Cybergender: a gender best described as robotic, alienlike, and interchangeable. Diverse and unique to each individual, those who identify with this gender tend to experiment and change genders frequently, as if transforming. They are not indecisive, but rather experimenting and learning. Inspired by the Transformers franchise.
#631a7c (PURPLE) – love of same/similar genders; purple (specifically lavender) has been associated with gayness historically.
#017cc0 (BLUE) – wisdom and history within the gay community; recognition of gayness as a complex identity.
#000000 (BLACK) – rejection of gender essentialismand the premise that man/woman or masc/fem areinherently in opposition.
#ffffff (WHITE) – nonbinary gender; in this case, specifically dually aligned genders which combine masculinity and femininity.
#ef8e16 (ORANGE) – warmth and enthusiasm being in relationships with same/similar-gendered people.
#ff3030 (RED) – passion, romance, and sexuality; red is also the color for HIV/AIDS awareness.
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this flag was specifically designed with people who are both masc- and fem-aligned (and attracted to same/similar genders exclusively); this includes bigender, androgyne, and similar identities. this flag is not for nonbinary people who are solely masc- or fem-aligned and identify as gay nb men or nb lesbians respectively. this flag is explicitly for people who are both mlm and wlw in some way. it is inclusive of both transfems and transmascs.
“gay” is being used explicitly here to encompass all same/similar gender attraction, even if it’s to multiple genders similar to your own (e.x. a bigender person attracted to both men and women, with neither being “opposite”). this is an alternative for defaulting to “bisexual” / “pansexual” because both of those terms implicate different-gender attraction, and that may not be accurate to our self-concept and/or how we’re read in our relationships.
do not use this flag or make content with it if you fit my dni. okay to reblog even if you aren’t a wlw/mlm nonbinary person!
[id: a flag with three downward-facing chevrons across the middle. the top of the flag is light grey. the first chevron is dark lavender, the second is white, and the third is lavender. the bottom of the flag is grey. end id]
queerhet flag design
queerhet is a label that includes, but is not limited to: when a hetero- person is in a queer relationship; an alternate term for heteroflexible/heterofluid; a person with a fluid orientation whose orientation includes hetero-; someone who is “straight now but not forever” or “straight but with exceptions”; someone who has both hetero- orientations and queer orientations (e.g. a heterosexual aromantic person); a hetero- trans/nonbinary person; a hetero- person in a polyam relationship; and any other variation of a hetero- person who is queer.
the flag is a combination of the queer chevron flag’s style and colours, with the straight flag’s monochrome colour scheme. the different shades represent the vast spectrum of experiences queerhet covers.
[id: black text against a pastel trans flag. in the corner is a cat sleeping under a gay flag. the text reads: “this blog supports: trans women, systems of all types, nondysphoric trans & nonbinary people, microidentities/mogai, non-sapphic/wlw butches & femmes; intersex people; fat people; aspec people. if you feel the need to argue: don’t!” end id]
Dangangenders, Part 2! Terms coined by @decora-gai flags made by me!
(in order)
Monokumagender: A gender related to Monokuma. Has two distinct sides that contradict each other but come together to make a coherent whole, may have evil connotations.
Kirigirigender: A gender related to Kyoko Kirigiri. Mysterious and distant, but once you find it it becomes very important to you
Owadagender:A gender related to Mondo Owada. It’s surrounded by feelings of anger and is built up from trauma. Powerful and difficult to control, but you still have positive feelings about it.
Ikusabagender: A gender related to Mukuro Ikusaba. It’s mysterious but soft deep down
Ogamigender: A gender related to Sakura Ogami. A feminine gender characterized by strength and intense care for others.
Fukawagender: A gender related to Toko and Syo Fukawa. A form of bigender that consists of two completely different genders that work in opposition to each other while also being very much connected and influencing each other
Hagakuregender: A gender related to Yasuhiro Hagakure. It disappears sometimes, but is always bright and fun when it’s around
Dangangenders, Part 3! Terms coined by @decora-gai gai flags made by me!
(In order)
Hinatagender: A gender related to Hajime Hinata. Feels like it doesn’t quite fit in with other genders, but is still an important part of your identity
Owarigender: A gender related to Akane Owari. Very outgoing and upbeat, but can become violent at times
Impostergender: A gender related to the Ultimate Imposter. A type of genderfluidity that doesn’t change very often and deep down you wish it wouldn’t change at all
Nanamigender: A gender related to Chiaki Nanami. A sweet, calm gender that holds others together
Kuzuryugender: A gender related to Fuyuhiko Kuzuryu. Loud and aggressive but with a soft side
Tanakagender: A gender related to Gundam Tanaka. Dark and mysterious, combined with fierce loyalty and unexpected gentleness and care.
