Gendervacuus: A gender that feels empty, so it sucks up other genders and destroys them, much like a black hole. This gender feels permanent empty, almost as if it can never be filled.
Voidfeminine flag requested by anon, based off of the voidmasculine flag.
Voidfeminine – Identifying with femininity but being unsure what exactly your gender identity is, it is a great and dark mystery long forgotten in your eldrich mind. The only thing in this existence that understands your puzzling feelings is the Void.
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If you have any problems with this particular flag design, please let me know. I may take the post down & will certainly do my best to correct the issue.🦋
I made my own take on voidfemininity (openfem, queerfem).
its a gender that is a vast forest during a storm with a feeling of exhilaration and freedom. its also can shelter or hide other genders.
arc from arcus clouds, clouds that cover wide areas and are associated with powerfull storms. fer from ferox, latin for wild or bold. um from umbra meaning darkness for how this gender can obscure others.
don’t screenshot or reply/rb to this if ur anti mogai !
i like this term,, maybe the flag could be light neutrals like this? i get the idea of dancing in the rain and feeling comforted by the storm instead of fear
xeno-oriented/xenor: an umbrella term covering all orientations that involve attraction to sentient targets that are not other humans currently incarnated/living in this continuity/world. Covers many orientations, including objectum, ficto, auto, kin, terato, anthrotherio, botano, conceptum, spectro, etc.
Does not cover zoophilia, attraction to feral animals without sentience; that’s not ethical and doesn’t fit the definition. Also not sure if this would cover attraction to one’s own headmates or other systems, I didn’t include it outright because I didn’t want to imply that headmates/alters that don’t have their own physical form aren’t real people living in this world. They just still aren’t what would be considered another incarnated human. Especially if they identify as alterhuman. I guess I’ll leave that up to whoever finds it relevant to their experiences.
I’m working on a flag design (I’m xenor dw), I tried making one with every subcommunity represented but it just didn’t look good so I have to get into extra creative mode
I’ll gladly redesign that flag! I couldn’t find the original and I don’t really know anything about sothis, so I hope it looks alright! Don’t be shy to tell me to edit anything!
Asterian/Mesquin: Someone who is mspec lesbian, mspec turian/gay, and mspec enbian.
A term made for an anon! Goes alongside solian/lunian/stellian, along with mesque. Unlike mesque, asterian explicitly includes enbian (nln) attraction as well. Someone who is asterian may change between mspec lesbian, mspec turian, and mspec enbian, may be all three at the same time, or something similar!
Asterian comes from asterism, which is a cluster of stars that can be seen in the night sky.
Demi-cosmoic: Any partial relation to or alignment with a cosmoic alignment. This covers identities such as demi-void aligned, demi-quark aligned, demi-planet aligned, etc.
burngender : when someone’s gender feels hot and intense but cools down after time.
—≻ flag made for anon by me !! ☆
ID : two flags side by side : on the right is a six horizontal striped flag with colors in this order, top to bottom : cool red, orange, orange-yellow, white, dark blue, and light blue. on the left is that exact same flag with a drawn flame in the middle.
Praes- being more attracted to people you feel protective over.
This term is exclusive to ones with mental illness that makes them feel really protective, monster/divine/caninekin (and fictionkin of anything that fits under that), fictionkins of knights/guards/protectors, and protectors in systems.
A placeholder term for when someone feels that they have not experienced attraction enough to know their orientation yet.
Term coined by: Unknown
[image description: a flag with five stripes. from top to bottom they are: pink, green, purple, yellow, blue. a grey triangle extends from the left side of the flag]
A more mossy, greenish neutrois flag recolour. I’ve been having fun making these pride flag recolours lately, but I’ve pretty much only been making ones that relate to myself. I would be open to making other ones if anyone wants 🙂
A feminine gender that can be described as sultry and dangerous. This gender feels very confident. It is red lipstick and high heels. It’s getting with a millionare just for the money and finding out he “mysteriously” dies. It’s making a man divorce his wife for you and then sleeping with his wife.
(i.e Jennifer Check from Jennifer’s body)
Homme-Femme Fatale Gender:
A gender that is masculine yet feminine presenting in a dangerous way. It is stepping on someone’s throat in high heel boots. It is going to exotic islands on stolen credit cards. It is being the murderous mistress everyone whispers about. It is looks of awe and disgust in the eyes of the prestigious.
(i.e Toto Sakigama/Mockingbird from Deadman Wonderland)
Neutre-Femme Fatale Gender:
A nonbinary gender that is wickedly seductive. It is being androgynous in every thing you wear. It’s having hidden weapons on you at all time. It’s knowing banquets all too well. It’s loving the smell of expensive cologne and cheap whiskey. It’s changing your name every time you have to introduce yourself.
(i.e Klaus Hargreeves from The Umbrella Academy)
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Can be used with any pronouns! Anyone is welcome to use the flags!
Voxoromantic, an individual who easily develop strong romantic feelings towards people with pretty voices! Flag design and term by sweet_pencil on Instagram!
Incubian (flag designed and coined by me and @azuremist!)
