Danish: syren – lilac
Abismean: a gender that is deep, abysmal, and infinite. Nothing is known about it other than it is infinite, has no beginning or end, and is somewhat pangender-aligned. Catalan: abisme – abyss
Foscian: a dark gender that is connected to the beach at night, the ocean, and darkness inside of a cave in a forest at night. Catalan: fosc – dark
Tardorencian: a gender that has slowed down over time, is connected to autumn, and feels like the light scents of cinnamon and sugar blowing inside a cabin during the evening, the smell of sweetness everywhere and covering the warm air, cookies and candles warming the cabin. Also connected to pumpkin patches, cinnamon, sugar, and candles, and light snow. Catalan: tardorenc – autumnal
Tardorian: a gender that has slowed down over time, is connected to autumn, and feels like the light winds of October blowing over the trees in the evening, leaves falling almost everywhere and covering the forest floor, crunchy leaves flowing down. Also connected to pumpkin patches, vineyards, and light snow. Catalan: tardor – autumn
Vintronian: a gender that is wintry, separated, and colorful. it is connected to the winter, snowfall on a mountain, waterfalls, frozen icicles, snowballs, and the color white. Ido: vintro – winter
Autononian: a gender that is autumny, separated, and colorful. it is connected to the autumn, warmth in a cabin, waterfalls, pumpkin patches, candles, and warm colors. Ido: autono – autumn
Someronian: a gender that is summery, flowery, and colorful. it is connected to the summer, seashells on a beach, waterfalls, large ocean waves, sand, and bright colors. Ido: somero – summer
Printemponian: a gender that is springy, flowery, new, and colorful. it is connected to the spring, flowers in a large meadow, waterfalls, light rainfall, blooming flowers, and the color green. Ido: printempo – spring
Regnbogian: a gender that is flamboyant, colorful, pangender-in-nature, connected to rainbows, summertime, warm weather, and the beach. Icelandic: regnbogi – rainbow
Oucianonian: a gender that is flowing like the ocean, but also tumultuous like the ocean. it is connected to seagulls, all shades of blue, and summer. Galician: ouciao – ocean
Vobalean: a gender that is simple, crisp, connected to apples, orchards, autumn, and the warmth of a fireplace. Sudovian: vobale – apple
Kakyuian: a gender that is extremely fiery, flammable, and constantly fluid. The fluidity can also be caused by the constant recreation of new genders (usually flame/heat/fire-aligned genders). This gender is connected to fireballs, summer, stars, and nuclear fusion. It is mildly nonbinary-aligned, but mostly doesn’t have a stable alignment, and can rapidly change. Japanese: kakyū – fireball, bolide.
Nujian: a gentle, calming, colorful, and loving gender that is connected to rainbows, summer, rainy weather, and bright colors. it is also masc-aligned, faint, and somewhat fluid. Okinawan: nuji – rainbow
Rayocian: a gender that is fast paced, is connected to summer, and feels like the light scents of rain and candles flowing through the air after a storm, the smell of petrichor everywhere and covering the warm air, the air still thick with water. Also connected to winter, grassy fields, sugar, and candles, sometimes light rain. Ainu: rayoci – rainbow
Nettaian: a gender that is tropical, loving, and all encompassing of other tropical genders. it is connected to summer, warm weather, the ocean, coconut covered beaches, seashells, and crabs. Japanese: nettai – the tropics
Tropskian: a gender that is tropical, loving, vague, and encompasses some tropical genders. It is different from Nettaian due to the fact that it is vague and doesn’t encompass all tropical genders, but other than that, it is the same. it is connected to summer, warm weather, the ocean, coconut covered beaches, seashells, and crabs. Croatian: tropski – tropical
Trofannolian: a gender that is tropical, loving, pastel, calming, and overall much calmer than others. it is connected to summer, warm weather, the ocean, coconut covered beaches, seashells, pastel rainbows, the end of summer, early autumn at a cold beach, and crabs. Welsh: trofannol – tropical
Troopinnenian: a gender that is tropical, loving, fruity, wintry, and all encompassing of other tropical genders. it is connected to summer, warm weather, the ocean, coconut covered beaches, seashells, fruit trees, gummy bears, cold drinks on the beach, and crabs. Finnish: troopinnen – tropical
Troopilinean: a gender that is tropical, calming, colorful, sweet, windy, and all encompassing of other tropical genders. it is connected to summer, warm weather, the ocean, coconut covered beaches, seashells, gentle ocean waves, windy beaches, beach gift shops, and crabs. Estonian: troopiline – tropical
Tropicauxian/Tropicaux Genders: any genders connected to tropical weather. These include Troopilinean, Troopinnenian, Trofannolian, Tropskian, and Nettaian. This may also include Tropicalian, Rayocian, Nijigender, and Nujian. French: tropicaux – tropical.