Saionjigender: A gender related to Hiyoko Saionji. Graceful and cute but with a sharp edge
Soudagender: A gender related to Kazuichi Souda. Loud and changing, but always strong. You may be somewhat obsessed with it
Alleycatic – A feline gender that is fluffy, small, and connected to the night time and alleys in cities! It’s most often chaotic, but can calm down and present in a cuddly way!
cryptfluid: a gender in which one feels strongly connectd to the undead, and the specific undead creature they feel connected to can shift.
cryptfluid redesign for anon! here’s the coning post with the original flag. the colors are for:
dark red: blood, for vampires and other creatures that feed on blood off-white: bones, for animated skeletons and other creatures with exposed bones grey-purple: spirits/ghosts and other incorporeal creatures dark grey: undeath in general, as well as the dark, as many of these creatures only come out at night or generally reside in the dark dark yellow-green: zombies and other creatures that are rotting
constantly blooming and renewing itself, rather than changing completely. it can also have seeds that grow more facets of identity out of it, while retaining the original identity.
strawbloom is a subgender of blumy, with the addition of minimal femininity and a very sweet and grounded feeling. it feels very close to nature, but moreso the ground than sky.
leaumoutongender: a liquid gender related to water, waves, and sheep. gender may be fluid in nature, coming in waves. may also bring other genders in its tides. flag meaning: just colors of sea and blue french origin, l’eau meaning water and mouton meaning sheep. quite literally means water sheep.
a gender related to water slime stims, may be related to neurodivergence. flag colors are just water lookin name origin is just taken from the words “water slime” and slapping an -ic on the back
pruinarosagender: a gender requested by anon,
a gender that feels like a garden filled with roses with a frost covering the garden. flag meaning: brown is the soil under the garden green is the grass resting the garden red and peach are common colors of roses pale blues are frost but toned down so i wasnt too eyestrain-y latin origin: pruina taken from pruinae (frost) and rosa (rose)
gendermareep (or mareepgender, up to personal preference really) a gender requested by anon,
a gender that is related to mareep and is very soft and fluffy. flag meaning: colors of mareep, blue being skin, toned yellow being fur and the black and yellow stripes being the horns.
genderwooloo: gender requested by anon,
that relates to wooloo that is slightly feminine but still soft and fluffy. flag colors: colors of wooloo, pink stripes to show subtle femininity
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amenoarchonic: a gender related to venti/barbatos from genshin impact, or a gender related to wind, freedom, dandelions, birds, and music! can be used as a kingender but doesnt have to be ☆ !
DNI if: anti-m*gai/tr*scum/excl*s/etc!!
flag without symbol:
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geoarchonic: a gender related to zhongli from genshin impact, or a gender related to rocks, warm colors, contracts, mountains, and knowledge! can be used as a kingender but doesnt have to be ☆ !
DNI if: anti-m*gai/tr*scum/excl*s/etc!!
flag without symbol:
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fructusgender: a gender related to tropical fruit, fruit meadows, and the sweetness of fruit in summer ☆ !
DNI if: anti-m*gai/tr*scum/excl*s/etc!!
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genderserenity: a gender that feels serene and is related to the colors light blue and white ☆ !
‘lesbians cant take T and get top surgery’ im sorry I wasn’t aware that doing man things suddenly makes you a man? do you think ‘gender nonconforming’ means you can only not conform a little bit or only enough to b socially acceptable? people even argue ‘well butches still present as women’ according to who? what is presenting as a woman? feminine trans men get mistaken for women, and that doesn’t make them women anymore than butches dressing and acting in ways that make people think they’re a man, actually men.
The non-specific othering is what attracted me to “third gender” but in doing the research I was doing to decide to use it or not I found the history and was like “ah ok” but I still am searching for that. I think “other gender” is probably my best bet. I kind of wish there was an already established non-problematic term to describe this non-specific othered feeling.
I mean, I know there’s genderqueer which is a non-specific other term… but it’s too non-specific… sorry for spamming your ask. I’m thinking out loud at this point
Okay so none of the words we’ve got are sufficient, and you want a word.
Lets make one up.
“Alia” is the latin word for “other” so alia-gender may be an option.
1. An umbrella term for indistinct and unclear genders and genders that you/others can’t identity (like alexigender, genderfog, etc).
