Catcrossingic: a gender that is connected to the cat villagers in Animal Crossing: New Horizons
[ID: a flag with 5 horizontal stripes. the colors are, from top to bottom: navy blue, blue, white, light orange, and slightly darker orange-brown. End ID]
here’s your daily reminder that straight queer people are so, so valid and important
straight trans men? valid
straight trans women? valid
straight transfems? valid
straight transmascs? valid
straight transneutrals? valid
straight nonbinary people? valid
straight genderqueer people? valid
straight agender people? valid
straight genderfluid people? valid
straight bigender people? valid
all transhets? valid
straight asexuals? valid
straight aromantics? valid
straight grayromantics? valid
straight graysexuals? valid
straight oriented aroaces? valid
all straight aspecs? valid
straight bis? valid
straight pans? valid
straight plys? valid
straight omnis? valid
straight -flexibles? valid
straight abros? valid
all straight m-specs? valid
multi-oriented straights? valid
multi-aligned straights? valid
SAM straights? valid
no SAM straights? valid
straightbians? valid
straight sapphics? valid
straight trixics? valid
straight achilleans? valid
straight torics? valid
people who are both straight and gay? valid
strayt people? valid
straight nmlws? valid
straight nwlms? valid
straight nblnbs? valid
people who are both strayt and gai? valid
people who are both straight and gai? valid
queer hets who prefer not to use the straight label due to the connotation of privilege? valid
all other straights who don’t have straight privilege? valid
all other non-gay queers? valid
anybody else who i didn’t include on this list? VALID
you’re all so valid and anybody who says otherwise is not! worth! your! time! you deserve to feel safe and recognized. you deserve to celebrate all parts of your queer identity. and your own community should NOT be making you feel bad, period. demanding respect is not needy or annoying!! you deserve just as much respect as everyone else!!
I also decided to reupload my gray-ace set! These flags are for oriented gray-ace folks! I uploaded these on my main blog but I wanted to bring them here as a source for anyone who identifies as gray-ace! I personally identify as bi gray-ace myself~ So ye.
Also if you have a gray-ace identity and it’s paired with another sexuality like below, hmu and I’ll make one for you! I just did whatever came to the top of my head.
❤ Anyone can use these flags too, even if you’re not pro-ship! My flags are available to everyone as a source. The exception being TERFS, SWERFS, and exclusionists! Please don’t use them if you’re any of that.
mspec people who “technically could identify as bi” but don’t and are shamed, guilted, and vilified for it: you are not biphobic for not identifying as bi, for not feeling that “this is me” feeling about bi, for liking other labels more than bi, for not choosing your label based on what others what you to use.
claiming we should identify as bi because we “fit” a definition is a fundamental misunderstanding of how identity labels work. labels are not determined and defined for us. we choose our own labels and we define our own labels. we use labels to express ourselves, which others don’t get a say in; start conversations with, based on our experiences; build communities with, with others like us. they are ever-growing and everchanging.
people who explain their attraction in the same way could use different labels, and vice versa. gay men have always had different terms based on parts of their identity that they felt were important enough to need its own term. there was never a time when bi was an automatic, mandatory label for being mspec.
because identity labels are personal and self-identification is more important than shoving everyone into boxes based on definitions other people determined.
: “Personally, I believe first and foremost in the right to claim one’s own identity and be recognized in terms of that identity: the right of each creature to name itself.”
Closer To Home by Elizabeth Reba Weise, Anything That Moves #4, 1992: “As Margaret Mihee Chloe points out in her essay, ‘identity is that which makes one recognizable to self and other.’ The plurality of names, and the combinations used, are all attempts in our clumsy and woman-wordless language, to create this identity, to make ourselves recognizable.”
A Bisexual Feminist Perspective by Liz Highleyman, 1993: “When I think of queer anarchism, I think of breaking down the strict boundaries constructed between the categories of sexuality. So, I guess I think of bisexuality, omnisexuality, pansexuality as being more ‘anarchist’ that strict homosexuality or heterosexuality.”
Bisexual Politics: Theories, Queries, and Visions by Naomi S. Tucker, 1995: “how we make sense of the world and live our lives as bisexual, pansexual, omnisexual, multisexual, ‘just sexual,’ androgynous, genderfucked, bi-gendered, non-gendered, gender-indifferent, or ‘don’t label me’ human beings seeking to create communities with those with whom we find common cause, even (or maybe especially!) if our labels don’t happen to coincide.”
Anything That Moves #11, 1996: “Call For Submissions: ATM is particularly interested in work by bi/pan/or-similar-sexuals.”
Labelous Statements by Anne Killpack, Anything That Moves #19, 1999: “Whether you call yourself bisexual, polysexual, multisexual, pansexual, me-sexual or refuse to be labeled altogether, if you are like me and find people attractive regardless of their sex or gender, then we need you.”
Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around the World edited by Robyn Ochs, 2005: “Some identify as queer, pansexual, or omnisexual. Some deliberately use labels strategically, identifying differently in different social contexts. And some eschew labels altogether. We considered subtitling this book Voices of Bisexuals and Other Folks Along the Sexuality Spectrum, recognizing that the word bisexual cannot possibly encompass all whose identities challenge the binaries of gay and straight.”
Not Bisexual Enough? by Tracy, Bi Women Quarterly, 2009: “The following people, while one could technically label them as ‘bisexual,’ have vastly diverse experiences that need to be acknowledged: ‘lesbians’ who have sex with men, ‘straight women’ who are turned on by girl-on-girl porn, people who are mostly attracted to the same sex, people who are mostly attracted to the opposite sex, those who are attracted to people ‘regardless of gender,’ and so many more. Clearly, there is a demand for many more labels.“
“What’s in a Name: Call Me Bisexual or Call Me..” by Ellyn Ruthstrom, Bi Women Quarterly, 2009: “Whether we call ourselves bisexual or queer or omnisexual or any other word, we hope to keep our community strong and vibrant for many years to come. I was very cheered by the discussion in the workshop and the way that people expressed feeling a connection to each other, despite the different terms.”
and lastly, a quote from The Bisexual Index: “We don’t think everyone who is sexually attracted to more than one gender needs to identify as bisexual. Why think outside the gay/straight box only to insist there has to be a limit on how many more boxes there is?”
so if people ever (try to) make you feel down or bad about being mspec and not identifying as bi, please remember that the history of not only the bisexual community, but the overall queer community as well, is on your side.
