lgbtwonderland:

Distringeresexual: a sexual orientation based somehow around the concept that trauma has interfered with your perception of your sexual orientation and/or sexual identity. Can be an umbrella term or individual term. Made from the Latin word that means “tear apart”.

Pronounced: dis-tree-en-jear-sexual

Creator of said term makes a note: This term is NOT an excuse to not see professional help if you’re experiencing negative physical and/or mental health symptoms. If this is negatively interferring with your day-to-day life, please seek out the proper professional.

This can be an umbrella term for all trauma related descriptions for different sexual orientations, like caedosexual and byumasexual.

lgbtwonderland:

Captivus: an alternative to the term “queer” since not everyone is comfortable with said term, especially given the grim history associated with said term (like the AIDS pandemic).

Flag made by inverting the colors of one of the popular queer flag. The top and bottom stripe are white.

“captivus” comes from old Latin for the term “captivate”

lgbtwonderland:

Alternative flag submitted for the captivus term we recently coined. The person wanted to capture the general feeling of the flag, but put it on a lighter palette.

Captivus: an alternative to the term “queer” since not everyone is comfortable with said term, especially given the grim history associated with said term (like the AIDS pandemic). Coined in January 2019.

“captivus” comes from old Latin for the term “captivate

wishiwashics:

Genderpunk: A colloquial term for a culture of resistance against gendernormativity; an identity that in and of itself is a resistance against gender norms, homophobia and transphobia, oppression, and societal status. The term Genderpunk is not limited to trans people. Anyone can be genderpunk. Alternative to genderfuck.
[link]

Genderfuck or Genderf*ck: Some nonbinary people may choose or need to present a ‘clashing’ combination of gender cues that are incongruous, challenging or shocking to those who expect others to fit the gender binary. For example, combining a beard with makeup and a padded bra. This practice of transgressively breaking the rules of gender presentation is known as genderfuck, genderfucking or sometimes genderpunk.

Punque – a gender characterized by the punk aesthetic, fashion, culture, music and attitude. Can be used as a descriptor or as a noun. [link]

Cybergenderpunk: A gender tied to being cyberpunk.
[link]

Honorary mention: 

Gendervoid/Genderpunk [ Voidgenderpunk ] combo
[link]

(Gendervoid or Voidgender: A gender identity defined by absence, a blank space or void where a gender might otherwise be. Sometimes synonymous with agender. [link])

Gendermaverick: a distinctly unorthodox (and non-binary) gender experience characterized by a self-determined and autonomous sense of anomalous disconnect and/or independence from traditional binary gender. Furthermore, gendermaverick is an identity undertaken/used with the intention of deliberate subversion of society’s sense of binary gender. (I guess that’s an alternative to genderpunk, maverique and genderqueer too).

Sounds like voidgenderpunk was also meant to be tied to being voidpunk.

geetrick:

lgbtqiarchive:

geetrick:

What were the enby versions of butch and femme?

I saw them once before I identified as non binary and now I need them! I think the enby equivalent of “femme” was “bambi” but idk what the equivalent of “butch” was.

Enbutch and femby/femmenby

Thank you! I don’t think that’s what I saw, but I love those terms!

There’s stag/swan and jackhound/femcat for enbies specifically. Bambi? I never saw it except at bambi lesbian.

mr—moth:

Neopronoun positivity!!

I actually think neopronouns are super neat and there isn’t nearly enough positivity for them.

I just picked a handful of the most popular and I plan on doing another round soon. If you have any suggestions or requests feel free to shoot them my way!

Free to use just credit me.