2. A modifier for when you’re not sure about your identity or are exploring certain terms to see if they fit/to see if you’re trans (eg genderquestioning demiboy). Can also be shortened to just ‘questioning’ for this definition (eg questioning bigender, questioning nan0girl).
definition: having multiple genders that are fuzzy and blurred together, making it impossible to identify each one individually or separate one from the rest.
definition: Genderflux means that your internal sense of how gendered you are varies over time. One day, you might feel really gendered, and the next day, you might have a very weak feeling of gender, or not feel like any gender at all. Whereas genderfluidity is a shift between different genders, genderflux is more like varying intensity.
definition: when your gender centers around multiple flavors. A big part of being voraciogender is craving more flavors and gender experiences. Can be voracioboy, voraciogirl, voraciononbinary, but is ideally expressed as just “voraciogender.” From Latin vorcer, “to devour.”
definition: A romantic or sexual orientation based around sensuality as opposed to romance or sexuality. Different from a sensual orientation. In other words, romantic type pleasure or sexual type pleasure is desired or derived from sensuality.
definition: a gender that feels very wide, commanding, breathtaking and powerful, linked to the vast expanse of space. can be used as aethergirl/boy/nonbinary etc
a flag for those who have certain gender(s) in this reality, and different one(s) in another reality or existance which they are also strongly connected to. (i originally made this for people who have malapidive daydreams about or special interests in certain realities, but anyone is completely free to use it.)
Apeirongender: a gender that is both agender and pangender simultaneously; experiencing all accessible genders in one’s culture and experience while being genderless at the same time. May or may not be apathetic towards their gender identity.
Apeiron (pronounced appear-on) is a Greek word meaning “(that
which is) unlimited,” “boundless”, “infinite”, or “indefinite” from ἀ-
a-, “without” and πεῖραρ peirar, “end, limit”, “boundary”, the Ionic
Greek form of πέρας peras, “end, limit, boundary”.
Flag
The flag was uploaded at the same time as the page was created by the presumed coiner. The image from the Wikia is pretty low quality, so I replicated it in a higher quality for this post. The coiner states that the flag has the following meanings:
The light green stripes represents genderlessness/agenderness
The pale yellow stripe represents the connection to being non-binary, and/or gender non-conforming.
The blue represents a connection to masculinity.
The purple represents feelings of gender apathy.
The soft pink stripe represents a connection to femininity.
The word gendersaros comes from the word saros, meaning a period
of time used to predict an eclipse. An eclipse is a mix of masculine and
feminine energies, thus gendersaros being an androgynous genderfluid.
“Saros” is from Ancient Greek. More about the concept can be found here.
Flag
The flag was created anonymously in 2020. It is a combination of the genderfae, genderfaun and androgyne pride flags. The creator decided to assign no meaning to it, instead wanting the community to assignment meaning based upon their experiences.
Afluaflugender: a multigender identity consisting of a “base” gender, a fluid, “switching” component and a “spiking”, fluctuating component; an experience where one has a primary gender, a fluid component featuring genders typically experienced by the individual and an infrequent flux component involving identity uncommon to the rest of the identity.
Also called Alfu.
Etymology
The etymology of the term is unknown. However, “Aflu” may refer to the Aromanian verb meaning “I discover”, “I learn“ and “I meet”. This term appears to have been coined by LGBTA Wikia user shinsouboi in 2020.
Flag
The Afluaflugender flag seems to have been created byLGBTA Wikia user rosewatera in 2020. The flag is based off of the description given in the “flag” section of the Wikia entry. The original image was poor quality, so I made a high quality version using the same colors and pattern. The coiner states that the flags has the following meanings:
The pink and off-pink stripes represents female genders and/or genders that are feminine in nature.
The purple and off-purple stripes represent genders that are both a mix of male and female, or contain qualities of both.
The blue and teal stripes represents male genders and/or genders that are masculine in nature.
The green stripes represents genders that lack associations with other concepts of gender and/or terms that have an absence of gender.
The orange and yellow stripes represent genders that are outside of the gender binary.
Since the official flag has ten stripes, I would like to include a simplified version that I created myself, which is below the cut. The color meanings and positions are the same.
[Image ID: Two flags with seven horizontal stripes. The first flag’s stripe colors from top to bottom: black, dark gray, white, lavender, white, dark gray, black. The second flag’s stripe colors are the same except for the middle stripe, which is spilt into three, equal, horizontal rectangles. The rectangles from left to right are lime green, muted orange, and lavender. End ID.]
Librambiguine (libra-ambiguine): a gender that’s mostly agender with a connection to being ambiguine. An alternative term to librandr*gyne.