Genderfrol: a gender that is connected to meadows, the blue sky, summer, gentle rainfall in a field, and brightly colored petals on the ground. Etymology: Extremaduran, “frol” meaning “flower”
Aidemattraction: An orientation where you feel that your aromanticism and asexuality are the same thing and can not be distinguished from one another.
The A comes from A being the prefix used in asexual and aromantic, idem is the Latin prefix for same, and I used the phrase attraction at the end because it encompass both a sexual and romantic orientation.The flag above the Aidemattraction flag.
A gender based on Mako from Final Fantasy. Makogender is a gender that feels like comfortable spiritual energy. People who are makogender experience feeling ethereal and feel a strong connection to earth.
They may also feel like they posses memories and knowledge that is not their own
Colour meaning:
1: Representing “being”
2: Represnts the connection to earth, a tone that is both green and blue, water and nature
decayigender – a gender related to decaying, rot, basically the natural decay of bodies, including bugs and such feeding in the body.
modifiers can be added to this, such as decayifeminine, decayimasculine, decayinon
pronouns related to this gender include rot/rots, de/decay, decay/decays/decaying, bug/bugs, corpse/corpses, maggot/maggots, but any pronouns can be used.
Losian
losian – a gender related to being lost, fog, and loneliness.
modifiers can be added to this, such as losafem, losimasc, and losnon
pronouns related to this gender include los/lost, fog/fogs, and lone/lonelys
sephiroic : a gender related to sephiroth from the final fantasy game franchise ; gender that relates or has a deep connection to the character sephiroth.
⊹ ⁺ term coined for @demibunzii + flag made by me!
ID : two flags side by side ; on the right is a six horizontal striped flag with colors in this top to bottom order : maroon, dark grey-purple, grey-purple, off-white, dark grey, and black. on the left is the same flag with a white-outlined picture of sephiroth in the middle!
It’s related to cinnamon, aggresively androgynous, kinda spicy! If you taste it (experience the gender) alone, it will will definitely be overwhelming, but if you taste it with something else, it’ll be softer
Genderghost: A gender that feels like it disappears and reappears with varying intensity, much like a ghost. This gender could feel as if it’s haunting you, but doesn’t have to.
Oceanusvoid: A gender that feels nonexistent or missing, but in the same way the deep depths of the ocean are undiscovered. It is a mysterious and cold gender that feels as if it hasn’t been found yet.
Genderpluviam: A gender that feels like and/or sounds like raindrops hitting against a window. The rain the raindrops come from can be of any intensity.
quoiaesthetic/quoisthetic flag for anon! quoiaesthetic definitions include (but are not limited to, as i’m sure there are likely other quoi- definitions out there):
being unsure what aesthetic attraction is
being unsure if you experience aesthetic attraction or not
being unable to define aesthetic attraction and therefore unable to determine whether or not you experience it
finding the concept of aesthetic attraction to be inaccessible or inapplicable to yourself
having a difficult time distinguishing aesthetic attraction from other forms of attraction or being unable to distinguish them at all
not being able to find a better term for your aesthetic attraction due to complexity or other labels simply not fitting
This is the finished Alliance flag i present since it’s time for a change and this is a way to unite and bring together the whole MOGAI community and supporters and unifying as one to create a driving force against phobia and hate against our community it’s time to stand up and make a change and maybe we will be noticed and accepted more as a strong willed and independent community working together as one too fight for freedom and peace! it’s time to stand up too protect and fight for whats right.
Flag meaning: Orange = strong-willed , Red = Passion to stand up , Light Red = cooperativity , Light purple = inclusivity , Purple = unity
ableism and transphobia? wow! that must have really given your two brain cells a workout, coming up with something that devastating
also I’ll take this as you conceding the argument, since all you’ve got left is insults. thanks for playing!
DHFJSJHAJ
IM FREAKGENDER
me too
actually can we reclaim freakgender? I kind of like the sound of it
let’s do it, i’m in
ngl I honestly like freakgender more then a lot of other terms that I’ve heard
SAME
Y’ALL IT’S A THING (I and @aspieko collaborated on this)
It’s Genderfreak so not exactly the same but this literally why it was created
I don’t remember all the color meanings 100% but I do remember purple was for dignity and the spear represents Continuing To Fight if u wanna use it I’d be so glad tbh
If you figured out some kinda meaning for the rest of the colors I’m sure it could get more people hyped. If you want I could make an updated flag that’s square/rectangle and more crisp for people to use?
Also I’m glad you mentioned the name Genderfreak because it made me learn about a movie I now need to watch.
Atthepartygender: A musicagender related to, connected to and/or described by the song You’re At The Party by Lemon Demon. This gender may feel surreal and unusual yet comfortable and familiar.
RWQgender: A gender connected to RWQFSFASXC (Shadow Bonnie) from Five Nights at Freddy’s; a gender which is dark, mysterious, and scary. It lurks in the shadows, never violent or hostile, but always as though it is about to attack. It is connected to the dark, shadows, loneliness, and rabbits. May be influenced by trauma, hiding away and dangerous as a result of it.
Scrapbabic- a gender connected to Scrap Baby from Five Nights at Freddy’s; a gender that feels broken, solitary, dangerous, and as though it is made of scraps of other genders.
[ Image ID: A flag made up of three vertical stripes. The first stripe is light gray and has a large black X over it. The second stripe in the middle is black and small in comparison to the other stripes. The final and third stripe is purple. End image ID. ]
My attempt at a Contreogender flag redesign. It might also be considered a ‘genderpunk’ type of flag: a flag representing rejection of gender, and can be used that way.