Click for better quality and transmeds and anti mogai don’t touch. Go make your own post you.

variant-archive:

Affix Scraps pt.1

This is a personal collection of affixes that could be useful in coining terms. These are free to use in coining terms (as long as you’re not an exclus/reg/transmed of any kind or violate my dni). I am also not any sort of linguistic scholar so I’m simply recording what I find without the guarantee that it’s 100% accurate. I suggest looking these up to see more forms and words that use the affix before using so you have more context. I will edit this post to remove used ones. I’ll also post more.

thely- Greek, meaning feminine.

prav- Latin, meaning bent or crooked.

eury- Greek, meaning broad, wide.

coelo- Greek, meaning hollow.

maxim- Latin, meaning largest.

minim- Latin, meaning smallest.

celer- Latin, meaning fast.

diplo- Greek, meaning double.

bis- Latin, meaning twice.

actin- Greek, meaning beam or ray.

acu- Latin, meaning sharp or pointed.

alac- Latin, meaning cheerful.

allel- Greek, meaning one another.

amm- Greek, meaning sand.

anem- Greek, meaning wind.

aper- Latin, meaning open.

arti- Greek, meaning even.

aux- Greek, meaning to increase.

av- Latin, meaning desire.

axon- Greek, meaning axis or axle.

blenn- Greek, meaning slime.

cata- Greek, meaning down, against, or back.

caten- Latin, meaning chain.

cathar- Greek, meaning pure.

cess- Latin, meaning to move, yield, go, or surrender.

caen- Greek, meaning new.

cern- Latin, meaning to sift.

chrys- Greek, meaning gold.

ciner- Latin, meaning ash.

cirr- Latin, meaning curl or tentacle.

clav- Greek, meaning key.

clin- Latin, meaning to lean or recline.

copi- Latin, meaning plenty.

coron- Latin, meaning crown.

cric- Greek, meaning ring.

cur- Latin, meaning to care for.

dros- Greek, meaning dew.

dy- Greek, meaning two.

dyna- Greek, meaning power.

eiren- Greek, meaning peace.

ere- Greek, meaning row.

eso- Greek, meaning within.

fer- Latin, meaning to bear or carry.

fid- Latin, meaning faith or trust.

glyph- Greek, meaning carve.

gyr- Greek, meaning ring.

hadro- Greek, meaning thick.

haere- Greek, meaning to choose or take.

hier- Greek, meaning holy or sacred.

hyal- Greek, meaning glass.

hyo- Greek, meaning U-shaped.

hyph- Greek, meaning weave.

infra- Latin, meaning below or under.

lacer- Latin, meaning tear (as in rip).

medi/midi- Latin, meaning middle.

mel/mell- Latin, meaning honey.

mim- Greek, meaning to repeat.

mir- Latin, meaning wonder or amazement.

mixt- Latin, meaning to mix.

mit- Latin, meaning to send.

mne- Greek, meaning memory.

morph- Greek, meaning form or shape.

mur- Latin, meaning wall.

myri- Greek, meaning countless.

narc- Greek, meaning numb.

nex- Latin, meaning to join or tie.

nemor- Latin, meaning woods or grove.

ombr- Greek, meaning rain.

opisth- Greek, meaning behind.

opt- Latin, meaning to choose.

ora- Latin, meaning to pray or plead.

ori- Latin, meaning to rise.

penn/pinn- Latin, meaning feather.

peran- Greek, meaning across or beyond.

phen- Greek, meaning to show or be visible.

piez- Greek, meaning to squeeze.

ple- Greek, meaning fill or full.

plect- Latin, meaning plait.

plen- Latin, meaning full.

plic- Latin, meaning fold.

plum- Latin, meaning feather.

plurim- Latin, meaning most.

poe- Greek, meaning to make.

prim- Latin, meaning first.

pros- Greek, meaning forth or forward.

proter- Greek, meaning former.

psall- Greek, meaning to pluck.

pseph- Greek, meaning pebble.

psil- Greek, meaning bare.

mogaiespeon:

Top Row – Tik / Tiks / Tikself 
Bottom Row – Tok / Toks / Tokself 

I haven’t seen any pronoun flags for these pronoun sets so I made some myself! Both are based off clock colors due to the pronouns having a time-theme to them! ( Or that’s how I see them atleast. )

Feel free to tag me if you use the flags, I’d love to see!