A gender related to incubi and typically masculine-aligned. May have masculine and seductive energies. Intended to be used by those with sexual religious trauma and/or hypersexuality. Can also be referred to incubusgender if desired.
Uhh here’s a new xenogender, Cichlidgender! It’s for when someone has a strong connection to the Cichlid genera!
Blue is for the waters Cichlid’s reside in, Red is for the toughness and resilience and will to fight Cichlid’s have and Green is the natural and beautiful and lush lives these fish live in!
Also the fish sillohoute in the flag is Astronotus Ocellatus or the Common Oscar!
deathian – a gender associated with death, the cycle of life, or the inevitability of death. or a gender that is death-aligned.
color meanings:
black – grief and mourning
red – honor, specifically in relation to the dead
white – life, purity, and rebirth
yellow – celebration of life
gold – the afterlife
i included versions with an hourglass symbol, as time is often used to represent death and the inevitability of it and a cycle, meant to represent the cycle of life and death
do most people on mobile tumblr know you can hold down the reblog button to fast reblog a post to your blog? you know you can reblog things with one click right? please please reblog things if you enjoy them, lack of exposure is killing content creators on this site
WHAT
Please pass this information around! Long press on the reblog button and then your blog icon will appear so you can swipe up into it:
Two click reblog and one click like is why the notes on my posts look like this:
for people on desktop, you can hold down alt (which might be sharing the option key) and click the reblog button to do a one click reblog.
We’ve coined quite a few terms on amino but have never posted them here. This is a masterpost of all the terms we’ve coined. Some you might have seen on Tumblr before but most have only been on amino. I have credited the member that coined it and the flag creators by there current amino usernames. Feel free to make flags for those that don’t have them.
Genders
Otherworldgender
Otherworldgender is when you feel a disconnect from the concept of gender due to being otherworldly. Anyone can identify as this as long as they have an otherworldly aspect to them. I picked out the colours but the flag was made by Pastel Child. Coined by River.
Programgender
A self coined term. When your gender can be split into 2 sets. Set 1 feels like apart of your old programming. It is programming that is no longer used. You can’t erase it. You recognise it is there and still a part of you but doesn’t truely feel like you due to new programming. Set 2 is your current gender and is a much more prominent in your identity. Both sets are important to you and come together to make your full identity. Only for android and robots(kin and system members). Flag by Smiley. Coined by Darla.
64hoarder
Whenever someone insults your gender hoard saying something like “it’s too big” or “this makes no sense” or “you have too many microlabels” etc. you expand your hoard by at least 5 more terms just to spite them. Based off the meme with Sonic saying “Yes, there are 64 genders, and everytime you complain we add 5 more.” Flag by nekomaru nidai. Coined by Nova.
Flickergender
Whenever a flickergender person hears of a gender they haven’t before they intensely feel like it’s there gender for a few hours before the feeling fades and they realise it’s not their gender. Flag by Sebastian. Coined by Charlie.
Blindnessgender
A gender for when your gender perception is affected by either partial or complete blindness. I don’t remember who made the flag so please tell me if it was you. Coined by Callie.
Pangirl
Despite being all genders you are capable of you feel fem-aligned as your fem genders are more prominent. This may lead you to present more femininely and/or desire a more feminine body. Flag by Rex. Coined by Missy.
Panboy
Despite being all genders you are capable of you feel masc-aligned as your masc genders are more prominent. This may lead you to present more masculine and/or desire a more masculine body. Flag by Rex. Coined by Missy.
When your gender changes in when in kin shift. The gender can be added as a suffix e.g shiftboy, shiftgirl etc. Flag by Rainy. Coined by Nova.
Mentalshiftgender
Shiftgender but only with mental shifts. Flag made by editing the shiftgender flag. Coined by Nova.
Sensoryshiftgender
Shiftgender but only with sensory shifts. Flag made by editing the shiftgender flag. Coined by Nova.
Phantomshiftgender
Shiftgender but only with phantom shifts. Flag made by editing the shiftgender flag. Coined by Nova.
(No flag)
Tessongender
You feel like there is “shards” of your agab surrounding your gender. These shards have been forced there by others trying to change your gender. These shards make it hard to see your true gender or explore it and it can feel painful to do so. These shards are not your gender but are “near” it. Intended for survivors of conversion “therapy” but can be used by others. Coined by Skylar.
(No flag)
Snowygender
A gender that, despite being cold and frigid, is soft and gentle. Coined by Nova.
Orientations
-Parental attraction
Parental attraction is when you feel the desire to raise a child with someone. This kind of attraction can sometimes be encompassed by other attractions such as romantic but I found myself feeling this way with no other kind of attraction so I decided to make a term for it. Note that this is specifically wanting to raise a child not just have one with them. The desire is to coparent a child together not just bring one into the world. You can desire to raise a adopted or biological child.
Name for a parental crush: prash/prush
Name for parental relationship: parenthood
Name for parental partner: coparent
Flag and term by Nicola.