Contreogender: An individual who believes that society’s attitudes surrounding gender and gender roles are harmful, and that gender should not be regarded as important.
None of these have names yet so I’ll probably edit some in later because I’m ~dumb as fuck~ and honestly can’t think up any good names for these that don’t sound dinky as hell, so placeholder names
Disciplegender – a nonspecific fictive gender for someone who’s gender is defined by their species and status as a disciple from Drakengard 3. Just if you don’t want something specific or if you’re not canon to the source.
rienarian : a gender that when thought of or visualized, you can only seem to picture nothingness.
(pronounced re-nare-ian)
⊹ ⁺ term coined for @groveflags + flag made by me!
— rien is the french word for ‘nothing’ and arian is a english suffix that means ‘a person who’
ID : two flags side by side ; on the right is a seven horizontal striped flag, with colors going in this top to bottom order : indigo, dark blue-purple, lilac, muted fuchsia, light fuchsia, purple, and deep purple. on the left is that same flag but with a circle in the middle. it is a deep blue color, and has a lighter blue edge surrounding it.
[ID: A four-stripe flag. in order it is yellow, pale greyish blue, dark greyish blue, very dark blue. The second image is the same but with the meanings written on. Light, foggy idea of gender, calm, and darkness of night. end ID]
Oh shit! New gender dropped!
Noctislux;
A gender related to calm, coldness, quiet, light, or lighthouses. Described as dark with a light inside it. The gender can not always clearly be defined, like a light in the middle of a fog. it is calm and still, in a comfortable way.
A scrapgender person would range from commonly-to-rarely feeling
partially agender. This would pair up with their dominant suffix gender.
When they aren’t feeling any sort of agendered feelings at all, the
idea of remembering and/or being even partially any other gender besides
the suffix gender seems uncomfortable for them. Saying that, they still
acknowledge they felt at least partially agender in the past. They know
they can’t change the fact they were. It’s common for scrapgender
people to have awkward and constantly changing pronouns.
The term “Scrapgender” can be considered a very specific type of
genderflux; it acts as a potential microlabel for the genderflux
community.
Stripes: Yellow for disarray and confusion. Green for agender.
Varying blues for varying feelings of maleness. Varying pinks for
varying feelings of femaleness.
concelit: a gender that feels as though it is concealed behind a door as light seeps in through the gaps. it takes comfort in the quiet, calm darkness within its hiding spot. this description could be aesthetic, metaphorical, etc.
a gender concept that came to me earlier! this fits under the kenochoric umbrella.
tensic – a gender relating to the atmosphere surrounding an apocalypse. it feels dark, ominous, and dim, while also being adrenaline-filled and on edge.
from the english word tense.
ensamic – a gender that feels creepy, alone, and destroyed, but also strangely calm. may or may not be related to the apocalypse.
Separsique: An AUIN (autonomous in nature) gender, experienced by people who have scrutinized and deconstructed their gender so thoroughly that they can no longer put it back together.
The diminutive (such as boy/girl/enby) is sep.
Each part of a sep’s gender—identity, expression, possibly even including different parts of their expression as individual parts, such as fashion versus pronouns, or online versus offline—while experienced, are separate from each other. Each part may influence each other, or even mirror each other, but the separation still makes it difficult to determine what their gender would exactly be if it were whole.
A sep’s gender may become even more difficult to understand upon further scrutiny. Only when viewed at a glance can this gender be seen as some sort of cohesive whole.
For example, a sep may get the feeling that both their gender expression and identity are masculine, and that they influence each other, but the ways in which they’re experienced still clash enough to prevent them from choosing a specific label. Thus, they describe themself as masculine and nothing more.
WOW, this is a long one!! We coined this for one of the co-hosts of our system!
The colors of the flag were color-picked from mechanical pencils! Why mechanical pencils, you ask? Because we were trying to think of something that gets deconstructed a lot, and we cannot count how many times we’ve taken apart mechanical pencils.
Not only that, but while taking apart something can be helpful to understand how it works, you may not be able to put it back together again, or you might break part of it in the process. :’)
Feel free to ask any questions about this one in the replies or my askbox! It might be a bit confusing, since we’re doing this so late at night …
[Image description: There are five images.
The first image is a rectangular pride flag. It is separated into three sections. The leftmost and rightmost sections have five horizontal stripes, separated by thick white lines. From top to bottom, they are:
blue, green, yellow, orange, red.
The middle section is separated from the others by a thick, blue-black line. They also have five horizontal stripes, separated by white lines. From top to bottom, they are: red, orange, yellow, green, blue. On top of the stripes is a white mechanical pencil symbol, bordered in blue-black.
The second image is the same flag, but without the mechanical pencil.
The third image is a square icon version of the initial flag; it only has the middle section of the flag visible, as well as the mechanical pencil.
The fourth image is the same as the third, but without the mechanical pencil.
The fourth image is a Do Not Interact banner. It reads:
“DO NOT INTERACT: racist/sexist/etc, islamophobe, antisemite, anti-mogai, pronoun policer, TERF/truscum/transmed, bi/panphobe, aspec exclusionist, exorsexist, anti-queer, pedo/MAP/etc, anti-self dx, anti-endo, or you don’t respect those who take alterhumanity seriously.”]
[Image ID: First Image: A white flag with a red outline and five horizontal diamonds. One diamond is in each quarter of the flag with the fifth diamond in the middle. The top left diamond is yellow, the top right is dark green, the bottom left is turquoise, the bottom right is blue and the middle is red.
Second Image: A light yellow flag with a red outline and for shapes, one shape in each quarter. The top left shape is a light red 8-pointed star, the top right is a turquoise diamond, the bottom left is a green diamond, and the bottom right is a blue crescent moon.
Third Image: A light green flag with a red outline and four shapes, one shape in each quarter. The top left shape is a blue diamond, the top right is a yellow 8-pointed star, the bottom left is a turquoise water droplet, and the bottom right is a light red diamond.