[Image ID: Two flags with seven horizontal stripes. The first flag’s stripe colors from top to bottom: black, dark gray, white, lavender, white, dark gray, black. The second flag’s stripe colors are the same except for the middle stripe, which is spilt into three, equal, horizontal rectangles. The rectangles from left to right are lime green, muted orange, and lavender. End ID.]
Librambiguine (libra-ambiguine): a gender that’s mostly agender with a connection to being ambiguine. An alternative term to librandr*gyne.
flixisexual: the exclusive attraction to femininity and ambiguity. it primarily describes the attraction of presentation/expression rather than gender identity.
flixasexual:
the exclusive attraction to femininity and ambiguity. it primarily describes the attraction of presentation/expression rather than gender identity.
mortegender: an individually unique gender(less) experience in which the concept of gender and a fixed gender identity became obsolete or ‘dead’ upon the realization one is not cisgender
orimposian : a gender that feels/pertains to fruit meadows! it may feel fruity, plump, and tropical ; also evokes the feelings of the middle of summer.
— orim comes from the greek word for ripe (órimos/ώριμος) and pos comes from the greek word for fruit (karpós/καρπός) ian is an english suffix meaning ‘relating to, belonging to’ !
ID : two flags side by side ; on the right is a 9 stripe horizontal flag, where the two outermost stripes are thicker than the middle ones. the colors on the flag are these, from top to bottom : cherry red, strawberry red, tangerine orange, bright orange, light lime, lime green, white, pineapple yellow, and sunflower yellow! (hope those are.. correct descriptions lol) on the left is the exact same flag, but with a hand-drawn picture of a orange and a cherry in the middle!
Libragender is defined as mostly (or completely) agender, but with a connection towards a certain gender. For example, librafeminine is someone who is primarily agender but with a leaning towards or connection to FINgenders and/or femininity. There is also librafluid, or agender with fluid connections.
Needed Term: Libraxenine
Libraxenine, understandably, is agender with a connection towards xenogenders. This could be used as an umbrella to void-related agender labels, for example, as it is a mostly genderless experience linked to a specific xenic experience. Libraxeninefluid, I assume, would be a primarily-agender experience with changing connections to different concepts.
As always, if this term has been coined, shoot a DM over to our account or post an ask! Our job is to fill holes, not overshadow or take credit away from other creators.
This flag is modeled after this libragender flag by Asphyn Falwell. Although the purple & teal variants of the agender flag are more popular, we wanted something specifically libra-, not just a modification of a modification. The five center stripes — pink, orange, pastel yellow, light blue, and indigo
— are directly taken from the most popular xenogender flag.
extricagender – A gender in which one wants to free themselves from gender norms, expectations and labels in general, but can’t find a way to fully let go.
Derived from the word extricate, meaning to free someone or something from a difficulty or constraint. For Extricagender people, gender is a constraint holding them back from being happy and content with life.
I made this term because I couldn’t really find a term to define me. I hope other people identify with this. Sometimes, I am content with my life until I remember gender, and gender can be an obstacle for many people. And while I’m sure many would like to leave gender as a whole behind, it’s not that simple. I wonder if anyone feels that way, too?
This gender describes people who do not like having to gender themselves, but can’t fully handle letting go gender in its entirety, and retains some aspects of other genders.
The range in dark-ish colors represents the many environments and features of our universe. The dark, black stripe is for when this gender feels like simply nothing, faded. Our gender comes with us no matter where we go, and no matter what place we go, whether the backside of the sun or deep in the ocean, our gender comes along with us. These colors could also represent the way our gender could feel, heavy like lava, or weightless, like outer space.
Gendercandle: A gender that gradually becomes fluid before melting down to nothing, then reforms or gets “replaced” with a new gender then melts down again. It is a combination of genderwick and genderwax.
Can also be related to ljusgender, a gender related to candles.
hiiii im back from da dead to coin a new gender ^_^
GENDERBREAD ; a gender related to gingerbread cookies, or other christmas cookies and snacks!
i don’t have the ability to make flags, but i can describe it! the stripes are horizontal and they go: first stripe light brown, second stripe white with red and green sprinkles, third stripe beige or cream, fourth stripe white with red and green sprinkles, and fifth stripe light brown! it has a soft, smiling little gingerbread cookie in the middle 🙂
mogai people are allowed to reclaim mogai terms, even those coined by anti-mogai and para-mogai people.
if a label is fine for you, ignore the identity policers. don’t let REGs ruin your freedom.
Orientationgender: When your orientation is so intrinsically tied to your gender that you absolutely cannot separate the two. The word “orientation” can be replaced with your orientation label.