Staciunian Gender Group: a group of 12 genders, all connected to one of the months of the year, or a season. It is broken into groups based by season, and is collectively known as Staciunian Genders. Sicilian: staciuni – season
Staciunifluix: being fluid and flux between genders in the Staciuni Gender Group
Staciunifluid: being fluid between genders in the Staciuni Gender Group
Staciuniflux: being flux between genders in the Staciuni Gender Group
Jinnaruian: a gender that is frosted, cold, as thin as ice, hazy, and vaguely masculine. It is connected to frosty, snowy morning in January, winter, new beginnings, and icestorms. Sicilian: jinnaru – January
Frivaruian: a gender connected to Jinnaruian; it is connected to frosty, mild mornings, mountain tops covered in snow, winter, and the sounds of snowbirds. it is vaguely masculine, but mostly nonbinary, or even abinary. Sicilian: frivaru – February
Marzuian: a gender that is spring-like, flowery, lightly frosted, thin, and calming. It is connected to flowers, the month of March, icy grass, and spring. Sicilian: marzu – March
Apriliean: a gender that is calm, flowing, flowery, springy, and upbeat. it is connected to flower gardens, parks, sunshine, and spring. Sicilian: aprili – April
Maiuian: a gender that is toasty, calming, summery, and related to flowers, early summer rain, meadows of grass, and windy weather. Sicilian: maiu – May
Giugnuian: a gender that is hot, sunny, and related to summer, the beach, sandy shores, palm trees, and tropical scents. Sicilian – giugnu – June
Giugnettuian: a gender that is hotter than Giugnuian, more connected to the sun and the ocean, and is small. It is also connected to rain on a tin roof, misty mornings, and summer. Sicilian – giugnettu – July
Austuian: a gender that is calming, fading out of summer genders, and faded compared to other summer genders. It is connected to early autumn, the end of summer, cold ocean water, and beaches. Sicilian: austu – August
Sittembrian: a gender that is autumny, slow, and calming. It is connected to autumn weather, light snow, mountains, and falling leaves. Sicilian: sittembri – September
Uttuviruan: a calming, small, and masc-aligned gender connected to autumn, pumpkins, cinnamon, and candles. it also feels like a cold October day, festive smells, and mid autumn rain. Sicilian: uttuviru – October
Nuvembrian: a gender that feels as if it is fading out, connected to autumn, cold weather, snow, and early winter days. it also is very small, and changes rapidly. Sicilian: nuvembri – November
Dicembrian: a gender that is cold, frosty, and constantly is cycled around other genders. it is connected to snowy weather, the end of the year, frozen rain, and snow on a tin roof. Sicilian: dicembri – December
Primaveraean Group: a subsection of the Staciunian Genders based around 3 genders: Marzuian, Apriliean, and Maiuian. Sicilian: primavera – spring
Astatian Group: a subsection of the Staciunian Genders based around 3 genders: Giugnuian, Giugnettuian, and Austuian. Sicilian: astati – summer
Autunnuian Group: a subsection of the Staciunian Genders based around 3 genders: Sittembrian, Uttuviruan, and Nuvembrian. Sicilian: autunnu – autumn
Mmernuian Group: a subsection of the Staciunian Genders based around 3 genders: Dicembrian, Jinnaruian, and Frivaruian. Sicilian: mmernu – winter
I never see posts about OCPD other than from OCPD-specific blogs that I follow, or from posts that conflate it as being the same as OCD, so here’s some information about the Hell Disorder.
1. OCPD and OCD are separate disorders.
While they share some similar traits, such as hypermorality or intrusive thoughts, they are not the same and should not be treated as if they are. OCD is characterised by obsessive thoughts that lead to anxiety, which is relieved by complusive behavior. OCPD is more of what society tends to refer to as OCD behavior – things like perfectionism, orderliness, and obsession to detail. I’ll get into the symptoms more in a minute. My point is, stop using “OCD/OCPD” in posts that are actually just about OCD.
2. Many people with OCPD wish for its name to be changed to Anankastic Personality Disorder.
If you see Anankastic PD anywhere, it’s talking about OCPD. The reasoning behind this is mainly because of the above point – we want people to easily be able to recognize that OCPD and OCD are not the same. OCPD is not a more “intense” version of OCD – it is a separate disorder with separate symptoms.
3. Symptoms of OCPD can include:
Preoccupation to details, rules, orders, lists, organization, or schedules, sometimes to the extent that the point of the activity is lost
Perfectionism to the point that it interferes with completion of a task (if I can’t do it perfectly, I won’t bother to do it at all)
Excessive devotion to work and productivity
Hypermorality
Inability to discard items that are no longer needed
Reluctance to delegate tasks or work with others unless the others adhere exactly to your standard of doing things
Rigid and stubborn about your way of doing things being the “right” way
Needing control over situations or the enviornment
4. There are several subtypes of OCPD.
The way people experience OCPD, as with any disorder, can vary. If you’re interested in subtypes, there is info on them here (link).
Never being satisfied with your orientation, and constantly searching and seeking out something that fits as perfect as possible – trying to find “the orientation” or “the one truth”.
Polyfidelity: an intimate polyamorous relationship structure where all members are considered equal partners and agree to restrict sexual/affectional activity to only other members of the group.
[id= black and white comic of two object head characters. One character has a circle for a head with one eye with long eye lashes on it, and is wearing a white sweater and black pants. The other character has a triangle for a head with one eye without eyelashes and is wearing a grey or striped hoodie and white sweatpants. The two characters are sitting on a couch holding video game controllers.