Fourth Image: An off white flag outline in black. The bottom half is covered in 5 thick black lines that are connected by a thin black line on their top end. Three black dots sit in a vertical line in the middle of the flag. The bottom two dots overlap the middle thick black line. End ID.]
Harlequingender (Flag 1): xenogender related to the commedia dell’arte character “arlecchino” aka “harlequin;” a gender that is comical, energetic, and trickster-like.
Trivegender (Flag 2): the masculine form of harlequingender. Trive- is from the commedia dell’arte character “trivelino.”
Guazzagender (Flag 3): the feminine form of harlequingender. Guazza is the singular form of “guazze”from the commedia dell’arte character “guazzette.”
Pedrolinegender (Flag 4): a xenogender similar to harlequingender that is agender in nature. It is related to the commedia dell’arte character “pedrolino” aka “pedroline” or an AGIN xenogender that is playful, energetic, and clever.
for when your gender is connected or is the werehog from sonic unleashed (2008) this is for @sonknuxadow because on discord they were like “my gender is whatever this mfer has going on” and it was a image of the werehog but any one can use this
🌈 raindashix – a gender inspired by rainbow dash from g4 mlp. it feels loud, active, daring, and strong. it’s connected to rainbows and skies, and is fast and fluid in nature
Boycute+cleancoric and boycute+cottagegoric combos I did myself! Cottagegoric was done by me, cleancoric was coined by ???(will find author!), boycute was coined by @mogaicatboy
Genderchar is a gender best described by, and associated with, a character! Can be from known media or your own character. Please do not that not every sub-term that includes an oc is for people other than the coiner. (Coiners; is the subterm is made after your own char, I reccommend including if your term can be used by others or not somewhere in the desc!)
This is not kingender. Though it can exist alongside a kingender.
aasimaric: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the aasimar race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
firbolgic : a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the firbolg race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
kenkuic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the kenku race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
koboldic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the kobold race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
lizardfolkic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the lizardfolk race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
orcic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the orc race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
tabaxic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the tabaxi race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
tritonic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the triton race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
yuantic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the yuan-ti race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
a colorgender relating to the colors of twilight, including pink, purple, blue, and majenta. One feels all these colors at once, combined to make the gender.
Cinnabaric: The juvelic term for an attrafluid person who is both nblnb & wlw, but not nblw or wlnb. They are often (though not always) genderfluid, and their attraction to NBs and women (/and woman-aligned NBs) always feels gay (sapphic for women, enbian for NBs), gai, or otherwise symmaic.
Heliodoran: The juvelic term for an attrafluid person who is both nblnb & mlm, but not nblm or mlnb. They are often (though not always) genderfluid, and their attraction to NBs and men (/and man-aligned NBs) always feels gay (achillean/vincian for men, enbian for NBs), gai, or otherwise symmaic.
Stripe Meanings:
The middle three stripes of either flag are derived from the sapphic and mlm flags, while the purple comes from the enbian flag. The outer two stripes are inspired by the gemstones each term is named for.
If you have any problems with either of these terms or flag designs, please let me know. I may take the post down & will certainly do my best to correct the issue.🦋
The Quadrant system is the structure for romance established in the Homestuck webcomic. My intention with this post is to provide terminology for people who already use the Quadrant system in their romantic life. However, you are allowed to adopt this system if it is new to you and you find it appealing. If you’d like to read more about what’s already been established, the in-comic explanation starts here and a wikipedia page on the system is here.
Anyway, onto the terms.
Flushed (or) Matespritic Attraction: An attraction very similar to our current definition of Romantic Attraction. Characterised by feelings of romantic love, and generally (but not necessarily) sexual attraction. Some gestures of Flushed affection may include hugs, kisses, and sex.
Pale (or) Moirallegic Attraction: An attraction founded on a desire to support, protect, and form a commited and deep emotional relationship with a person. Some gestures of Pale affection may include Hugs, Papping (ie patting / caressing intended to calm a person), and Jamming (Sessions of emotional vulnerability).
Pitch (or) Kismesic Attraction: An attraction founded on a simultaneous hatred and respect for another person. You could think of a Pitch relationship like a committed rivalry that takes on characteristics of a romantic relationship. Like Matespritic attraction, there can (but doesn’t necessarily have to) be a sexual component to Kismesic attraction.
(I personally feel like I’m not qualified to define how a Pitch relationship looks beyond this, as I do not experience or understand Pitch attraction myself. I don’t want to disclude it from this model though, so I will leave it up to those who want to use the term to differentiate between a healthy and an unhealthy pitch relationship. Abusive relationships are not Kismesic relationships and I strongly discourage you from using this label for relationships or attractions which are harmful to you.)
Ashen (or) Auspistic Attraction: An attraction founded on a desire to help two other people maintain a healthy relationship + prevent them from developing a toxic or otherwise unhealthy dynamic. Ashen gestures towards others in the relationship could include breaking up / preventing fights and helping to defuse feelings of anger.
These definitions are all flexible, and you’re free to define each type of attraction however suits you, personally, best. You are also free to decide what gestures of affection and affectionate terminology you would like to use in regards to your attraction, and it doesn’t have to match up with what I’ve posited here.
You can also decide whether you consider all of these attraction-types romantic, whether you consider some platonic / queerplatonic / alterous, or whether you consider them completely seperate, etc. You are also under no obligation to adhere to or label any or all of these types of attraction.
Each kind of attraction can be towards specific genders, EG being “Panmatespritic” or “Akismesic.”
Anyway, I think that covers everything. Thanks for reading and feel free to use these terms / the flags I’ve linked wherever you want. If you make a post using any of the flags on Tumblr I’d love to be tagged so I can see it, otherwise feel free to use them whenever with or without credit.
Ok so I made a xenogender, sorry if something like this already exists but if it does I haven’t found it.
Geodeic A gender that, on the surface, feels or presents as though it is faint or nonexistent, but if you look a little deeper it’s complex and multifaceted.