(No flag)
Blindnesssexual
When your sexual attraction is affected by either partial or complete blindness. Coined by Callie.
(No flag)
Postsexual
Only feeling sexual attraction to someone after engaging in sexual activity with them. This can also be used for other attractions like romantic, platonic, sensual etc.
Stellian: A shorthand term for an mspec gay person.
Unlike the other terms that go along with this one, lunian (mspec lesbian) and solian (mspec turian), stellian is for anyone who considers themselves gay, including men, women,
nonbinary folks, and anyone else who identifies with it!
This may include nonbinary people, people who use gay but don’t exactly fit into lunian or solian, or any mspec lesbian/turian who just prefers this label!
As before, this term and flag is all inclusive, you can use the term independent of the flag, and vice versa!
gummybeegender: a gender that feels mischevious, bouncy, sweet, gummy, and like a bee and/or a gender that is related to gummy bee from bee swarm simulator
astrovir: a gendervir person whose masculinity is a central part of their identity
stellavir: a gendervir person whose femininity is a central part of their identity
lumevir: a gendervir person whose epicenity is a central part of their identity
exterastervir: a gendervir person whose xenity is a central part of their identity
colorvir: a xenovir identity related to or aligned with the concept of color. for example, blue-colorvir would be someone who is either a) both gendervir and bluegender or b) blue-aligned gendervir
last set of gendervir redesigns for now! there’s a handful of terms i didn’t make flags for because i couldn’t find definitions, so if anyone finds any coining posts for other gendervir terms that i haven’t redesigned yet, feel free to message them to me or tag me in them!
axenovir: an agender, xenic, and male-adjacent/male-aligned/male person
noxvir: a partially or wholly male-adjacent/male-aligned/male person whose gender can be compared to darkness and an overall feeling of nighttime
deminoxvir: partially identifying as noxvir
constellavir: having both a space-related gender and two or more male-adjacent/male-aligned/male genders. a combination of a space-related gender and polyvir.
virmythic: a male-adjacent/male-aligned/male identity that is largely influenced by mythology or mythological creatures
a gender that feels like you’re not getting everything out of it and you’re missing out, like when you use the free version of something because you can’t pay for the premium version.
ID : two flags side th side ; the right flag is a seven horizontal striped flag with colors in this order, top to bottom! : blue-black, dark grey-blue, lilac, light lilac, powered blue, aqua, and teal! the left flag is that exact same flag but with a hand-drawn picture of a hydrangea in the middle! (outlined in white.)
(also known as Veldian), is a term to describe gay men and gay (nblm) non-binary people
comes from Alan Turing, a gay mathematician, computer scientist, logician, cryptanalyst, philosopher, and theoretical biologist known for breaking the enigma code
so i said a bit ago that i’m going to redesign every gendervir flag, and here’s the first set! i hope that anyone who feels uncomfortable using the originals likes mine. i’ve decided to lean a bit more towards green and teal for my designs, as the word ‘vir’ makes me think of shades of green, and i felt that using a non-blue color would be both more interesting and more inclusive of non-masculine gendervir folks!
i did not coin any of these, though once i’m done with all the redesigns i may consider coining some more gendervir terms.
gendervir: an umbrella term for all male-adjacent, male-aligned, and male-identified genders. can be both an umbrella term and a personal identity.
demivir: being partially male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male
agendervir: being both agender and male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male; another word for ‘agender man’
polyvir: having multiple male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male genders
bivir/bi-vir: having two male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male genders
trivir/tri-vir: having three male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male genders
panvir: identifying as every male-adjacent, male-aligned, and male gender within one’s culture and experiences
xenovir: a male-adjacent or male-aligned xenogender
panxenovir: identifying as every xenogender and male-adjacent, male-aligned, and male gender within one’s culture and experiences
third set of gendervir redesigns! i did coin one of these – demivirfluid!
virfluid: fluidity between male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male genders
demivirfluid (new term): one part of a gendervir identity is static while the other is fluid
viritrumflux: a fluctuating gender that is part gender neutral and part male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male
attravir: being both gendervir and an orientationgender
incognivir: being partially male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male, but unsure of the other part
nullvir: the undefinable, intangible, nullification and uncreation of gender in the scope of being male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male, either partially or fully. a male-related identity that’s nonexistent or present; a vir-gendered void.
obscuvir: an undefined or ambiguous gendervir identity
quoivir: someone who may be male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male, but feels that gender identity and/or existing gender terms don’t quite apply to them; someone whose relationship with malehood; someone who isn’t sure whether they experience malehood or what malehood means for them; someone who is male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male, but doesn’t care much for gender as a concept; an alternative to ‘questioning’ that communicates exhaustion or frustration with searching for a better male-related gender identity term for oneself
virpunk: a colloquial term within the scope of male-adjacent/male-aligned/male identities for a culture of resistance against gendernormativity; a male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male identity that in and of itself is a resistance against gender norms, homophobia, transphobia, oppression, and societal status
third set of gendervir redesigns! i did coin one of these – demivirfluid!