The circle head character says casually “Do you ever… Like… Just feel so uncomfortable having a physical form?” and the triangle head character squints at them and says “um.”
the circle head character, now looking a bit more frantic, says “Like you see yourself in the mirror and you’re like ‘who is that?!’ / All sensation is too much. Even your eyelashes bug you. / Your body shifts in a certain way and it makes your skin crawl.”
the comic then zooms in closer to the circle heads face as they continue, once again getting more frantic in their explanation, “Everything is too fast. Too loud. Too much. / You want to tell it to just stop but the planet is spinning through space as you can’t get off.”
the comics view shifts back to show the entire couch, and the triangle head character calmly says “nah, dude. You should probably do therapy about that.” and the circle head character leans back against the sofa and says “Probably. lol”. The last panel is signed “transfigured” in the bottom right corner. /end id]
imaginarique: when you transfer your own gender(s) to your imaginary friend
Hope this looks alright! The colors are just supposed to represent different things on a map, light blue for the sky, green for ground, and dark blue for water. And then the symbol in the middle is supposed to be a simplified compass. ~Mod Che
(Note that inaccessible doesn’t refer to identities closed to certain groups)
(I think I was thinking of unexplorable but I didn’t want to repeat the same wording…)
Genderpotion: A gender that is the result of a mix of many other, different genders.
Gendershuffler or Gender Shuffler: Mixing and matching two or more genders. Can also change the number of genders at one time.
Slimegender: A subset of fluidflux/genderfluid where all of your genders feel like differently gendered slimes mixing together, with different combinations and amounts coming to the surface at different times.
-Hermy
Genderfuzz or Blurgender: A polygender identity where one experiences multiple genders that blur together, making it difficult or impossible to identify what gender(s) one is experiencing at any given time.
[Image: an 11-striped horizontal flag, in descending order: black, dark grey, grey, brown-grey, blue-grey, dark blue-grey, cream, light brown-orange, tan, brown, dark red-brown.]
(1/5) I’m the anon from before! I’m submitting these flags one by one because for some reason it’s not letting me put them together.
Genderembla: a gender that is safe in itself, but can cause any number of genders to spawn over time which may or may not be controllable, contained, or even identified with a class. Based off of Dr. Mann’s SCP-001 proposal.
New winner for ‘most ridiculous exclusionary bullshit’: “the demisexual flag is bad because Nazis used triangles.”
You ding-dongs. You absolute cabbages. You umbrellas made of dried seaweed. You rotten turnips.
Vexillology contains lots of use of triangles. Nazis don’t own the concept of triangles. What the fuck. What transparent nonsense. Why aren’t you embarrassed of yourself?
also queer people have been reclaiming the triangle for decades now??? wtf
Literally since the sixties, at least, but like, I wasn’t even going to engage that part because IT’S SO CLEARLY NOT CONNECTED AT ALL that even talking about reclaiming, to me, gives credence to the idea that it’s connected WHICH IT CLEARLY IS NOT
As a Jew who’s mainly seen non Jewish exclusionists say this it makes me so mad
Hydrangeagender: A polygender made of many, many smaller genders which appears as one larger gender. This gender can consist of any gender regardless of “alignment” and there is no limit to the amount of genders being held within this gender.
This gender mimics the appearance of a Hydrangea flower, which is made of many smaller petals making one large flower. Hydrangeas are often a mixture of pink, blue, and purple, with different levels of those colors.A Hydrangeagender person could think of their gender in this way, considering the flower’s colors a representation of the percentages of the kinds of genders making up their Hydrangeagender.
My Hydrangeagender is made up mainly of Masculine and Androgynous genders, with splotches of Xenic genders and Feminine Genders
The template for this flag was created by @neopronouns
A version of this flag with straight lines will be posted soon
Reblogs seriously help out a lot, and are appreciated a lot more than likes!
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I decided to convey platonicism as a grandient to the center, as that represents the varying degrees of closeness.
Homoplatonic – Tendency of wanting friends that are the same/similar gender. Teal is a relaxing colour, and that symbolizes the sameness of the two genders.
Heteroplatonic – Tendency of wanting friends that are of a different gender. This one’s just a hue shift. I have yet to find a different colour for this one.
Bi/panplatonic – Both combined. (Keep reading for extras)
Genderuncontained: a gender that has breached containment, or may have never been possible to contain in the first place. Based off of several articles.
(A few notes before I start: a lot of credit for this goes to @xeno-aligned for answering my anon ask and introducing me to the term bxy!! Also idk if this even counts as coining a new term bc I just added a suffix but I searched it up on tumblr and google and got absolutely 0 results. I don’t even know how to coin terms lmao. Lastly tell me if you think this term describes you!! I’d love to hear from people)
What does bxyflux mean?
This term combines the root word “bxy” and the suffix “-flux”
Bxy: A gender that is both boy and agender/no gender. You can be a boy and agender/no gender at the same time, go between them, or fluctuate between feeling male and not feeling gender
-flux: in terms of gender, it means fluctuating in intensity
Therefore bxyflux is a gender that is both male and agender and fluctuates in intensity. Pretty simple right?
There are a whole lot of ways this could be applied, so I’ll use myself as an example. I personally feel completely male and also partially agender, but the agender part varies in intensity (the male part may also vary in intensity but I’m not sure). Someone else who uses the term bxyflux could go between being male and agender (not either at the same time) while also having the intensity of both or one those genders fluctuate in intensity.
Is there a flag?
Yes! I made this one I think looks pretty cool but give me any criticism you can think of!!
(id: flag with 5 horizontal stripes, which from the top down are dark grey, blue, white, green, and dark grey)
The blue represents male, the green represents agender, and the black and white represent the varying intensities of the genders.