Usage I would suggest using it in combination with other genders as a descriptor but you can use it on its own too if you like.
Flag Meaning Black: The absence of gender Other colours: Common geode colours, no specific meanings
Here is a redesign of @xxkorvusxx ‘s Ranboogender flag! This is one i definitely identify with, i love ranboos character and a forgetful inhuman cryptid certainly sounds like my gender!
Ranboogender: An mcytgender related to ranboo in some way
Daroric: A gender alignment to darkness or shadow.
Daroric is an alignment that is completely separate from male, female, or neutral, and is instead connected to darkness or shadows. Coined by wavership, flag made by me.
wildblosmic: a gender that is fluid in between floral genders, but specifically wildflowers and flowers perhaps considered weeds or pests, ie daisies, dandelions, etc.
bouquetblosmic: a gender fluid in between floral genders, but particularly flowers given as gifts or especially presentable flowers, ie. roses, carnation, etc.
(I coined these genders myself, so please let me know if this term already exists, is too similar to another gender, or if the flag is too similar to any others!)
Callistian (left; nlm, nlw, wlw, and wlm) and Lapian (right; nlm, nlw, mlm, mlw) flags because the only ones I could find were made by @/xeno-aligned, who has some arophobic and alloarophobic views (x).
Color meanings:
The pink and peach shades on the Callistian flag stand for the gender spectrum between woman and nonbinary, while the blue and green shades on the Lapian flag stand for the gender spectrum between man and nonbinary. The purple and blues on the bottom of both flags signifies loving women and men. The white stripe unites the top half of the flag, the identity portion, with the bottom half, the attraction/love portion.
[Text: Do not screenshot/repost to cringe/flop accounts. Do not start discourse on this post. DNI if LGBTQphobe, anti MOGAI, TERF/radfem, pro cringe culture, racist, sexist, ableist, porn/NSFW blog, or any of the criteria.]
Also known as “GenderOC” or “Gender[OC],” where an OC’s name may be inputted to make it unique to that character (i.e, “gendjax” or “genderjax” to input the name of one of my own characters).
Definition: A gender that relates to an OC in some way. This may be through simply relating to them, feeling like the character, feeling like the character’s gender, or something else entirely as long as it is linked to an OC. GendOC may be fluid, static, etc, anything fits for the character in question.
The flag is meaningless as to not impose meanings directly onto another’s character. They silver/gold/orange flag is meant to be used as a general flag for this gender, though the greyscale flag may be modified to fit the motifs/colourscheme/”vibes” of the character it is used in relation to.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask!
Symbol Removal Series
If you prefer a version without the symbols, here you go.
refero- | refero- with symbol referoromantic with stripe edit | referomantic with symbol referosexual with stripe edit | referosexual with symbol
refero-/refer-: attraction to a person through dreams, memories, daydreams, feelings of nostalgia, music, and other sensations and moments
referoromantic/referromantic: romantic attraction to a person through dreams, memories, daydreams, feelings of nostalgia, music, and other sensations and moments
referosexual/refersexual: sexual attraction to a person through dreams, memories, daydreams, feelings of nostalgia, music, and other sensations and moments
coined here, flags for anon! i used colors that represent a nostalgic, dreamlike feeling, and made the symbol a thought bubble to show that this orientation revolves around thoughts and memories. the grey stripes in the general refero- flag represent the initial lack of attraction, and the other colors represent dreams/memories/etc that create/reinforce/etc attraction!
!!! these are so pretty! mogai blog or not, you should post them! it’s always so nice to have new terms and i love getting them from people who don’t have mogai blogs!! it’s so sweet to see people who don’t have mogai accounts still make terms. !! i especially resonate with gendercoze, it can be a stressful always trying to find the right labels. we are all just! trying to vibe 😎
Nebelgender: a gender that is connected to mist and fog crossing across a large valley. Etymology: German, “Nebel” meaning “mist”
Nebelfluid: a gender that is fluid between mist and fog genders and those specifically. It may be fluid between rain and autumn genders. Etymology: German, “Nebel” meaning “mist”
I’ve noticed some discussion on a potential term for gay men/guys that isn’t as clunky as fully saying “gay man/men” and is also based on historical greek myths/figures minus r*pe conotations (AFAIK) I’m going to chuck the suggestion for a term centered around Hyacinth/Hyacinthus.
I’m just throwing suggestions out there! If you have any input please let me know! Feel free to rb/spread this, I’d really like to know what people think of these and if there is already a discussion out there on them.
As of July 26th, 2020 I have updated this post to better convey the topic and removed/edited some information based on what I know now and on previous discussions as well as keeping the topic on track. Please reblog/comment on this version.
heya, if it’s okay i’d like to add my own suggestions too
i had three rules in mind making these terms:
it can’t be based on a real person (we keep changing terms because we find out the people we based them on are problematic, and i doubt we’re gonna find some flawless person to represent an entire group of people)
it has to go with lesbian
it has to be pronounceable to non-native english speakers, and preferably easily adaptable to other languages
so here are my suggestions:
carnatian (from the green carnation flower, used in as a lapel in victorian times to symbolize male homosexuality)
viridian (viridi means green in latin, a color often associated with male homosexuality, plus vir also means man)
there are some cons to both:
carnatian might be confusing because it’s only green carnations that hold the meaning mentioned, not all carnation flowers
viridian happens to already be a word
i’d love to hear suggestions and opinions on this! these are just ideas, and i’d like to get as much input from people as possible
@gayflagblog sorry to tag you, but i’d love it if you could reblog this to get more input. let me know if you wanna be untagged tho
Infernomasc is a rebellious masculine gender that feels demonic or demonized. One who is Infernomasc may feel that their gender is dark, or has been made to seem dark. It is a gender that is frequently misunderstood, as “dark” and “evil” are not necessarily synonyms. A key part of this gender is rebellion. An Infernomasc individual may feel that they are rebelling against the gender binary, and that they are being “demonized” for doing so, or that they are being demonized for identifying as masculine while also not being male. A rejection of toxic masculinity is a must.