virfluid: fluidity between male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male genders
demivirfluid (new term): one part of a gendervir identity is static while the other is fluid
viritrumflux: a fluctuating gender that is part gender neutral and part male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male
attravir: being both gendervir and an orientationgender
incognivir: being partially male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male, but unsure of the other part
nullvir: the undefinable, intangible, nullification and uncreation of gender in the scope of being male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male, either partially or fully. a male-related identity that’s nonexistent or present; a vir-gendered void.
obscuvir: an undefined or ambiguous gendervir identity
quoivir: someone who may be male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male, but feels that gender identity and/or existing gender terms don’t quite apply to them; someone whose relationship with malehood; someone who isn’t sure whether they experience malehood or what malehood means for them; someone who is male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male, but doesn’t care much for gender as a concept; an alternative to ‘questioning’ that communicates exhaustion or frustration with searching for a better male-related gender identity term for oneself
virpunk: a colloquial term within the scope of male-adjacent/male-aligned/male identities for a culture of resistance against gendernormativity; a male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male identity that in and of itself is a resistance against gender norms, homophobia, transphobia, oppression, and societal status
In recognition of today being Bi Visibility Day, I’d like to share some pride flags I made for bi lesbians and trans lesbians, two groups who’re quite often forgotten about, and who don’t really have any universally agreed-upon pride flags. And since I hated how most pride flags nowadays are horizontal stripes, I thought I would kill two birds with one stone with these flags I was struck with sudden inspiration for. So, enjoy:
being nonbinary and trans while also still referring to yourself as “gender non-conforming” like what gender am i not conforming to? all of the above babey
i have not conformed to a single gender in months, not a one.
My intention with this post is to provide terminology for people who already use the Quadrant system in their romantic life. However, you are allowed to adopt this system if it is new to you and you find it appealing.
Pale (or) Moirallegic Attraction: An attraction founded on a desire to support, protect, and form a commited and deep emotional relationship with a person. Some gestures of Pale affection may include Hugs, Papping (ie patting / caressing intended to calm a person), and Jamming (Sessions of emotional vulnerability). A pale relationship is distinct from a friendship. It could be considered similar to a Queerplatonic, Alterous or Romantic relationship, or it could be considered entirely distinct, depending on how the individual wishes to define it.
A pale partner is called a Moirail.
A pale relationship is called a Moirallegiance.
Pale feelings are typically expressed with the <> and ♦️ emojis.
Flags for a variety of Pale Orientations are included below the cut. They are free to use, and credit is not required but is appreciated. If you make a tumblr post using one of these flags, I would enjoy being tagged to see how they’re being used!
My intention with this post is to provide terminology for people who already use the Quadrant system in their romantic life. However, you are allowed to adopt this system if it is new to you and you find it appealing.
Flushed (or) Matespritic Attraction: An attraction very similar to our current definition of Romantic Attraction. Characterised by feelings of romantic love, and / or sexual attraction. Some gestures of Flushed affection may include hugs, kisses, and sex. Some people may view Flushed attraction and Romantic / Sexual attraction as one and the same.
A flushed partner is called a Matesprit.
A flushed relationship is called a Matespritship.
Flushed feelings are typically expressed with the ❤ and ❤️ emojis.
Flags for a variety of Flushed Orientations are included below the cut. They are free to use, and credit is not required but is appreciated. If you make a tumblr post using one of these flags, I would enjoy being tagged to see how they’re being used!
My intention with this post is to provide terminology for people who already use the Quadrant system in their romantic life. However, you are allowed to adopt this system if it is new to you and you find it appealing.
Pitch (or) Kismesic Attraction: An attraction founded on a simultaneous hatred and respect for another person. You could think of a Pitch relationship like a committed rivalry that takes on characteristics of a romantic relationship. Like Matespritic attraction, there can (but doesn’t necessarily have to) be a sexual component to Kismesic attraction.
I personally feel like I’m not qualified to define how a Pitch relationship looks beyond this, as I do not experience or personally understand Pitch attraction myself. I don’t want to disclude it from this model though, so I will leave it up to those who want to use the term to differentiate between a healthy and an unhealthy pitch relationship. Abusive relationships are not Kismesic relationships and I strongly discourage you from using this label for relationships or attractions which are harmful to you.
A pitch partner is called a Kismesis.
A pitch relationship is called a Kismesissitude.
Pitch feelings are typically expressed with the <3< and ♠️ emojis.
Flags for a variety of Pitch Orientations are included below the cut. They are free to use, and credit is not required but is appreciated. If you make a tumblr post using one of these flags, I would enjoy being tagged to see how they’re being used!
My intention with this post is to provide terminology for people who already use the Quadrant system in their romantic life. However, you are allowed to adopt this system if it is new to you and you find it appealing.
Ashen (or) Auspistic Attraction: An attraction founded on a desire to help two other people maintain a healthy relationship + prevent them from developing a toxic or otherwise unhealthy dynamic. Ashen gestures towards the pair in question in the relationship could include breaking up / preventing fights and defusing feelings of anger.
An ashen partner is called a Auspistice.
An ashen relationship is called a Auspisticism.