I think that’s it!! There can be gxrlflux too, but I don’t have a flag for that unfortunately. Thanks for reading 💕
[ID: A series of brightly colored information cards:
1 [blue background]: Terms of Engagement: G*psy
The Origins & Modern Uses of Racial Slurs Against Romani
2 [red background]: Terms of Engagement: Racial Slurs
Gypsy/Gipsies: Derives from the misconception that Roma travelled to Europe from Egypt. Anti-gypsyism has made it synonymous with being criminal, poor and uncivilized. Alternatively, it has been appropriated by non-Roma as an ‘eclectic’ fashion, costume or lifestyle which is synonymous with being “free-spirited’, disregarding centuries of violence which has forced many Romani into being nomadic.
Tsgani/Cigani (varies on geographical area and language): Derives from the Greek word ‘atsinganos’, meaning ‘untouchables’. It was first used in the 14th century upon the Roma’s arrival in Europe. It ignited and continues to fuel the dehumanizing and violent rhetoric against Romani peoples. It continues to be widely used throughout EU policies to segregate Romani as fourth class citizens.
3 [red background]: Terms of Engagement: Racial Slurs
Gyp/Gypped: Derives from the word ‘g*psy’ and is used in situations where one may feel ‘cheated’. This word draws upon dangerously inaccurate stereotypes that suggest that Romani peoples are inherently thieves and lack moral responsibility. This rhetoric was used to justify the genocide of Roma peoples by the Nazis in WWII.
Bohemian/Boho style: Derives from the former “Bohemia” territory of modern day Czech Republic. It is commonly used to describe “free spiritedness” and “eclectic” clothing styles. The manifestation of this term is an appropriation of Romani and other ethnic group’s traditional clothing and is a derogation to the historical and contemporary experiences of the Romani peoples.
4 [teal background]: Terms of Engagement: Accepted Terms
Gypsy (NOT to be used by Non-Roma): While highly contested within the Roma community, many Romani and Travellers identify as G*psy throughout the United Kingdom and United States. Outside of these communities and the historical context of Romani history, it is widely considered a slur when used by non-Roma.
Romanichal, Sinti, Kalderash, Kale, Manush, Travellers, etc.: The Romani constitute a rich and diverse group of peoples with their own unique histories, languages, cultures and traditions. Referred to as clans, groups of Romani peoples are often tied to a particular geographical region. Clans may associate primarily with their clan identity, rather than Roma.
5 [teal background]: Terms of Engagement: Accepted Terms
Rom/Romni/Romani: Derives from the Indo-Aryan origins of the Romani language, meaning man (rom), woman (romni) and people (romani). Romani is also used as an adjective to describe the collective histories, languages, cultures and traditions of those who share similar genetic origins constituting the various Romani clans.
Roma: Established by and for Romani people. It was formally introduced to the United Nations in 1977 with the purpose to redefine and re-establish a united political, economic and social identity as the Roma Nation. It is used by many in the pursuit for justice, reparations and equality for the Romani peoples.
6 [blue background]: The use of racial slurs perpetuate anti-gypsyism and the tolerated use of violence against Romani peoples as a means to dehumanize, control and exterminate.
7: [red background] G*psy is not a costume. G*psy is not a description of your soul/lifestyle. Tsigani is not a valid legal definition. Gypped is not a verb. Bohemian is not a fast-fashion trend.
[teal background] Language is important. Anti-gypsyism is real. Meaningful change is required.
There’s actually a whole web series where Liquid Jay gets his ring stolen and has to get it back, but it’s on this platform called Zeus and I think you have to subscribe to see it. Here’s the trailer.
There’s actually a whole web series where Liquid Jay gets his ring stolen and has to get it back, but it’s on this platform called Zeus and I think you have to subscribe to see it. Here’s the trailer.
enfeallan: a gender related to fallen angels; a gender that has fallen from grace or been cast out
Unicomgender: a subtype of monocomgender (monogender & comgender) and unigender (genderunique), that is an unique gender to the individual, while experiencing gendered felings, as opposed to complete/integral genderlessness.
the wrong amazon is burning and the wrong ice is melting
IT DIDNT CATCH FIRE IT IS BEING DELIBERATELY CLEARCUT AND BURNED BECAUSE LARGE AGROBUSINESS CONGLOMERATES PAID THEIR FASCIST GOVERNMENT TO IGNORE THIS COURT RULING
It’d explain why it isn’t getting coverage for sure.
You can give *directly* to Indigenous forest protectors in Brazil by supporting @ApibOficial (Brazilian Articulation of Indigenous Peoples). Indigenous groups are the only reason there is any rainforest left in Brazil at all at this point.
(Image description: four gai pride flags with orange text in white rectangle boxes; together the text reads: “Gay nonbinary people are an important part of the gay community. Gay nonbinary people are an important part of gay history. The future of the gay community is radically inclusive. Gay nonbinary people are important and valid.”)
Absgender: A genderedness that is between, beyond or removed from the Cisgender/Transgender dichotomy; a gender that is neither Cisgender nor Transgender.
Also called “Isogender”.
Etymology
From Latin, “Abs-”, a prefix meaning “away (from)”, in this case referring to being conceptually ‘away’ from explicit cisgenderness and transgenderness. + “-gender”, an English neologistic suffix indicating genderedness. Coined by Gent (Gender-Resource) in 2020 after @arco-pluris requested an alternative term for Isogender.