momma-mogai-sphinx:

Some pronoun flags in case anyone wants them! :>

hey/hem

shey/shem

xhe/herm

shuhe/herim

hushe/himer

The green represents neutrality, while the pinks and blues are associated with femininity and masculinity respectively. The purples and yellows, on the other hand, are commonly associated with androgyny and nonbinarity itself respectively. The different shades represent how the pronoun’s user may feel connections to such concepts at varying degrees.

genderqueer-dream:

New Orientation// Meradmirer

Meradmirer- This orientation is deep and alluring, but unable to be expressed due to some physical barriers.

For Mergender folks!

(this is on my main, my new side and Mogai blog is @mogai-vigilante)

genderqueer-dream:

New Orientation// Meradmirer

Meradmirer- Watching the one you love from a distance, unable to interact with them. This orientation is alluring to those it comes into contact with.

For Mergender folks!

(My side and new MOGAI blog is @mogai-mom

lgbtwonderland:

Byumasexual: A sexual orientation term for those who experienced some kind of trauma during the “awakening” of their sexual attractoin/orientation (for example: when one first starts to date or gets curious about their own sexual orientation). Due to this trauma, the concept or idea of “sexual attraction” is a very confusing subject to them. These individuals might have a basic idea of their orientation (”I know I am not straight” or “I know I am not gay”) but beyond that, it is a mystery. People who identify as Byumasexual might have a history of “cycling” through different sexual orientation terms, attempting to find a term that they feel comfortable with (the “light bulb moment”).

This term is a more specific version of unthenalsexual. This term is NOT an excuse to not see professional help if you’re experiencing negative physical and/or mental health symptoms. If this is negatively interferring with your day-to-tday life, please seek out the proper professional.

Questioning is not a term these people feel comfortable with. One reason could be that it feels too “superficial”. Another reason could be that they feel like questioning is a “transitioning” term.

Byumasexual could easily be connected to caedosexual (believing trauma made you no longer experience sexual attraction), implasexual (Someone who feels they are never quite sure of their sexual orientation due to self doubt or anxiety), or pomosexual (believing there is no current term within the LGBT/MOGAI community that fits you, but there might be in the future).

This term was created by combining a greek word with an old norse word. It’s pronounced “bee-you-ma-sexual”. The colors were based on the ideas of “trauma”, “{re}birth”, and “sexuality”.

This flag was made as a simplified version of the Byumasexual flag since the initial design could be difficult to create into pride gear

Term coiner and flag maker goes by “synp”

thepancherryblossom:

here we go!

Quasarian: a xenogender related to quasars, quiet places, candles, lights, heat, etc. 

Blazarian: a xenogender related to blazars, rocks, fire, air, water, etc.

Pulsarian: a xenogender related to pulsars, water, earth, ice, snow, cold air, etc

Genderstille: a xenogender related to night, quietness, lanterns, the moon, music, air, trees, and/or grass

Tumultuogender: a gender that is wild, harmful, and full of hatred/anger

Arborgender: a xenogender related to shade, trees, and silence

Abrobinary: being fluid between binaries (nonbinary to anonbinary to abinary is an example).

any other ideas for terms can be sent to me!! thanks!

variant-archive:

Myxo- attraction to slime and/or sentient slime creatures/beings.

myx- is a greek root meaning slime.

variant-archive:

retrogender- similar to postgender but fluxing; having mostly moved on from a gender, but occasionally it resurfaces, partially or fully, before it becomes dormant again. This resurfacing may or may not be conditional (as in activated by certain conditions, events, or situations.) Some can “revisit” their retrogender at will.

Can be used like retrogirl, retroboy, etc., the specified gender being the former gender that resurfaces sometimes, not the current gender.

:

This term and flag already exist !