Ashen feelings are typically expressed with the o8< and ♣️ emojis.
Flags for a variety of Ashen Orientations are included below the cut. They are free to use, and credit is not required but is appreciated. If you make a tumblr post using one of these flags, I would enjoy being tagged to see how they’re being used!
A macabre but fun-loving feeling gender, named for crows and cola. It’s one that may feel much like Halloween festivities.
Flag
Flag Description
A silhouette of a large, broad-leaf shaped feather with a thinner, wavy feather at it’s right side. Both feathers have the same color pallette and chevron pattern; pink at the tips, an orange mid third, and a light blue lower third. The feathers sit on a dark indigo background.
A gender that feels immense, slow-moving and blocky; a sort of nervous or overwhelming gender, named for the elephant and vanilla. It may be somewhat tied to one’s traumatic experiences and the roads thereafter, if applicable.
Flag
Flag Description
A four banded flag. The bands are positioned diagonally from the upper right, and are orange, dark blue, purple, and red. In the middle of each of these bands is a cone shape, which points up towards the upper left corner of the flag. Each of these cones is overlaid slightly with the one before it, and are yellow, dark green, white and yellow, respectively.
Pronoun Suggestions
🐘/🐘s/🐘self
🍦/🍦s/🍦self
Pach/Pachs/Pachy (pronounced ‘pack’, ‘packs’, and pack-ee’; from pachyderm, a word specifically referring to a massive, thick-skinned animal, like the elephant)
Trun/trunks/trunk
Mast/Masts/Maston (from Mastodon, a prehistoric elephant ancestor)
A gamegender relating to Cassidy/Fredbear/Golden Freddy from the Five Nights at Freddy’s franchise.
The name is derived from the strong association between the character and the number five, with the most obvious being FNAF 2’s ‘Give Gifts, Give Life’ minigame, where Cassidy’s corpse was the fifth and final one shown.
Description
A gender marked by defiance of fate, or anger at your’s and others’ continued mistreatment. It can also be used as a kingender when applicable, but was made with neurodivergent people in mind.
Flag
Flag Description
A four striped flag in silver, baby blue, gold and red, in that order. The stripes are horizontal and of equal thickness.
Color Meanings
Silver- the color of machinery; the lasting effects of trauma
Baby Blue- the color of tears; the loss of innocence
Gold- the color of Fredbear’s pelt; love for others, and the desire to protect them
Red- the color of blood; anger at your abuser, or the spite to keep going against the status quo
Holidaylights Gender: a gender that’s connected to winter holiday lighting and/or holiday events like light shows, or just decorations in general. Can feel bright, warm, or twinkling.
Candycane Gender: a gender related to the taste or feeling of candy canes. Can feel like it tastes sweet or minty. Can also be used by those who have a strong connection to candy canes in some way!
Sockgender: a warm and comforting gender related to socks, typically associated with fluctuating feelings of genderlessness or neutrality. This gender occasionally or frequently disappears before being found again. Can also feel like it’s pair is lost or is hard to find (this can also be called demisockgender).
Can also linked to neurodivergency, but is not exclusive.
Miligender / Millenniumic: a musicagender connected to, associated with, or described by the music group Mili’s music. Specifically based on the album Millennium Mother.
[ID: 4 stripes colored in a descending order; black, white, purple, and orange End ID]
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black: neurodivergence
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white: anonbinary/acespec
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purple: ambiguity/androgyny; inability to be the ‘opposite’
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orange: traumagenic/absence of gender euphoria
this is a concept i’ve been thinking about and using for a long time so i figured i’d officially make a post abt it!! very new to mogai/tumblr stuff but its been an interest of mine for a long time ! sorry 4 any mistakes !!!!
nnodtgender:
([x]-in-nature nor otherwise due to trauma) a neurogender dissociated infinitely far away from an identity/nature due to associated trauma. since one does not align in any way with said identity, they cannot be the opposite of it- as would suggest being aligned to that identity (aka being opposite of
[x]) as well as a finite distance from it; which would be antigender rather than nnodtgender.
nnodtgender individuals are be triggered/repulsed by being perceived as the identity they dissociated from, but there is no interpersonal changes i.e. they have no personal qualms with individuals who identify with their triggers— though they may choose not to interact with them.
their expression may also not align with their identity *i.e. a finnodt (FIN-dissociated) individual may dress or present traditionally feminine despite identifying as farthest from FIN. they may also use she/her pronouns! who cares!!!
while i dont want to gatekeep i ask that this label be reserved for neurodivergent individuals!
*This is about “Lesbian and Bisexual Identities: Constructing Communities, Constructing Selves”, by Kristin G. Esterberg
Edit; this post is/ will be updated as I find new shit.