“Abs-” can be used as a prefix in the same way that “Cis-” or “Trans-” can be used as prefixes to discuss one’s gender in relation to their assignment.
Flag
This is the coining post for this term as well as the first appearance of this flag. The concept behind the color selection is relatively simple. Neither pink nor blue were used to represent removal from the concept of cisgenderness. White was also disclosed, as those colors together represent the transgender community. To reinforce the fact that nonbinary identities are valid transgender identities, the colors yellow, purple and black were also avoided, with white previously accounted for. This flag consists of five, horizontal, solid-colored stripes. From top to bottom, they are olive green, brunt orange, light greige, light red and indigo.
To represent gender experiences that are beyond and removed from the cisgender/transgender dichotomy, olive green, burnt orange, light red and indigo were used. The light greige center stripe represents experiences that exist in the grey area between cisgenderness and transgenderness. Flag by Gent (Gender-Resource), 2020.
Hey there! Thanks for sending me your question. I have a feeling other people are curious about this as well, so I’m happy you sent this my way. 🙂
What constitutes a Midbinary identity? Here’s the formal definition of Midbinary (Endobinary) given by user Arco-Pluris on BMPF:
nonbinary identities/experiences associated to gender binary; genders (un)related incompletely to the binarity (as opposed to abinary, exterbinary or offbinary); sitting on top of the binary but not necessarily in it; existing within the context of the gender binary but are not strictly one or the other.
So, what does that mean? To break down the definition:
Midbinary identities are Nonbinary, meaning they are neither explicitly Male and Female in the culturally normative, binarized sense.
Midbinary identities can be defined in terms of the Gender Binary and it’s derivative concepts.
Midbinary is the opposite of Abinary.
What concepts of gender can we derive from the Gender Binary?
The Gender Binary represents two dissimilar, complementary genders: Male and Female. From Maleness, we are given the concept of masculinity, and from Femaleness, femininity. When masculinity and femininity are combined into a distinct form that has the qualities of both masculinity and femininity, this is referred to as androgyny. When masculinity and femininity are excluded from one’s identity to created a gender-neutral, indeterminate form, this is referred to as epicenity. These four umbrella terms, which can all be defined in relation to masculinity, femininity or some combination and/or lack of said characteristics, represent the basic spectrum of Midbinary alignments. Any identity that can be defined in terms of masculinity and femininity can be categorized as a Midbinary identity. If It cannot be adequately described this way, it would be classified as Abinary.
Here’s are some examples of Midbinary identities:
Juxera: A gender relative to Female, but is distinct from it. It does not lie outside of the Gender Spectrum. A term to describe gender that is immediately proximal to Female in the Gender Spectrum.
Epicene: A Nonbinary gender that is characterized by a lack of masculine or feminine characteristics; an ‘unisex’ gender.
Proxangi: A gender relative to Midgender, but is distinct from it. It does not lie outside of the Gender Spectrum. A term to describe gender that is immediately proximal to Midgender in the Gender Spectrum.
Neutrangi: A gender in-between Midgender and Epicene; A significantly epicene androgynous individual; a midbinary indeterminate, ambiguous gender.
Femache: A simultaneous Male-Female experience.
Ambiguine: An ambiguous Lingender.
I hope this helped! If you have anymore questions, please feel free to send me another message.
Hello! To be honest, I don’t know of any terms off the top of my head that fit that description, but you piqued my interest, so I decided to do some digging around.
I used a couple of different search engines, but I wasn’t able to find anything matching the term “dormantgender”. I also checked my permalink and tags, but I wasn’t able to find any mention of the word “dormant”.
However, I did some keyword searches to see what comes up for the word “dormant” relating to MOGAI terms. I was able to find two potential terms, but I not sure if these are what you’re looking for. Here are the terms I came across with their given definitions:
You may want to ask some of the other MOGAI-friendly blogs, because I might be missing something. If you don’t have any luck finding the term, you might want to coin one. If you decide to coin a term and would like some input, feel free to send me another message.
– Gent
EDIT: after posting this, I received an anonymous ask mentioning the term “Genderdormant”, which I think might be what anon was looking for. Here’s the definition:
A gender which is inaccessible for stretches of time, then rises to the surface with varying levels of intensity.
a gender that is like an ad in the way that it’s invasive, and even perhaps somewhat unsettling, yet seems to fit the person in question identifying with this label, as well as actively being appealing or enticing. the person using this label can also partially deny it; despite its comfort, in a way that can only be described as ‘using adblock’. (additional genders may be added on eg. advertboy, advertgirl, advertenby, advertfluid, etc.)
PLEASE DO NOT INTERACT IF YOU ARE A FLOP/CRINGE ACCOUNT, OR ARE GENERALLY HERE TO MAKE FUN OF MOGAI.
Gendersick: A gender that feels ill or unwell. It can show different “symptoms” or other genders, but always stays somewhat similar. After a while, it can heal and return to what it was or become another gender.
Hope this looks alright! The colors are just supposed to represent different things on a map, light blue for the sky, green for ground, and dark blue for water. And then the symbol in the middle is supposed to be a simplified compass. ~Mod Che
A gender specific for genderfluid and/or genderflux individuals. This is a term for when, because of fluidity or fluctuation of your gender, it feels as if it is lost or gone missing.