Some more orientationgender flags, this time just general homogender, straytgender, and gaigender
Orientationgender: When your orientation is so intrinsically tied to your gender that you absolutely cannot separate the two. The word “orientation” can be replaced with your orientation label.
Last part of the orientationgenders, this time its for bi, pan, poly, and omni. Gender was put before these times as bigender, pangender, polygender, and omnigender are other identities.
Orientationgender: When your orientation is so intrinsically tied to your gender that you absolutely cannot separate the two. The word “orientation” can be replaced with your orientation label.
Some more orientationgender flags, this time just general homogender, straytgender, and gaigender
Orientationgender: When your orientation is so intrinsically tied to your gender that you absolutely cannot separate the two. The word “orientation” can be replaced with your orientation label.
Do Not Interact: Truscum ; Anti endogen sys/anti any nonDID/OSDD sys ; Gender critical ; Anti MOGAI ; Anti neopronouns ; Anti mspec gays (lesbain/vincians)
TLT/T4T is like WLW/MLM: It means you a trans person who loves other trans people. Trans has always included nonbinary genders and xenogenders!
If you only explicitly love/date trans people, this flag is for you! If you just prefer to love/date trans people, this flag is for you! If you just love/date other trans people, this flag is for you!
Lesbians, gay people, and bisexual people can be TLT! EDIT: Straight people can be TLT! Nonbinary and xenogender people can be TLT!
It is a common experience among trans people and it should be normalized!
Learn to love your trans self and other trans people. Embrace your transness. It is okay to do such. You are not alone and you are loved!
genderdyke or dykegender – a gender for wlw who’s attraction to women is a large part of their gender or tied to said attraction or when dyke is your gender. can be used by all wlw who reclaim dyke!
Extrivian: An extranth (nonhuman headmate) who is attracted to other extranths.
I was inspired by the fictivian flag by @neopronouns to make a variation of it. The flag was made with both the fictivian flag and the extranth flag in mind.
definition: an orientation in which a person can feel romantic/sexual attraction and desire romantic/sexual acts, but does not desire a romantic/sexual relationships and quickly gets bored with them. coined from the latin root word ‘phil’ and the germanic ‘tol’.
note: differs from akoiromantic in that a philtoromantic person will not necessarily mind reciprocation, only a formal relationship itself
This term is very similar to Magiboy, and part of the next series i’m doing which is genders that have specific terms for those close to being a boy. These all end in -boy to depict that. Paraboy has two meanings. 1. a term that derives from Paragender, which means feeling very near one gender, but partially identifying as something else, which keeps you from feeling fully that gender. A paraboy feels very close to a boy, but also has something else they identify with that makes them not quite a boy. This is similar to magiboy as it is mostly identifying as male and slightly something else, however, paraboy is more specific. The other gender that you can experience while being paraboy is commonly a nonbinary gender, however, it can be anything. and 2. A gender identity that is close to, but not exactly, a boy. Those who identify as a paraboy have a mostly masculine gender, but their gender expression can be anything (as with all genders) The pride flag comes from a side blog known as pridearchive, and the term is known to be coined by user queerspike on tumblr, but no such tumblr user exists today.
Hello, Tumblr! Today, I am proposing a new Xenogender… *drumrolls*
EVAGENDER !!!
Evagender is a gender for those who feel a strong connection to or love for the Evangelion series, its story and its characters.
The flag colors were taken from EVA Units 01, 02, 00, and 04 respectively! This flag is supposed to represent the uniqueness and design of each EVA and their pilot.
Anyone of any romantic or sexual orientation and gender identity, can identify with Evagender! All haters will be blocked.
Pronouns: Eva/Evas/Evaself
This xenogender is intended to be used by autistic and other neurodivergent people whose gender feels influenced in a way by Evangelion!
monoam(orous)flexible: being predominantly monoamorous, but being flexible in that identity; being mostly monoamorous and occasionally polyamorous
polyam(orous)flexible: being predominantly polyamorous, but being flexible in that identity; being mostly polyamorous and occasionally monoamorous
these flag use the blue and red from this adjusted polyamorous flag and greyscale to represent monoamory! the outer stripes are larger to represent the identity the person more often relates to, with a gradient in the middle to represent the identity they occasionally experience.
I think the flexible part can be things other than polyam/monoam, such as ambiam, nonam… also, shouldn’t there be a yellow color‽
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My butch & femme flags! (Butch is the left, femme is the right.)
porcelaineic : a gender related to tea parties and the fine china used in tea parties! things as teacups, saucers, or pastries eaten during tea parties! it’s a gender that radiates sophistication, but still contains the whimsy that tea parties often do!