The colors of the Infernomasc flag are black for darkness, red for rebellion, blue for masculinity, and white for a reference to Lucifer, the lightbringer, who rebelled against god themself. While the white horns may be removed from the flag for simplicity’s sake, I feel that that causes the flag to lose a core part of its meaning.
last set of dundraic genders for now!! these are from various official texts. if there are any other races (or subraces, since i plan on doing some of those eventually) anyone would like me to coin terms for, just let me know!
aarakocraic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the aarakocra race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
changeleic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the changeling race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
genasic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the genasi race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
githic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the gith race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
goliathic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the goliath race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
kalashtaric: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the kalashtar race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
shifteric: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the shifter race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
tortlic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the tortle race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
warforgic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the warforged race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
genders based on the dungeons and dragons fifth edition playable races! this is the first of a few posts – this one includes the playable races from the player’s handbook. tiefleic was coined via submission to my blog earlier this year (post here), so the flags and definitions are inspired by that one! the flag colors are mostly taken from official d&d art.
as an umbrella term, i’ve decided to tag these as dundraic genders!
dragonbornic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the dragonborn race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
dwarfic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the dwarf race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
elfic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the elf race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
gnomic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the gnome race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
halfelfic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the half-elf race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
halflingic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the halfling race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
halforcic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the half-orc race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
humanic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the human race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
tiefleic: a gender that is reminiscent of, related to, or best represented by the tiefleic race from dungeons and dragons. can be a kingender, but isn’t always.
Just a small mlm + nblm flag combo for a thing im planning to do, but I’m not sure yet if I’ll do it
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Só um combo das bandeiras mlm + nblm pra uma coisa que eu tô planejando, mas ainda não tenho certeza se vou fazer isso mesmo
And here’s the original one, with only the flower symbol being what was edited to not look two colored, but basically i just put the vincian/mlm flag, then i put above it the nblm/toric flag at 50% opacity and that’s how i got the colors
Trans flag recolors using the different Pikmin’s colors! These are based on us joking about the different Pikmin types each being their own gender, but we don’t mind people using them unironically if you want. These are free to use (with credit) as long as you aren’t on our DNI.
In order:
Red / Yellow / Blue
Purple / White
Rock / Winged
The middle three stripes are based on the flower colors for each type of Pikmin, and the outer two stripes are their body color!
Zuckerlgender: a gender that is sweet, small, and comforting. It is connected to sugar, candy, and sweets. Etymology: (Austrian) German, “Zuckerl” meaning “sweet, candy”
i personally have heard of robogender but i’ve never seen a flag, so I made one! ive never made a flag before so the lines are not perfect and feel free to tell me if you want anything changed!
virusgender/viridaegender:a gender that feels as if it started out small, but has grown and replicated and now feels as if it is taking over various facets of your life. may fade away with time and never return, or fade away but come back later a bit different, or be something that’s a permanent aspect of your life.
can be used on its own or in conjunction with another gender (viridaeboy, virusgirl, etc). can also be used with a modifier in front of it (ex. genderplasma+viridaegender= plasmaviridaegender, robogender+virusgender=robovirusgender)
I played with the flag colors from the flag that xmidnightwinex had submitted since the bright pastels were very hard on the eyes (and some computer resolutions/monitored made it dang near impossible to tell apart the different colors, and/or it look like a white box).
Some people don’t feel comfortable with the term “queer” (given its dark history with the AIDS pandemic), so my alternative phrase is “Bunny Allo” (meaning you don’t identify as straight, but you do believe you have sexual attraction).
For Bunny Allo, the definition would be: Someone who experiences sexual attraction, but has a strong preference for romantic and sensual activities (kissing, cuddling, dates, hand holding, etc.) over sexual activities when it comes to relationships.
If you don’t like Bunny Allo, here’s some other possible alternatives!
Bunny Zedsexual (zedsexual was a suggested alternative to allosexual in the asexual community that never quite caught on for one reason or another)
Bunny Comsexual (taken from English prefix that means “fully”)
If you are not sure if you experience sexual attraction or not (for example, the concept of “sexual attraction” might be totally confusing to you or you feel totally “lost” when attempting to define it)
Bunny Pomo is an alternative to use! This would mean, specifically:
Someone who does NOT experience sexual attraction (or is NOT SURE if they experience sexual attraction), but has a strong preference for romantic and sensual activities (kissing, cuddling, dates, hand holding, etc.) over sexual activities when it comes to relationships.
Here you go! The colors are based on his official DR2 sprite, with an additional stipe of yellow because that is the color associated with hope. I also made an additional version with the red shirt design on it, hope you like them!
Named like that bc it’s an overly specific label so I doubt that anyone besides me (the system host) will use it so I just picked a random name I vibed with
Feel free to use this tho that’d make me happy
Now with that out of the way; the label description itsellf.
Winehoarder is a label for people who feel as if they have a solid “main gender” and that their hoard is a side thing. The ppl using this label mainly present as their core gender, and only as a genderhoarder in select places. They can also leave their hoard behind and be only their core gender for however long they want to, then pick the hoard back up again.
Here are some flags;
In order; winehoard masc (when your core gender is masculine/male), winehoard fem (when your core gender is feminine/female) and winehoard neutral/xeno (when your core gender is neutral/nb, agender or a xenogender)
An alt name we came up with (with coiners permission ofc!) for those who may not feel comfortable with the name winegender for whatever reason is Pollaique! (Polla- from the greek word πολλαπλούς (pollaploús), meaning multiple, which was the best idea my brain could come up with lmao)
its a form of winehoarder where you don’t ever directly identify outside of your core gender, your hoard is not that important to you nor is finding your hoard too important, you HAVE it but don’t go out of your way to find it most often, just know its there
glögihoarder/glogihoarder flag
colors and meaning: red and green stand for christmas (the time in which glögi is served) as well as the red standing for glögi itself
the light orange/yellow stands for snow and winter (made a bit yellow/orange to match the colors toghether) the blue stands for ice and winter
[glögi (hot/mulled/spiced wine) is a drink served in christmas/winter (this does not mean this term has to be related to christmas/winter) ]
(alternative flags/micro-terms under the cut)
[ anyone can ID as this but rather don’t interact if you’re transmed, exlusionist, anti-self diagnosis, anti-mogai, anti-neopronouns, anti-lgbtq+ or anything alike <:-) ]
A gender identity which does not fall within the system held by the culture you’re currently living in. This can become the case through immigration, cultural changes, althuman identity, or any number of other ways.