Witchgender/Magusgender/Magegender/Venefigender : 

A gender that has a closeness or connection to witchcraft and magic. It is, in a way, a magic gender. You could use it to perform strange gender magic. Or something. It is also associated with a feminine or androgynous gender expression.
Witchgender’s names come from the following things: witchgender, coming from the word “witch”; magusgender, coming from the Latin word “magus”, meaning “magic”; magegender, coming from the word “mage”, another word for “magician”; and venefigender, coming from the Latin word “venefica”, meaning witch.

momma-mogai-sphinx:

Ambiguity

So I’ve noticed that the three major forms of gender expression that are often used by individuals to describe themselves are masculinity, femininity, and androgyny, but I feel like there’s one important element missing from this grouping. While there are other, more obscure labels for nonbinary gender expressions out there, I feel like none of them quite adequately cover one fundamental form of expression that is often referenced and discussed, but with confusing and sometimes contradictory terminology. There is no one word for “gender neutral” expression. I’ve also noticed that androgyny is often used interchangeably as neutral expression and a form of expression influenced by both femininity and masculinity, which I find quite confusing.

So I propose that we adopt a new, fourth major term of gender expression for feelings of neutrality to complete the set: ambiguity. Ambiguous-expressing individuals may define themselves as having a gender expression which draws on neither femininity, nor masculinity, and exists independently of all other forms of expression as well. Their expression may be fluid to some degree — drifting between feminine, masculine, neither, both, and something else entirely — but it is never hyper-expressive.

Androgynous individuals, in contrast, may define themselves by how their expression most certainly draws on both masculinity and femininity (and perhaps other forms of expression), possibly to varying degrees at different times, etc.

The word “androgyne” derives from the Ancient Greek “ἀνδρόγυνος,” which in turn stems from the words “ἀνήρ” (anér, or man) and γυνή (gyné, or woman). So it makes sense that androgynous means “clearly pertaining to both femininity and masculinity at the same time.” Whereas ambiguous, of course, is like indiscernible — as in, indiscernible as either masculine or feminine. If androgyny is a mixture of masculinity and femininity, then ambiguity is entirely opposed to the two.

In any case, I feel that ambiguous terminology will be helpful in moving away from the strict, singular masc-to-fem spectrum we’re familiar with, but feedback is definitely appreciated!

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If you’re still confused as to how this term would be applied, here are just a few examples:

“They are a masculine-expressing individual.”

“They are an ambiguous-expressing individual.”

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“Androgyny is central to her gender expression.”

“Ambiguity is central to her gender expression.”

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“My gender is on the fem(inine)-spectrum.”

“My gender is on the ambi/ambig(uous)-spectrum.”

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Note: Gender expression and gender identity are, of course, independent of one another. A feminine boy is not “made” a girl by expressing femininely. This post is in no way trying to frame ambiguous expression as intrinsically tied to neutrality of gender, nor is it insinuating that any and all gender neutral individuals MUST express ambiguously or that only they can. The same way that maleness and masculinity are associated or femaleness and femininity are associated, but not equated, ambiguity is meant to be a sort of “expressive analogue” for gender neutrality (while still having no intrinsic ties to it).

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If you have any problems with this term, please let me know. I may take the post down & will certainly do my best to correct the issue.🦋

There’s also epicenity, which is seen as something between neutrality and androgyny. Ambiguity seems to be binarist in the sense of both genders (as if the whole gender spectrum were just two/ambiguous). At least it would remind ambigender, making it less problematic.

imoga-pride:

• Equigender: When you are multiple genders in perfectly equal parts/amounts.

• Cassgender: A gender identity where one feels that their gender is unimportant or is indifferent to the idea of gender.

• Anongender: A gender that is unknown to both yourself and others.

I think there are more genders described as something related but not specified as multigender, you can use equi-demicassgender / equi-demianongender.

Collgender: A polygender identity where one experiences too many genders to be able to describe them all.

momma-mogai-sphinx:

momma-mogai-sphinx:

momma-mogai-sphinx:

Nonbinary Categories

So some of these terms have caused me quite a bit of confusion in the past, but I think I’m starting to understand them. I’ve written out my own definitions of the words that may or may not be helpful, but please let me know if I’ve gotten anything wrong…

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Nonbinary – Identifying as neither wholly and exclusively male 100% of the time, nor wholly and exclusively female 100% of the time; not adhering to the strict male-female gender binary.