(pronounced porce-lane-e-ick)
⊹ ⁺ term coined + flag made by me!
ID : two flags right next to each other. the one on the right is a horizontal 7 stripe flag with colors in this order, top to bottom : dark rose pink, rose pink, light rose pink, white, mint green, sea green(?), and a grey-green color. on the left is the same flag with a hand drawn tea cup in the middle, with pink and green floral designs around the top.
(created a new flag for it because I hated the original )
An asexual spectrum identity. The person has sexual interest, but none of it involve direct penetration. Rather, they prefer outer course, or sensual actions.
Planned parenthood defines outercourse as
Outercourse is other sexual activities besides vaginal sex. Using outercourse as birth control means you do some sexual activities, but you don’t have vaginal sex (penis-in-vagina) or get any semen (cum) in the vagina. This way, the sperm cells in semen can’t get to an egg and cause pregnancy.
Term creation – unknown coiner, earliest usage I found if it was July 2017
Flag creator – creation is December 2020. The light-medium magenta at top stands for sensuality. The light teal stands for being at peace with your identity. The medium teal stands for unity. The purple stands asexual community.
A semiship relationship is one that is in a relationship grey area. Oftentimes they remain not quite as committed as a conformant relationship, ie, remaining in a casual flirting stage throughout the whole of the relationship. Can also describe a partial adherence to a relationship stage, such as sensual.
Two flags as requested by @arco-pluris ! Neupunk and nullqueer! Neupunk is based off of fempunk and mascpunk by @genderthaumiel and nullqueer is based off neuqueer, angiqueer and voidqueer by both @i-love-my-trans-body and @agendersam
Musicqueer: a sexual orientation for those who find it difficult to “properly” describe how/if they feel SEXUAL attraction. Instead, they use music to properly express how they feel. Based on the idea of “colorqueer” but using music instead of color.
Note: trauma isn’t required for this identity but it may be a common explanation for why it’s difficult trying to figure out this part of your sexual identity.
Screenshot includes the hex color codes for each stripe. Black is for music notes. The variety of blue-purple colors under it are for the queer community (I personally also just like the color purple).
(created a new flag for it because I hated the original )
An asexual spectrum identity. The person has sexual interest, but none of it involve direct penetration. Rather, they prefer outer course, or sensual actions.
Planned parenthood defines outercourse as
Outercourse is other sexual activities besides vaginal sex. Using outercourse as birth control means you do some sexual activities, but you don’t have vaginal sex (penis-in-vagina) or get any semen (cum) in the vagina. This way, the sperm cells in semen can’t get to an egg and cause pregnancy.
Term creation – unknown coiner, earliest usage I found if it was July 2017
Flag creator – creation is December 2020. The light-medium magenta at top stands for sensuality. The light teal stands for being at peace with your identity. The medium teal stands for unity. The purple stands asexual community.
Signal boosting to support our other asexual brothers and sisters!
Androgyne is most certainly a non-binary identity, so anyone who uses it with a cis identity is appropriating that term. As for “transandrogynous,” there doesn’t appear to be a conventional definition of the term, but I don’t see any reason you can’t use it if that’s the most comfortable for you! Some quick reading from the Gender Wiki [link] shows:
The following terms have been suggested to further describe and categorize androgynes:
femandrogyne – an androgyne who feel more feminine than masculine
butchandrogyne – an androgyne feel more masculine than feminine
versandrogyne (versatile androgyne) or neutrandrogyne (neutral androgyne) – an androgyne who might feel a relatively even mixture of femininity and masculinity, or even none at all
These neologisms can be shortened to femandro, butchandro, and versandro or neutrandro.
Empathgender: a fluid or fluctuating gender influenced by when other people describe theirs, or when one reads an explanation or description on a gender. Most of the time this causes confusion and questioning about one’s gender, since their experience felt genuine. The influence of a gender can vary, being brief or even lasting for several days. Related to sentigender / emotugender. Can be related to musegender.
Example: you read about someone’s experience with being non-binary. You feel (not imagine) the emotional experience they have, even though you may not have felt like that prior to reading it. You may even start to question if you’re actually non-binary.
This gender should only be used by highly sensitive or emotional people. Made with neurodivergent or neuro-atypical individuals in mind, but isn’t exclusive.
Here are some flag designs for unaligned nonbinary (unb) attraction! From left to right, unblunb, unblnb, unblnbm, unblgf, unblnbw, unbltm, unbltw, unblcm, unblcw!