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In all seriousness though, every time someone says “the term was made by terfs”, I see red. Bi lesbian is overwhelmingly used by trans women and non-binary people, and y’all have the nerve to pretend radfems are behind its creation (without, of course, listing a fucking source for it. Besides, radfems mentionning it and laughing at it is NO proof that they made it). Radfems have show again and again how much they despise the term, but y’all have decided that believing a bunch of gatekeeping fucks that will call everything they don’t like “terf rethoric” is the way to go, apparently, despite COUNTLESS TRANS PEOPLE telling you otherwise
And, NGL, y’all are ignorant as fuck to genuinely believe TERFs would let anyone they see as attracted to man label themselves a “lesbian” in any way, much less “bi lesbian”. The only lesbians in their eyes are Cis gold-star transphobic lesbians, that’s it. They are literally the ones who separated the lesbian community, and kicked bi women out, but y’all still wanna pretend they legit use bi-lesbian in a positive manner at all?
FebFem (female exclusive bisexual female) is the term made by TERFs to refer to “good” bi women who don’t date men”.
Below are screenshots showing what radfems think of bi-lesbians (hints; not positive.) obvious TW for transphobia, biphobia, lesbophobia, general GC bullshit.
And bi is pretty much known as “attraction to 2 genders or MORE” for a lot of folks who are bi. For bi-lesbian who refer to themselves as such, they mean women and non-binary genderS (with an s), or, more rarely specifically women and one non-binary gender (ex; women and agender people). They are not pushing for a “gender trinary”, stop saying that.
And if you try to pull the “bi is redundant cuz n-b people are already included in lesbianism”: look if you personally include them in your own definition, good for you, no one is forcing you to change labels. If /you/ feel included, good for you, but please understand not all of us are. It can feel to some of us like we are reduced to “binary-lite”. (Example: imagine someone who is bigender man/woman: imagine someone saying “ooh you’re non-binary so your eincluded!1! But anything MAN is excluded! But we’re very inclusive of non-binary identities uwu” doesnt that sound contradicting in the slightest? Or at least erasing someone’s identity?)
But if you try and pull it to say “enby genders are included cuz u can never know who is non-binary; fuck you for essentially misgendering a bunch of non-binary people as “basically female-looking enough”. Besides, I’m sorry to say it, but you can never be sure who’s a woman, who’s a man, who’s non-binary. For all you know, that very feminine person with long hair you thought was cute is actually a man, (cis or trans), and goes by he/him pronouns. By /your own/ logic, that n-b people who are “female passing or androgynous” enough are included because “you can never tell”, feminine men who look “female enough” could be included in lesbianism. Make of that what you will.
As for the “lesbians are into fem-aligned enbies anyway so the label bad :)”: I made this whole post about it, feel free to look into it and why that claim is high-key transphobic and nbphobic:
As for “WELL SPLIT ATTRACTION MODEL BAD ;(”, Well. People know themselves better than you do. If your sexual and romantic attraction is the same, good for you, you do not get to talk for other’s experiences with queerness.
“They could just use homosexual biromantic then not lesbian”!! Oof. Well first of all no? Why would you want someone to label themselves homosexual if they are not comfortable? The word has such a shit history??
Second: idk I’m not comfortable with telling non-binary to use “homosexual” with their attraction to women (because, surprise, women =/= Non-binary, unless for those who identify as botch) if they are Not also women, or women-aligned.
I also feel saying the SAM is “bad” because it’s just a “modifier” feels. Disrespectful to aro/ace people, as it treats being aro and/or ace as a modifier rather than a full orientation but maybe that’s just me lol.
Also i cannot believe I need to say this apparently but -ahem- Queer People Are Not Responsible For Shitty CisHet Men Hitting on people Who Aren’t Interested IN Dating Them. Stop Victim Blaming I Beg Of You.
Finally: WHaT AbOuT DICTiOnArY DEFInITIOns1!1!
1; I feel the queer movement should be about revolution and giving up on the neat little boxes cishet society has pushed on us, and instead let queer people decide for themselves what fits best but you do you?
2 ; if you want to use “dictionary definitions, go for it I guess, but no “official” dictionary definition i have seen refers to lesbianism as /exclusive/ attraction to women.
As you can see, none of these describe lesbianism as “exclusive” attraction to women
(The same applies to “homosexual” or “gay”. It is always referred more or less as “attraction to same sex and/or gender”, never “EXCLUSIVE attraction”)
so i said a bit ago that i’m going to redesign every gendervir flag, and here’s the first set! i hope that anyone who feels uncomfortable using the originals likes mine. i’ve decided to lean a bit more towards green and teal for my designs, as the word ‘vir’ makes me think of shades of green, and i felt that using a non-blue color would be both more interesting and more inclusive of non-masculine gendervir folks!
i did not coin any of these, though once i’m done with all the redesigns i may consider coining some more gendervir terms.
gendervir: an umbrella term for all male-adjacent, male-aligned, and male-identified genders. can be both an umbrella term and a personal identity.
demivir: being partially male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male
agendervir: being both agender and male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male; another word for ‘agender man’
polyvir: having multiple male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male genders
bivir/bi-vir: having two male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male genders
trivir/tri-vir: having three male-adjacent, male-aligned, and/or male genders
panvir: identifying as every male-adjacent, male-aligned, and male gender within one’s culture and experiences
xenovir: a male-adjacent or male-aligned xenogender
panxenovir: identifying as every xenogender and male-adjacent, male-aligned, and male gender within one’s culture and experiences
oohh!! alright!!! here you go! the purple is for the ability to be masculine and feminine, the purpleish pink is for relations to femininity, the yellow is for androgynous-leaning tomboys and the yellow tinted white stripe is for gender nonconformity / deviation from traditional gender roles!!! :3
What’s up. I dunno if this has been done before (probably has), but I wanted to make a futch / androgynous bi wlw flag. It’s based on the femme and butch bi wlw flags made by @bgtow (hope you don’t mind me making these!)