All of the following terms are more specific subcategories for nonbinary gender identities.

Abinary – Someone whose gender is unrelated to/not influenced by either binary gender. (Unaligned/other-aligned enbies and genderless folks.)

Nontrinary – A more specific subset of nonbinary that describes anyone who does not identify as wholly and exclusively male 100% of the time, nor wholly and exclusively female 100% of the time, but who does not describe themselves as a “third” gender either; a rejection of the idea that gender is a trinity/nonbinarity is a separate category, as opposed to gender being on a spectrum. (Anyone who is not male, female, or “third” gender.)

Atrinary – Someone whose gender is unrelated to/not influenced by either binary gender, including “third” genders. (Primarily other-aligned enbies.)

Anonbinary – A more specific term for those who are so removed from the gender binary, that they do not define their gender in relation to it. (Not either/or/neither/both, but something else entirely and completely unrelated; mostly other-aligned enbies, including xenic alignments and some ethnogenders.)

Anontrinary – Practically the same as anonbinary, but also excludes unrelated “third” genders. (Anyone who’s gender is both removed from the binary, and not defined as being “tertiary” to male and female, like aliagenders and many aporagenders.)

These terms are pretty broad, and I doubt most of them are used very often, especially not as identities in their own rights (just useful categories). But I imagine some people may have a difficult time narrowing their gender down beyond “not male or female.” So, in that respect, they can come in handy for those who are unsure of their exact identity.

If you’re still confused, here are some examples of terms that would fall under each category (and some that would be excluded by its usage):

Nonbinary

Anyone who does not identify wholly and exclusively as either binary gender all the time

Excludes: Binary men & women

Abinary

Quoigender, maverique, mercuriuan, plutoian, stellarian, genderfree, gendervoid/genderless/nongendered, some aingenders, many xenogenders, many ethnogenders

Excludes: demiboy/demigirl, xoy/xirl, genderfaun/genderfae, ambonec, epicene

Nontrinary

Demi- boy/girl/nonbinary, xoy & xirl, genderfaun & genderfae, mercurian, stellarian, orientationgenders, many xenogenders, agender

Excludes: Binary men & women, “third” genders/aliagenders/non-specific aporagenders

Atrinary

Quoigender, maverique, some aingenders, many xenogenders, many ethnogenders, gendervoid/genderless/nongendered

Excludes: Demiboy/demigirl, xoy/xirl, genderfaun/genderfae, “third” genders/aliagenders/non-specific aporagenders

Anonbinary

Many xenogenders, some ethnogenders, some aingenders, gendervoid/genderless/nongendered

Excludes: binary genders, masc- or fem-spec or -aligned genders, genders defined in any way as being “neither” or “both” (in relation to the binary)

Anontrinary

Many xenogenders, some ethnogenders, some aingenders

Excludes: binary genders, masc- or fem-spec or -aligned genders, genders defined in any way as being “neither” or “both” (in relation to the binary), “third” genders/aliagenders/non-specific aporagenders

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(Let me know if you can think of anymore examples for these, thanks!!🦋)

(Thanks to @lgbtqiarchive for helping me in defining trinary terminology!)

Note: I’ve also come across the terms negabinary and unbinary, but I’m still not 100% sure what they mean. Feel free to add onto this post if you’ve got any ideas.

Updated!!