Cuavgender people feel as though one part of yourself is in disconnect or divide with your overall gender identity, or simply that your gender is “wrong”. Often caused by trauma, kintype, or neurodivergence.
TLT/T4T is like WLW/MLM: It means you a trans person who loves other trans people. Trans has always included nonbinary genders and xenogenders!
If you only explicitly love/date trans people, this flag is for you! If you just prefer to love/date trans people, this flag is for you! If you just love/date other trans people, this flag is for you!
Lesbians, gay people, and bisexual people can be TLT! EDIT: Straight people can be TLT! Nonbinary and xenogender people can be TLT!
It is a common experience among trans people and it should be normalized!
Learn to love your trans self and other trans people. Embrace your transness. It is okay to do such. You are not alone and you are loved!
A flag for plural folks! Colors were taken from various different system type flags I’ve found over the months, and the symbol is the treblesand, a popular plural symbol as of late. This flag is free to use and edit, credit’s appreciated but not necessary.
i love the pink and white flag with the picture of violets in the middle but i thought changing the violets into their own stripe would make it easier to draw the flag (and also the violets won’t be covered up if you want to make an icon hahaha).
the hex codes for the colors are
#FF7AD5 (the pink),
#FFFFFF (the white), and
#A431C4 (the violet). please give suggestions and continue expanding on this flag !!! i’d love to come up with specific meanings for each color too. i was thinking the pink is attraction to women (the thing all sapphics have in common and also the color the two flags both have), the white is unique relationship to womanhood (like the lesbian flag), and the violet is community (because our community is called “sapphics” and the violet is inspired by sappho)
#72a067 (GREEN) – nature and personal growth; an evolving understanding of each other’s experiences, both positive and negative.
#95e1d5 (SEAFOAM) – trust, communication, and clarity; always being open with each other about personal needs and boundaries, especially when they pertain to issues specific to your trans identity.
#017cc0 (OFF-WHITE) – the various combinations of genders and sexualities which can constitute relationships between transmasc and transfem people.
#efc199 (PEACH) – compassion and mutual support; joy from validating each other and finding comfort in one another.
#ff6565 (SOFT RED) – love, sexual desire, and healthy eroticism of your own and each other’s bodies.
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this is a flag for relationships between transmascs and transfems! most t4t
content is generalized or specifically represents transmasc4transmasc
dating, so we decided to fill one of the gaps by making a flag for transmascs and transfems who date each other.
it is representative of all relationships between transmascs and transfems, not just straight ones! gay, lesbian, and bisexual transmascs and transfems who form relationships with one another are all included in this flag as well.
do not use this flag or make content with it if you fit our dni. okay to reblog even if you aren’t trans4trans!
this is for nonbinary dually aligned (masc + fem) people who are exclusively attracted to same / similar genders, and are trans4trans! this includes bigender, androgyne, and similar identities which can be both masc and fem or a combination of masc and fem genders – but not always man and woman specifically. both my original gay nonbinary flag and this combination edit are inclusive of both transfem and transmasc people, as long as they are mlm and wlw in some way!
do not use this flag or make content with it if you fit my or @trans-4-trans’s dni. okay to reblog even if you aren’t a wlw/mlm nonbinary person or trans4trans!
Prostagender: a gender that is modest and free of ostentation, being comprised of it’s basic substituents and nothing more; a gender that is readily understood, basic and uncomplicated.
May be used in the amative sense as prosneutrois, xenopros, prosgirl, etc.
Etymology
Bastardized form Russian, “просто“ to “prosta” meaning “simple” + “-gender”, an English neologistic suffix. Coined by Gent (Gender-Resource), 2020.
When used alone, Prostagender is a xenogender. However, as stated above, it may be used in an amative sense to further describe other gender, regardless if their gender is xenic or non-xenic. For example, one who is prosneutrois would experience their neutrois identity in way they perceive to be simple, modest and uncomplicated.
The flag is a simplification of the slozhnigender flag, as each of the labels are two different sides to the same coin. Slozhnigender has a more intricate design, featuring an asymmetrical pattern and a central, white stripe. Prostagender is a simple, four stripe flag, featuring the four main colors of the Slozhnigender flag: terracotta, slate blue, white and olive, from top to bottom. Flag by Gent (Gender-Resource), 2020.
Eromor: When an individual’s romantic attraction and sexual attraction are inseparable. This person experiences sex as an act of romantic affection and/or a soul-bonding experience. They want to have sex with those they romantically love, and are prone to developing feelings for those they go into the bedroom with.