The color meanings are quite vague, but the muted indigos all throughout represent the gender going missing, hence the gradient. At the end it is gray with no tint, indicating no presence of gender. The white circle and red question mark are a reference to missing posters.
Even if this gender seems melancholic, it always has the potential to come back. Everything’s all good! I’m not sure if anyone else will relate to this like I do, but it was fun to design (with the help of people I’m in a server with!)
On Friday, 27 July, Mexico City approved a bill banning therapies that claim to “cure homosexuality in a historic vote with 49 in favor, 9 against and 5 abstentions.
The local congress also approved the punishment of up to 5 years in prison for members of churches, medical specialists and psychologists who administer violent treatments to “reverse” the sexual orientation of the members of the LGBT community.
i never see enough tips for trans women/transfem people so. here’s a video that came up about tucking :] (don’t worry she doesn’t use tape at all despite the thumbnail)
TRANSCRIPT:
*rips tape*
“How to tuck for trans Male to Female, or if you’re just really curious.
First, take that fancy-dancy duct tape, that electrical tape, that athletic tape and…
*throws it into a bin with an audible thud*
throw that shit in the trash!
It kinda works, but for the most part it frickin’ hurts, you gotta shave all the time and it’s really bad for your skin.
Instead, go to Walmart, get yourself a pair of high-waisted tights, and a pair of dr scholl’s travel compression socks.
*tears packet for high-waisted tights*
Cut the waistband out of your tights, like so.
*tears sock pack with teeth*
You’re gonna take your socks, and cut to right about… here. Then you get this cool little cuff.
Feed waistband into said cuff.
Step into each loop of the cuff. Your thingy should lay nicely in the cuff. Pull up, put on a pair of cute panties and some shorts, and it’s like you never even had a penis!
A gender that feels like nature reclaiming big abandoned cities, may feel like this is a gender that holds all other genders together (for genderhoarders) like big branches holding up a building that is nearly falling apart.
(Coined by me, ask to edit flag and please credit when using in edits, flop accounts don’t have any of these permissions)
Note: fem(me) in this context is based on the French word for woman, which is “ femme” and not on the identity.
I noticed alot of people want orientations that arnt rooted in their gender, especially for people who are only attracted to one binary gender considering most of the current labels gender the user( lesbian, gay, straight, skolio/ceterosexual) and dont want to be under an umbrella term ( wlw, mlm, nblnb, etc). So i made a system for it. Most of it is based off the french language and none of these are inherently lgbt identities nor are intended to replace current existing lgbt identities
Femmenyo ( fem-may-in-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sexual attraction to cis/trans women and woman-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) women, attraction to women, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sexuality, sexual attraction.
Femmeagno ( fem-may-aag-no)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive romantic attraction to cis/trans women and woman-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) women, attraction to women, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, romanticism, romantic attraction.
Femmeunemo ( fem-may-oo-n-moe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive queer/quasiplatonic attraction to cis/trans women and woman-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) women, attraction to women, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, queer/quasiplatonicality, queer/quasiplatonic attraction.
Femmepyo ( fem-may-pie-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive platonic attraction to cis/trans women and woman-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) women, attraction to women, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, platonicality, platonic attraction.
Femmeflico (fem-may-flea-co)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive alterous attraction to cis/trans women and woman-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) women, attraction to women, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, alterous, alterous attraction.
Femmesoqo (fem-may-so-que-oh)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sensual attraction to cis/trans women and woman-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) women, attraction to women, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sensuality, sensual attraction.
Femmemicbo ( fem-may-mic-boe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive aesthetic attraction to cis/trans women and woman-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) women, attraction to women, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aestheticism, aesthetic attraction.
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sexual attraction to cis/trans men and man-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) men, attraction to men, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sexuality, sexual attraction.
Hommeagno (om-aag-no)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive romantic attraction to cis/trans men and man-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) men, attraction to men, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, romanticism, romantic attraction.
Hommeunemo ( om-oo-n-moe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive queer/quasiplatonic attraction to cis/trans men and man-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) men, attraction to man/mutli-aligned enbies, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, queer/quasiplatonicality, queer/quasiplatonic attraction.
Hommepyo ( om-pie-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive platonic attraction to cis/trans men and man-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) men, attraction to man/mutli-aligned enbies, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, platonicality, platonic attraction.
Hommeflico (om-flea-co)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive alterous attraction to cis/trans men and man-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) men, attraction to man/mutli-aligned enbies, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, alterous, alterous attraction.
Hommesoqo (om-so-que-oh)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sensual attraction to cis/trans men and man-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) men, attraction to man/mutli-aligned enbies, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sensuality, sensual attraction.
Hommemicbo ( om-mic-boe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive aesthetic attraction to cis/trans men and man-/multi-aligned enbies
Stripe meanings: attraction to binary (cis/trans) men, attraction to man/multi-aligned enbies, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aestheticism, aesthetic attraction.
In order: bi/pan flag, my version of the aroace flag, and a bi/pan aroace flag
I made the bi/pan flag by taking the pink from the pan flag and the blue from the bi flag, and then I switched the saturations of the purple bi stripe and the yellow pan stripe, and made them both thin like the bi flag because I think it’s cool.
I made the aroace flag by taking the darker green from the aro flag and the purple from the ace flag and then taking the white, the gray (which I made darker), and the black and making them thin stripes in the middle.