Hopefully this is better! ;v;

Another li’l update to this post:

Here are all the flags in case you wanted one. These are all technically remakes except the nonbinary one (which I got from Pride-Flags on DeviantArt) because I’m super picky about image quality. Same designs though! (Bonus anontri flag!)🦋

Nonbinary

Abinary

Nontrinary

Atrinary

Anonbinary

Anontrinary

ANT Stripe Meanings:

I really wasn’t sure what to do here, so the stripes don’t really have any meaning. I just tried combining the xeno flag with the atrinary flag (for no particular reason) and using those colors. The result is…interesting, but I’m open to feedback!

polaroidillusions:

hello! I decided to coin my own gender because none of the ones I found encompassed how my gender feels to me. if there is any label that suits me it’s one that I create!

presquegender – when your gender is feminine but not female, masculine but not male, and almost, but not quite, neutral. or, a gender which is almost neutral but has a connection to femininity and masculinity. a presquegender person may feel all of these at once or be fluid between them.

from the word “Presque,” (pronounced presk) which is “almost” in French.

color meanings:

pink – connection to feminine

purple/blue – almost masculine

cream – almost neutral

peach/coral – almost feminine

light blue – connection to masculine

gender-and-all:

Icegender: a nonbinary gender that feels cold, disconnected from warmth and emotion, that people are afraid to touch

momma-mogai-sphinx:

So, I doubt there are many people who will be able to relate to this, but I decided to make a flag for a gender identity that combines the nanogender, xoy, and genderfree flags. I don’t have a specific term for this, so I just call myself nanoxoy genderfree person, but if y’all know of or can think of a simpler way of putting, that’d be greatly appreciated (although I guess nanoxoyfree is short enough…).

This basically means that a very small part of my gender feels “adjacent” to maleness (though it is still nonbinary in nature) while the rest of my gender feels 100% nonbinary and neutral in nature. Feel free to use if you relate to this experience at all!

Xoy – “Someone who identifies in some was as a nonbinary boy or nonbinary boy-adjacent. Someone who identifies with some part of man/boyhood but who wants a more nonbinary and neutral sounding word because they aren’t entirely boys or don’t want to be associated with the typical ideas brought up by the word ‘boy.’”

Genderfree – “A blurry, cloudy, whimsical, free sense of gender.”

Nanogender – “Someone who is [nanogender] feels that their gender is a very small part one gender, and mostly something else.”

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If you have any problems with this particular flag design or any of these terms, please let me know. I may take the post down & will certainly do my best to correct the issue.🦋

Nanoxoyfree

finnishmolayne:

ecto/ects/ectself pronoun flag inspired by @nebularomantic’s pronoun flags!

bonus square version for pride iconz and stuff

Continuar lendo

twink-flags:

yeah!! here you go! i really like how it turned out so i hope you too too 😀 if theres anything you want changed feel free to ask !

xeno-aligned:

lgbtqiarchive:

lgbtwonderland:

Luminian: a non-binary feminine identity who experiences sexual and/or romantic attraction (whichever is more accurate for your own circumstances) to other non-binary individuals, feminine spectrum gender identities, and masculine spectrum gender identities.

Coined by @xeno-aligned

actually, luminian was coined by @medic-crow , i just made the flag (of which this is an alternate, i’m guessing?)

[original flag] [coining post]

Sorry I didn’t know

variant-archive:

bakerofflags:

Shey- Pronouns Flag

This flag is perfect for anybody who identifies as masculine, feminine and androgynous at the same time.

• Shey- They/She/He
• Shem- Them/Her/Him
• Sheir- Their/Hers/His
• Shemself- Themselves/Herself/Himself
• Sheir’s- Theirs/Hers/His

(Just wanna add that these pronouns aren’t exclusive to any gender)

gaypeachs:

altegender: pronounced “alt-eh-gender”
derived from shortening the phrase “alternate existence.” It is a xenogender that feels as though it’s in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence. 

an understanding of a gender, but it feels distant.