This flag and label are public domain, meaning anybody can use them, modify them, sell them, etc.
Ayo new neogender just dropped… Welcome delightfulgender!
Delightfulgender is for when your identity is strongly connected to the Delightful Children From Down the Lane from Codename: Kids Next Door, and/or for when it is connected to the idea of being Delightful!
Given pronouns are they/them (because the Delightfuls are a group!) but you can use any pronouns you want :]
I made this for myself but anyone is welcome to identify as delightfulgender! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Neurogender I coined: Narcoric, it compasses any symptom of NPD and how they can effect your gender, in example me having feelings of being simultaneously too good and too worthless for gender
[ID: Two images. The first is a flag with 7 horizontal stripes. The flag’s stripes from top to bottom are: a purplish blue stripe, a much smaller white glowing stripe, a lavender stripe, a pink lavender stripe, a maroon stripe, another small white glowing stripe, and a dark reddish purple stripe. The second is the previous flag but with two Jerrys and Terry from Pixar’s Soul on it. END ID]
Jerryterrygender- an agender in nature gender that feels like the jerrys and terry from pixar’s soul. Being everything and nothing; not existing; outside human comprehension; see through.
Color Meanings: The colors are all taken from the jerrys and terry and the white glowing stripes represent the outline of their forms.
Originally Coined On: 1 January 2021 by a-walking-fandom-reference
hellridegender : a gender related or influenced to being the hellrider from moadixon’s doom mod!
⊹ ⁺ term coined for @groveflags + flag made by me!
ID : two flags side by side ; on the right, a 6 stripe horizontal flag with colors in this order, top to bottom : dark blue, dark purple, white, maroon, burgundy, and dark indigo! on the left is the same flag with the hellrider character in the middle.
tiramisia : a gastrogender related to tiramisu ; a gender based around tiramisu that focuses on the elegance and sweetness of the dessert!
(pronounced tier-a-meese-e-a)
⊹ ⁺ term coined for anon + flag made by me!
flag variants are normal flag, wavy flag, normal flag with chocolate savings, and wavy flag with chocolate shavings !!
ID : four flags ; the top right is a five striped horizontal flag with colors in this order, top to bottom : orange-brown, cream, beige, cream, and khaki. the top left is this same flag but the stripes are wavy. the bottom left is the same wavy flag with drawn chocolate shavings on the top orange-brown stripe, and the bottom right is the normal flag with drawn chocolate shavings on the top orange-brown stripe!
So, since so many MOGAI blogs are uncomfortable with pro-shippers interacting, I decided to just… coin my own gender! So, here you go.
Moneogender –
Moneogender is a nonbinary multigender that is comprised of being agender, and a xenogender that is greatly influenced by one’s monsterhood.
Moneogender’s name comes from the word “moneo” which is what the word “monster” is derived from. It means to warn or foretell.
Moneogender is intended for monsterkins and other monsters.
Flag colors:
Black represents the lack of a gender. Gray represents the moral grayness of monsterhood and how not all monsters are good nor bad. Indigo represents monsterhood and the influence it has on ones gender.
While I don’t usually use DNI’s, I’m going to add one to this because this is very personal to me.
TWIPINE IDENTITY FLAG (full version & simplified) (winter theme 1/5) // twipine is an identity that feels dark and lonely, but in a peaceful and positive way. it can be cold but still provide comfort. twipine can be imagined with a pine smell and sound of snow crunching, if desired. // [pronouns for this identity include 🌲/🌲self, twy/twyself, pine/pineself, twipine/twipineself.] // this can be used as an orientation, gender or just identity flag but i did have gender in mind so that’s why i put a few pronouns. but since the description isn’t specifically for gender, feel free to use it in another way! that’s all for that long description
[Image description: Two rectangular pride flags. They’re nearly identical; the second flag is a desaturated version of the first.
Both flags have 5 stripes, ranging from dark to light shades of magenta, top to bottom. The top stripes are more purple, while the bottom stripes are more red.
The middle stripe is black, with two magenta circles on each side. In the very center is a white circle, which contains a black eye with a magenta iris.
Below the flags is a Do Not Interact banner, which reads:
“DO NOT INTERACT: racist/sexist/etc, islamophobe, antisemite, anti-mogai, pronoun policer, TERF/truscum/transmed, bi/panphobe, aspec exclusionist, exorsexist, anti-queer, pedo/MAP/etc, anti-self dx, anti-endo, or you don’t respect those who take alterhumanity seriously”.]
Aibeonic: A gender related to being watched and being unreal.
The colors are based on how magenta is considered an unreal color, since it’s our eyes filling in the blank between red and purple!
Etymology:
A-: A prefix meaning “not, without”
Ibeon: Middle English meaning “to exist”
-ic: A suffix meaning “carrying the qualities of”
The “ai” in aibeonic is also meant to sound like “eye”!
This gender was requested by an anon! I made a desaturated flag, just in case the first was a bit too eye-strainy. :’)
[Image description: A rectangular pride flag with 5 fluffy stripes. From top to bottom, the colors are: red, yellow, white, yellow, blue.
Inside of the white stripe is a pattern of shapes: four diamonds and three circles, alternating from left to right. Each shape is a different color of the rainbow, in order from left to right.