I made the bi/pan aroace flag by crossing the purple from my bi/pan flag and the purple from the ace flag, then I took the pink from the pan flag, then I made the blue from the bi flag lighter so it would be cohesive with the other colors, then I took the yellow from my bi/pan flag and did the same thing I did with the blue part of the flag to the green of the aro flag by making it lighter
Also, I’m going to attempt to make an image description
[PHOTO ID: a flag design that is a saturated pink on top, with a saturated thin purple stripe, then following is a thin dark yellow stripe, and after that stripe is a dark blue. That is the bi/pan flag. Next image is a flag design that is dark purple, following the dark purple is a thin white stripe, following that stripe is a thin dark gray stripe, next is a thin black stripe, then a thin dark gray stripe, then a think white stripe, and after the white stripe is a green. That is the aroace flag. The final image is all even stripes, and the order is a light to medium purple, the same pink as the bi/pan flag, a light to medium blue, the same dark yellow from the bi/pan flag, and a desaturated light green. END PHOTO ID]
here’s an idea i had for a quoi flag that’s easier to physically produce 👍✨
i really like @epochryphal‘s
symbolism of having a non-rectangular flag and i feel like thats often
ignored in interpretations of the flag or even reproductions of the
original? so i thought a way i could honor that idea while getting
crafty with it is by making triangular pennants!
as per mod mangle’s thoughts:
the flag in the original purple-grey color scheme intends to represent quoi- as a prefix as a whole because people who use this prefix have a unity of experience regardless of what they apply it to, and because it honors that original intentional vagueness
💜🖤
the blue-green color scheme represents quoi- orientations specifically bc quoi-attractional people have unique experiences that deserve recognition especially when they’re treated so often as outsiders even in aro/ace communities which claim to include them 💙💚
this is an updated post based on feedback from both other mods and followers about the design and definition. if you reblogged the old one, please reblog this one instead! 🙇
a nlw + nlm combo flag for anon! i did a plain version as well as one with a combined nlw/nlm symbol and another with the individual nlw and nlm symbols.
a specific term exists for this (scapolitian), so this flag could be used by anyone who identifies as such, though it’s not specifically intended to be a scapolitian flag!
Not sure how long your req has been in my inbox so im sry if its been here awhile, i wasnt notified for sum reason. 🤷 So heres some i was able to whip up using my flags from this post and the most common trans and cis flags ive seen!
there were cusperflag combos but designed in a cissexist blog. yours are pretty
thanks! i had seen them looking for any previous cusper flag designs but turns out the owner of that blog is a radfem so. yikes.
cusper is an lgbt identity defined by feeling like one is on the “cusp” between being transgender and a gender non-conforming “cis” person (ie: feeling like one’s experiences and feeling towards their gender falls between being a trans man and a butch lesbian),
one might not feel like either label solely defines them and their experiences, like both identities are important to them and inseparable to eachother, like their identity encompasses elements of the traditional definition of both labels, or like their identity exists at the intersection of both experiences.
they may transition partly, and be known as either gender in different contexts of their life (ie: gladly passing as a man at the workplace, but also being comfortable with being called their significant partner’s girlfriend).
some examples of people who might feel the term cusper fits them are:
a transfeminine gender non-conforming gay man; they may take estrogen, have top surgery and refer to themselves as a woman sometimes, but prefer not to have any other procedures or “pass” fully as a woman
a transmasculine butch lesbian: they may use he/him pronouns, have bottom surgery, and change their legal gender; but still be ok with being referred to and proudly identify as a butch lesbian and as a woman in certain contexts
Futch is a term similar in idea to butch or femme. A futch is someone who is both butch and femme/a feminine butch/etc.
I didn’t like a lot of the pre-existing ones because they reminded me too much of the lipstick lesbian flag, so I went ahead and made my own, and this is the final version!
Now is a good time to say that if you don’t believe in futches, don’t support mspec lesbians, or think butch and femme are only for lesbians, get the hell off my blog thanks.
• Stay hydrated, my friends!
• If you are hungry, grab a snack.
• Refill your water glass or bottle if it’s running low.
•Get up and use the facilities if you need to. Don’t hold it!
Hello my fellow Polysexual family! As many of you know, we have been bullied over our flag and how “ugly” is is. Which to an extent I agree. So, I present to you our new Polysexual Flag!!❤💚💙 Please share this around my lovely queer family 💖💞💕
I really appreciate the flag. Although it feels like a clone, it has more pleasing colors but not too consonant yet to my eyes.
Im not doing okay. Mentally im very very mad. Although I’m very cheerful/joyful externally… But internally I’m so done with my manic episodes. Involuntarily I’m very ignorant bc of it. That’s why sometimes i share my feelings through posts but then I feel bad for what I thought in the past and dirty delete everything. I’m very influenced for what people around me talk about. My mind tends to be fuzzy bc of symptomatically psychotic moments, relocating it to be more consonant is cool and all. But a dissonant mind is trippy too. Wasting time on tumblr is nice, I talk to people as crazy as me and don’t need to feel ashamed for it. It’s being like a twitter… But for my mental health I’m going to stop posting here and just be reblogging (I hope so). And since I’m going to psychiatric hospital tomorrow again, I’m sure I’m going to be more great, all I need is a melatonin to sleep at nights and probably an antidepressant. I tried to do non-medicalized alternative treatments, including a holistic one, but couldn’t extend them…for personal reasons.
random bisexual/biromantic(?) flag redesigns i made on impulse becuz re-imagining my flag is fun, i remember seeing someone else use white in their redesign forever ago but i cant remember who
use it for w/e, credit/tag me if u do id love to see what ppl make if yall like these
reblogs appreciated ! / plz credit if used ! / requests are open
!