It can work as a prefix with other words to form more specific genders, like altegirl, alteboy, altenby, altexirl, altexoy, and altefluid.

altegirl/altewoman:

someone whose gender feels like it is female, but as though it’s 

in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence. 

an understanding of a female gender, but it feels distant.

alteboy/alteman:

someone whose gender feels like it is male, but as though it’s  in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence.

an understanding of a male gender, but it feels distant.

altenby:

someone whose gender feels like it is nonbinary/genderqueer, but as though it’s  in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence.

an understanding of a nonbinary gender, but it feels distant.

altequeer:

someone who feels/identifies as Queer (genderqueer or just Queer,) 

but as though it’s  in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence. an understanding of a Queer gender, but it feels distant.

altexirl:

someone whose gender feels like it is

in some way nonbinary girl or nonbinary girl-adjacent, but as though it’s  in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence.

an understanding of a female adjacent/aligned gender, but it feels distant.

altexoy:

someone whose gender feels like it is in some way a nonbinary boy or nonbinary boy-adjacent, but as though it’s  in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence.

an understanding of a male adjacent/aligned gender, but it feels distant.

altefluid:

someone whose gender feels like it is fluid, but as though it’s  in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence.

an understanding of fluid genders, but they feel distant.

terms for reference: 

xenogender, xirl and xoy, genderqueer, nonbinary, and genderfluid.

Terms coined and flags designed by: me.

Altequeer or alteandrogyne?

artblastside:

cometgender – a gender which relates to another gender in the way a comet orbits the sun of a solar system: zooming into the solar system, then out again, spending more time out in space than near the centre but always attached to the gravitational field of that sun.

example: cometboy is a gender which orbits “boy” like a comet; it is rarely actually in the “boy” solar system, but is constantly affected by it and pulled back towards it.

can be cometgirl, cometagender, cometmaverique, etc

imoga-pride:

Aropan/paro (paromantic / aropanromantic / apanromantic): being aromantic and panromantic at once, some mix of the two or somewhere between both.

Based on acepan/pace flag by @wavership, not to be confused with panaromantic, paroromantic, aparomantic or pararomance. This falls under schrodiromantic/schroromantic and pluraromantic umbrellas, consequently arospec/aspec, grey-aro and mspec/multispec ones.

imoga-pride:

Done, but it’s more aesthetic pleasing than one by one as in aropan flag.

momma-mogai-sphinx:

Comgender + Ambonec combo flags for @femaleganondorfdragmire !

There were plenty of ambonec flags to model this one after, so take your pick!

Ambonecomgender / comambonec

mogai-haven:

Gradiogender: a gender that increased by degrees. This is for people who feel their gender is gradually growing.

varioriented-pride:

Pluralian Gay Man: gay men attracted to multiple genders, regardless the form of attraction (aesthetic, platonic, sensual, etc.), the attraction can be either at the same orientation or not; a gay-leaning pluralian man, feeling flexible/stronger/easier attraction towards men; an umbrella term for every gay boy on mspec (multi- spectrum), such as bi/ply and omni/pan gay, they can be gayflexible/homoflexible &/or multiflexible/pluriflexible.

This is just adherently varioriented.

momma-mogai-sphinx:

lgbtqiarchive:

momma-mogai-sphinx:

Nonbinary Categories

So some of these terms have caused me quite a bit of confusion in the past, but I think I’m starting to understand them. I’ve written out my own definitions of the words that may or may not be helpful, but please let me know if I’ve gotten anything wrong…

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Nonbinary – Identifying as neither wholly and exclusively male 100% of the time, nor wholly and exclusively female 100% of the time; not adhering to the strict male-female gender binary.

All of the following terms are more specific subcategories for nonbinary gender identities.

Abinary – Someone whose gender is unrelated to/not influenced by either binary gender. (Unaligned/other-aligned enbies and genderless folks.)

Nontrinary – A more specific subset of nonbinary that describes anyone who does not identify as wholly and exclusively male 100% of the time, nor wholly and exclusively female 100% of the time, but who is not genderless/gendervoid/agender either; not adhering to the male-female-neither trinity. (Unaligned/other-aligned enbies who are NOT genderless.)