Below the flags is a Do Not Interact banner, which reads:
“DO NOT INTERACT: racist/sexist/etc, islamophobe, antisemite, anti-mogai, pronoun policer, TERF/truscum/transmed, bi/panphobe, aspec exclusionist, exorsexist, anti-queer, pedo/MAP/etc, anti-self dx, anti-endo, or you don’t respect those who take alterhumanity seriously”.]
Sochrosiale (soh-chro-see-al): A gender that is better described through colors, sounds, and shapes.
The colors are meant to represent both the full spectrum of colors and sounds, as well as the primary colors, the basis for all other colors!
The fluffy stripes both represent shapes and sound, while the pattern of shapes in the middle represent…shapes. 🙂 As well as how there’s countless combinations of shapes, colors, and sounds this gender could encompass!
Etymology:
So-: From sonus, Latin for “sound”.
-chro-: From chroma, meaning purity or intensity of color.
[Image description: A rectangular pride flag with five stripes. From top to bottom, the colors are: black, red, white, red, black.
In the white stripe is a pattern of shapes: four black squares and three red circles, alternating from left to right. The squares have circular chunks taken out of them, as if accommodating the red circles.
Below the flags is a Do Not Interact banner, which reads:
“DO NOT INTERACT: racist/sexist/etc, islamophobe, antisemite, anti-mogai, pronoun policer, TERF/truscum/transmed, bi/panphobe, aspec exclusionist, exorsexist, anti-queer, pedo/MAP/etc, anti-self dx, anti-endo, or you don’t respect those who take alterhumanity seriously”.]
Vigelisc: A gender related to [fictional] gore, murder, and blood. A gender that’s childish and affably evil.
The stripes are fluffy to symbolize the childishness of the gender, while the colors are representative of its violent nature. However, it’s simplified down to red and black, since it’s not as realistic as real gore!
Etymology:
Vig-: Old Norse for “slaying”.
-el-: From selig, a German word that’s listed as a possible root for the word silly.
-isc: From kindisc, an Old Saxon word that’s listed as a possible root for the word childish.
if you feel that fits, absolutely! you could also be attracted to men in a queer way without it necessarily being gay, so if you feel that queer fits you better, you can also use that!
There are also the shadoworientations (this sounds like shadowfloric/shadowvincian to me)
I believe you can find information about all of them @ashix0trender0juice
oh yeah, i didn’t even think about those! anon, you may like shadowfloric (coined as shadowvincian, but i prefer not to use that to mean ‘gay man’ specifically, though it’s your decision which you prefer), which includes:
someone who is not specifically ‘mlm’ due to not (always) being a man, but feels like their attraction to men is gai, gay, or just not straight
someone who is dysphoric or uncomfortable with being called or though of as a man/boy, but their attraction to men (nlm, wlm, xlm, etc) is connected to the floric/turian/gay man label
basically, anyone who is not a man and does not label their attraction as mlm due to a disconnection between themselves and manhood, but still feels floric
it’s easy to separate bi and lesbian if you use rigid definitions. it’s easy to ignore any overlap between the two and to say people can’t be both. it is so easy to gatekeep identities like this, when you say lesbianism is women who are attracted to women, and bisexuality is attraction to men and women.
and it’s understandable. that’s what we have learned are the definitions. that’s what’s acceptable in a world that likes to stick to a rigid gender binary, a world that forces everyone and everything into it.
but not everyone fits that binary. and when you begin to open up definitions to reflect that, you get more grey areas. after you’ve accepted that bi actually means attraction to two or more genders, you realize that not all bi people are attracted to men.
and then you open up more definitions, because still yet more people have complicated relationships with gender. you shift the definition of lesbianism, so it’s non-men exclusively attracted to other non-men. this also helps to include nonbinary lesbians, who don’t consider themselves women but do consider themselves lesbian.
and once you have opened up your mind to these definitions, once you have accepted that neither bisexuality or lesbianism are inherently binary, you start to notice the grey area between the two identities. you notice the spot where the two combine into one, like a Venn diagram.
you realize there is indeed overlap. you see it in non-men who are attracted to women and nonbinary people. those whose sexuality fits that description are those who exist in that grey area. for they fit lesbian: they are not men, and they are exclusively attracted to other people who are not men. and they fit bi: they are attracted to more than two genders.
and it’s once you’ve understood that gender is not binary, and once you’ve understood that sexuality can be inclusive, that you believe that the grey area between bi and lesbian is valid.
and after you believe that, you no longer make the two identities completely separate. you no longer tell people they can’t be both. you no longer have so much hatred for terms like “bi lesbian” or “m-spec lesbian” or related terms.
and to those who live in that grey area, like I do, you can use both bi and lesbian. you can choose one or the other. you can choose neither. you can choose another label altogether. whatever you choose is valid, because your identity is valid.
Addition 13 August: this is how I view and define my identity of bi lesbian. Not every bi lesbian has the same view/definition, but we each deserve respect.
Syngender: A subset of genderfluid; for people who usually feel a certain gender, however it fluctuates sometimes. Not to be confused with genderflux. Derived from the Greek word “συνήθως” (syní̱tho̱s) meaning “common” or “usual”.
Tangender: Having one gender felt with the most certainty, but then at times flowing away from it and quite possibly beyond; inspired by both the tangent function graph and the concept of a tangent line.
Taurgender: A person who strongly identifies with a controlling/reigning planet, in this case earth.
Technigender: A form of colorgender; a gender that can be described by multiple, but not all, colors.
Technogender: Only comfortable with one’s gender when using technology/online, usually because of social anxiety (Specialized for people with anxiety disorders)
Telegender: A gender one feels a disconnect and distance from, almost to the point of not feeling it.
Tempgender: A gender identity that feels temporary and is replaced often.
[Full list of terms are in the google docs if you don’t want to wait for the next posts]
If any of you know if there’s flags for any of these already, please send a link to it so we can add it to the gallery! And if you know who coined it so we can properly credit them (and that includes if it was anonymously posted or the blog deactivated).
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