Pronoun ambivalent
Similar to pronoun indifferent and sex ambivalent (romance ambivalent as well), ambivalence has to do with mixed or fluid feelings towards pronouns.
An example can be sometime you’re a void/null (using no pronouns at all), other time you can feel repulsion/dysphoria for applying pronouns to yourself (apothipronoun), then feel happy/euphoric for being pronouned as something you think it’s correctly at that time.
Some people also used this referring to using both he and she pronouns instead of using (s)he, s/he, he/she or she/he… or simply being multipronoun.
Coined some terms :} if you wanna credit me for whatever reason please credit @pyradim and not my sideblogs :}
Static bigender (or distatic, di meaning two) – someone who is bigender with one static and one fluid gender
Binary bigender – someone who is distatic, but their static gender is a binary gender. Binary bigender people can identify as binary or nonbinary because they’re not always one or the other.
This format can also be extended to other genders or categories of gender (for example “xenic bigender”), which would all fall under the category of distatic
Two distatic flags:
Image descriptions: The first image is of a 5-striped flag. The second image explains the meanings behind the colors from top to bottom: cornflower blue for masc-aligned identities, gold for non-aligned people or people outside of the gender binary altogether, pink/coral for fem-aligned identities, mint green for the fluidity of a distatic’s gender, black for the solidity of a distatic’s gender. The third image is of the same flag with three black hearts on top of it which form a slight upward arc. The fourth image explains the meanings of the hearts, starting from left to right: love for your identity, peace with your identity, and respect for other identities.
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I’m not sure how long ago this was submitted, so I apologize for not posting it until just now. Either way, thank you for the submission!
Pink for women and feminine leaning people, yellow for non-binary people, blue for men and masculine leaning people and white (plus an alternative version with arrows) to indicate transition.
Homo- Hetero- (hetromo or homohet): ambi- monoromantic monosexual varioriented individuals or otherwise identifying as hetromantic homosexual or homoromantic hetrosexual.
Heterosexual Homoromantic Flag
Homoromantic Heterosexual: feeling romantic attraction to similar gender(s) and sexual attraction to dissimilar gender(s). This includes lesbromantic straight and gayromantic het.
Heteroromantic Homosexual Flag
Homosexual Heteromantic: romantically attracted to dissimilar gender(s) and and sexually attracted to similar gender(s). This includes lesbsexual wlm, lesbisexual julietian, duaric lesbosexual mascic, lesbiansexual hetroromantic, romeric mlm and gaysexual straightromantic.
Nebulahomo: someone who is definitely attracted to the same gender, but due to neurodivergency, attraction is confusing and may or may not be attracted to other genders.
Kandigender: A gender that is colorful but organized, and/or a gender that relates to Kandi
Ok I’m gonna be honest. I’m nonbinarist and feminist but not essentially anti-masculist. I don’t like the male/binary normies, I support males circumstantially: if they a minority, such as the neuroatypicals, queer, non-white(ned)s, non-westerners, non-north-hemisphericals, etc… The same goes for females/binaries…
Despite being aplspec I like the term fellowship, it feels right what I idealize/platonize as a true social contact. Although I don’t believe true real friends exist. (G)ermanal (hermanal)/siblingly/familial love seems fake tbh, in my intrapersonal identity narrative l
[Image: a 5-striped flag with stripes in descending order: dark grey, grey, white, grey, black.]
Aphiliac/aphile describes many things:
not having great affection to anything nor a strong liking/taste for anyone;
not having normophilias nor paraphilias;
synonymous to lovelessness, analterous and nonamory/anamory;
being panaspec/omniaspec/anattractional in every form of attraction.
It’s being used around but it has no official meaning. Many aplaroaces use aphilia as an extention of their aromanticity/aplatonicity. If -philia derives from philos (Greek word for brotherly/irmanal love/friendship), it would signify asociality/anamicality.
-Ap
Forget to mention agamy/agamous/agamic. Agamia has been conceptualized in Spanish-speaking communities more than agamy. Rejecting all forms of love, but they are many times politically sex-negative so I don’t associate with them since I’m antiproibicionista, turning out I’m not antisexual nor SWERFy in any shape. As a libidoist angled acespec aromid/aroallo/alloaro, I feel aphilia is beyond sexual identifications.
Tbh I’m unironically radlib, I’m not radical nor liberal, I share views with both of them and neither at the same time. A true centrist.
I have done flags for M-spec Straights because they aren’t mentioned often!
M-spec Straight person is:
1. Heterosexual M-spec-romantic person
2. M-spec-sexual heteroromantic person
3. Person who’s attracted to the opposite gender+other genders(for example, woman who loves men and nonbinary people only but feels that heterosexual or bisexual/polysexual labels doesn’t describe her attraction enough so she might use bi straight/ply straight)
4. M-spec person with leaning to gender which leaning they consider to be straight in nature
In order: Bi Straight, Pan Straight, Ply Straight and Omni Straight
Nebulagay: someone who is definitely attracted to men, but due to neurodivergency, attraction is confusing and may or may not be attracted to other genders.
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