The word ‘Eromor’ is a combination of the Greek word for erotic love, ‘Eros’, and the Latin word for romantic love, ‘Amor’.
Erolium: The opposite of Eromor. When an individual’s romantic attraction and sexual attraction are entirely independent of each other. This may be used to refer to someone who’s attracted to the same genders both romantically and sexually, but these attractions have nothing to do with each other, or someone who is sexually attracted to certain genders and romantically attracted to others (e.g heterosexual homoromantic).
The word ‘Erolium’ is a combination of ‘Eros’ and the Latin word for different, ‘Alium’.
Red is the color of sexual passion, whereas pink is associated with romance. The Eromor flag has fluid shades between these colors to represent that they are one in the same, whereas the Erolium flag has a white stripe in the center to separate them.
The flags’ symbols are the bow and arrow belonging to God of Erotic Passion Eros (also known as Cupid), and The Love Goddess Aphrodite’s (also known as Venus) flower. In Eromor they are one, in Erolium they are individual.
Grammatical example: “I’m eromor. Bob’s eromorous like myself, but Susie is eroliumous.”
[ID: a five horizontal striped flag. the top two strips in order are a dark green and a lighter green, followed by a light yellow. the last two stripes in order are a light, pinkish red and a darker red. End ID.]
Autix
When your gender or genders are affected by your autism, and your autism affects how you view and precise your gender(s). It changes depending on the person who used it, as one autix person can view gender differently than another autix perosn. Can be modified like autixfem, autixmasc, autixfluid, ect.
Coined as an alt/similar term to autigender, as we don’t really think it covers how different autistic people view their gender and how gender works. It covers more things than people who just have one gender (like fluid, flux, ect genders) and people who still might be a gender or be aligned with masculinity or femininity or neither, but feel like their autism fudementally changes the way they view it and perceive it.
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“for people who have a strong connection to/hyperfixation on among us!!!
this gender is an umbrella term but works just fine as a gender in itself !! some possible genders under this gender are impostorgender, polusgender, etc etc!!
anyone can identify as amongusgender, as long as neurotypical people keep in mind that amongusgender was intended 4 neurodivergent people! any pronouns r fine to use w/ amongusgender but some recommended ones r imp/impos/impostors/impostorself and crew/crews/crews/crewself!”
watarugender : a kingender relating to wataru hibiki ; a gender in which someone feels a deep connection to wataru hibiki from ensemble stars!
⊹ ⁺ term coined for anon + flag made by me!
(please note that i use mobile and there isn’t a feature for me to turn on anon messages, but i will be turning it on as soon as i get some access to a computer! the blog who asked for this request wanted to be anonymous and i will ofc abide to said request.)
ID : two flags side by side ; the flag on the right is a five stripe horizontal flag, with colors in this order from top to bottom : dark aqua, aqua, white, peach, and dark blue! the image on the left is the same flag but with a png of wataru hibiki from ensemble stars in the middle!
lorarchic : a gender related to selkies, the cold, brisk sea, and the feeling of new beginnings. can be influenced by your selkie kintype or an affinity with the ocean.
(pronounced lore-ark-ick and coined for anon)
word origin : lor- from the latin word lorica/coat, and -archic from the italian word archí/beginning.
Agender loving Agender, Demifluid loving Demifluid, and Demiboy loving Demiboy !! I’ve never attempted something like this so this was really interesting to do and i had a lot of fun with it :0 as always free to use with credit ! ALA is a white rose for “eternal loyalty” DFLDF is a white tulip for “worthiness” DBLDB is a forget-me-not for “unforgettable love” !
also under the cut are two alternate ALA flags bc i felt they were too complex ajksdhks
fictivian: a fictive who is attracted to other fictives
using colors from and inspired by the plural- and fictive flags! (sorry that the fictive link leads to an edit rather than a full flag, it’s the only place i could find it even though i Know it exists)
[Image ID: A flag with 4 horizontal stripes. The colors from top to bottom are yellow, light-purple, blue, and dark teal. End ID.]
Orientated/Oriented
Orientated/Oriented: experiencing a non-romantic, non-sexual attraction that is significant enough to label in addition to romantic and/or sexual orientation(s). The attraction being experienced does not need to be defined. Can be used alone or combined with other terms (e.g. gay-orientated).
With both oriented aroace and oriented alloaro being coined, I thought it’d be nice to have a general term/flag for anyone to use. Orientated is a common alternative spelling for oriented. I didn’t actually know what else to call it (it seems silly to coin a new term but use the same definition), so that’s why I just put both terms