I went with a purple hue because the femme was pink and the butch was blue. Also, bisexuality is the whole pink-purple-blue thing. I like the way it turned out and I figured I should post it in case other bi futch / androgynous wlw want to use it. (Credit would be nice.) This flag includes futch / androgynous bisexual trans women, btw, so TERFs and radfems can fuck off.
Here’s a description of what the stripes mean, for those who have difficulties reading the image:
Top: Fluidity in gender expression and gender roles Second: Being WLW and loving women Third: Love for futches / androgyny Fourth: Being confident in yourself Fifth: Solidarity with butches and femmes Bottom: Being bisexual and loving men, women, and enbies
Sorry for any quality issues, I made it in paint lmao
I made this flag because 1.) I rarely see a femme flag that includes both bi and lesbian femmes and 2.) I feel like so much of the femme community revolves around white femmes and it gets a little uncomfortable? to be a femme of color sometimes.
note: you can make edits with this if you’re not a femme of color. please rb if using!
okey! i made that gender for my personal use, but u can use it if u fit the criteria!
Foxcatgender:
xenogender best described by a cat and fox lovers! of u cant choose one — cat or fox — u can use foxcat! foxcats are rather playful and loves to sleep at the same time, loves nature. prns are foxcat, kittyfox, foxycat and things like she-foxcat, tom-foxcat, fitten* and fitten-binary
Gendervir: An umbrella term for all male-adjacent, male-aligned, and male-identified genders. Examples would be boy, trans man, transmasc, demiboy, boyflux, nonbinary man, nixvir, proxvir, agender boy, nanoboy, etc. as well as every male-related term I’ve coined.
Stripe meanings: Red is for boys. Orange is for nonbinary boys. Teal is for male-aligned and male-adjacent identities. Light blue is for demiboys and trans boys. White is for multigender and genderless boys.
Demivir: Any and all identities that are partially related to or partially aligned with maleness. Some examples would be demiboy, nanoboy, Neptunian, novarian, dawnian, demifluid/flux boys, etc.
This isn’t a combo of a nblnb + mlnb but it came from a combo of two nblnb flags that i did because i didn’t notice that i was doing that instead of a mlnb + nblnb combo. But i liked the colors a lot so im using it!
It remembers me of carnations, which is nice because one of the reasons i wanted to was to have a color scheme to Hyacinth’s partner (from my nblm + mlm blog) and it fits very nicely since i based him on carnations
I could have picked other already existing mlnb + nblnb flags but i liked doing one myself! And I’ll be sure to reblog some others that i liked a lot!
Coimgender feels strongly nonhuman and alien, and can also be related to space and aliens in more general terms rather than being strictly connected.
It also has some degree of feeling to it that’s related to human genders, such as Male/Man/Boy/Masculine, Nonbinary/Neutral/Null/Androgynous and Female/Woman/Girl/Feminine, etc.
It can feel like a mixture of both, aligned to a human gender, or the alien version of the genders we as humans have, though its simultaneously entirely alien (for partially or fluid xenity it would be coimfluid, coimflux or demicoim).
Coimgender is both the name of the label and a broad term for a gender with any previously mentioned experiences but that is too difficult to notice which human gender if also feels like. Coimboy, Coimgirl, Coimby, etc. are all optional terms!
Akoiromantic: experiences a level of romantic love without desire for reciprocation. Additional definitions often state that if such affection is returned it is unwelcome.
Akoisexual: experiences a level of sexual desire without desire for reciprocation. Additional definitions often state that if such affection is returned it is unwelcome.
[image description: a pink banner with black text that reads “dni: anti-antis / proshippers, terfs, transmeds, aspec exclusionists, anti-neopronouns, anti-mogai, or anti-endogenic systems. thanks for respecting my boundaries!” end id]
antagogender- when your gender is related to being evil or villainous. like being suave, confident, antagonistic, dark, hidden in the shadows, as well as committing crimes and creating chaos.
I think it’s time I release it, another gender coined by yours truly:
Androqueer / Androfuck
For when your gender is masculine + some unknown part or parts!
You can be AMAB or AFAB and be Androqueer, so long as you’re not completely male alligned. You can also be Androfuck + other gender identities (ex. Androqueer Transmasc, Androfuck Genderfluid, etc.)
[ID: A flag, beginning with two thin stripes, dark brown then medium brown. The thin stripes are followed by a dark and a light blue stripe, both of which are thick. In the middle is a single medium sized white stripe, with a thin grey stripe on either side. The bottom starts with a thick light then dark orange stripe, followed again by the medium and dark brown thin stripe. End ID]
hi hello i made a microlabel that i hadn’t come across quite yet!! i have a pretty complicated relationship w my gender so i thought of like a mix of gendervoid and nonbinary. aka demivoid. kinda like demigender but void :]
flag is highly inspired by the demigender & gendervoid flag!! if this term is already coined i will take down the post but i wanted to leave my little flag edit here 😀
🌲⚓️ Wudushantia- a gender that’s connected to singing sea shanties alone in the woods, normally during or after a rainy day, while the atmosphere is damp, wet, and murky. This gender is also connected to wooden logs, water droplets, antiques, and mist/fog.
Yes, this is genuine. It’s rather specific but I know someone, somewhere out there has a connection to this like I do- but if not, I simply hope you like it!
GNCsexual people are attracted to people who present in a non-gender-conformant manner. They could be attracted to femme or androgynous men, masc or androgynous women, or nbs who present in a gendered fashion. See also finmasexual and minwomasexual.
a lot of trans girls see link as a trans girl and were right and a lot of trans guys see link as a trans guy and theyre right and a lot of cis people see link as cis and theyre fucking idiots link isnt cis
[id: three panels of a jojo meme format. Two people, labeled “trans guy link” and “trans girl link” respectively, are kicking someone on the ground who is labeled “cis link”. A fourth person is watching from the sidelines.
The next panel is the fourth sidelined person casually taking a sip of wine from a nearby table.
The third panel is the forth person, now labeled “nonbinary link,” joining in kicking “cis link” on the ground.]
The queer pride flag. For the longest time I’ve struggled with defining and expressing my identity in the way many other LGBT people do. I couldn’t wear a pin with the colors or have a flag up in my room. So I decided to remedy this issue myself, and make my own queer pride flag. It’s the colors of a sunrise, signifying the start of an era where the word queer means something different, something more positive. I hope you like it 🙂
Aurora-aligned: A fluctuating, colorful, and bright alignment that swirls through the temperate atmosphere. Associated with solar winds, magnetic fields, and planet Earth.
Constellation-aligned: A cold, multifaceted alignment that is complex and solid. May feel as though the individual parts of the alignment make up one larger alignment identity. Associated with starlight and astrology.
Nebula-aligned: A fluid, colorful, and bright alignment that floats slowly through the cold void of space. May often feel cloudy or intangible. Associated with the alignment of supernova and with stars.
Stellar-aligned: A large, hot, and bright alignment with a fixed course through space. May be loud or boisterous. Associated with light and solar eclipses.
Singularity-aligned: A small and enigmatic red-hot alignment that has the potential to be something bigger. May indicate questioning alignment rather than being sure.
Lunar-aligned: A quiet, slow, and cold alignment with a fixed course through space. May align with softness or grace. Associated with water and lunar eclipses.
Supernova-aligned: A huge and red-hot alignment that seems to expand rapidly in all directions. May feel like it’s burning up other alignments around it. Associated with stars.
Planet-aligned: A stable, solid, and warm alignment thriving with liveliness. May align with both sunlight or darkness. Associated with weather patterns and gravitational forces.
Quasar-aligned: A chaotic, powerful, and ever-changing alignment that is hazy and massive. Feels like it encompasses every single alignment with a placement in the very center of the cosmoic spectrum, but can also simply influence several alignments at once. Associated with merging galaxies, cosmic expansion, and stars.
Quantum-aligned: A paradoxical alignment that is both known and unknown, present and absent. May be complex or simple, and may overlap with many other alignments or none at all.
Gravity-aligned: A heavy and mysterious alignment that weighs on the person and feels like it draws other alignments to it. Moves slowly through both space as well as celestial bodies. May feel like it keeps other alignments “in line” or moves other alignments in a pattern (think planets rotating around a sun.) Associated with celestial bodies and black holes.
Kuiper-aligned: Tiny, fragmented pieces of alignments that gather together far away from other alignments. May feel cold and slow, and will occasionally overlap with the gravitational pull of other alignments. Associated with asteroids and darkness.
Quark-aligned: An infinitesimal fraction of an alignment that feels like it’s almost not there at all. May feel like it’s the very foundation of one’s alignment or alignments. Associated with particles.
komorebian : a gender that feels very forest like ; akin to the sun shining through the leaves and creates sunbeams (aka komorebi!) it’s a gender that can feel warm, mossy, and green.
—≻ term + flag made for anon by me !!
(pronounced ko-mo-ree-bee-an) ♡ ╯
komorebi (木漏れ日) is the japanese word for
sunlight shining through the trees!
ID : two flags side by side ; on the right is a five horizontal striped flag with colors in this order, top to bottom : bright coral, light orange, light yellow, dark green, and light green! on the left is that same exact flag with a drawing of a sun and a leaf in the middle!
Poisongender: a gender that starts small, but grows bigger until the person is fully that gender; the person also feels like they derive some of it from other people.
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