Anonbinary – A more specific term for those who are so removed from the gender binary, that they do not define their gender in relation to it. (Not either/or/neither/both, but something else entirely and completely unrelated; mostly other-aligned enbies, including xenic alignments, culturally-exclusive identities, and some unaligned enbies.)

Anontrinary – I’ve never actually seen this term used, but if it exists, I assume it probably means a more specific term for those who are so removed from the gender trinity that they do not define themselves in relation to it. So someone who is entirely removed from the gender binary, but whose gender is not defined as “neither” either. If this term doesn’t exist, then here it is! But if it does, please give me the actual definition so I can update it, thanks.

These terms are pretty broad, and I doubt most of them are used very often, especially not as identities in their own rights (just useful categories). But I imagine some people may have a difficult time narrowing their gender down beyond “not male or female,” or “not male, female, or genderless,” etc. So, in that respect, they can come in handy for those who are unsure of their exact identity.

If you’re still confused, here are some examples of terms that would fall under each category (and some that would be excluded by its usage):

Nonbinary

Anyone who does not identify wholly and exclusively as either binary gender all the time

Excludes: Binary men & women

Abinary

Agender, quoigender, maverique, mercuriuan, plutoian, stellarian, genderfree, gendervoid, neutrois, aporagender, many xenogenders, many culturally-exclusive genders

Excludes: demiboy/demigirl, xoy/xirl, genderfaun/genderfae, ambonec, epicene

Nontrinary

Demi- boy/girl/nonbinary, xoy & xirl, genderfaun & genderfae, mercurian, stellarian, orientationgenders, many xenogenders, aporagender

Excludes: Binary men & women, agender, gendervoid, nullgender

Atrinary

Quoigender, maverique, aporagender, many xenogenders, many culturally-exclusive genders

Excludes: Demiboy/demigirl, xoy/xirl, genderfaun/genderfae, agender, gendervoid, nullgender

Anonbinary

Many xenogenders and culturally-exclusive genders

Excludes: binary genders, masc- or fem-spec or -aligned genders, genders defined in any way as being “neither” or “both” (in relation to the binary)

Anontrinary

Many xenogenders and culturally-exclusive genders

Excludes: binary genders, masc- or fem-spec or -aligned genders, genders defined in any way as being “neither” or “both” (in relation to the binary), genderlessness

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(Let me know if you can think of anymore examples for these, thanks!!🦋)

Note: I’ve also come across the terms negabinary and unbinary, but I’m still not 100% sure what they mean. Feel free to add onto this post if you’ve got any ideas.

The gender trinary does not include essentially agender/genderless, sometimes it includes neutrois/neutral-genders and third-genders/aliagenders/ternary ethnogender. That is the definition of aporagender/aingender

Anontrinary/anonternary is an atrinary/aternary gender beyond trinary and nonternary.

Ok, thank you for the info. So in an updated version of this, could the definition of nontrinary be “anyone who’s neither binary gender, but who does not define themselves as a ‘third’ gender in relation to the binary?”

Yeah… It depends on your culture if there’s a pre-established tertiary gender, if not it could be neutrois/agender/androgyne. Reminder nongender arity (nonary) is separated from agender arity (anary/nullary), an agender boy is nonbinary and nontrinary but not abinary nor atrinary for example.

official-loka:

Yknow I looked through the flags in the lesbian survey and I think the best one wouldve been the one by smile-Charlie

The colours are nice, not overly feminine or masculine, got plenty of purple – I know you wuh luh wuhs are crazy for that 💜

Plus, one of the biggest things that seems to be putting people off different flags is ace discourse, this person has nothing on their blog about ace discourse (obviously others did too but I like this best)

There’s also the fact that the stripes don’t represent specific groups of lesbians, a common theme I noticed with some other flags is that they have like “the pink is for x lesbians, the purple is for y lesbians, the white is for all other lesbians” and it just seems a little meh, it kinda implies that whatever groups have a stripe are the most important and everybody else is an afterthought, whereas the stripes in this flag were meant to represent aspects of being a lesbian

Anyway that’s my take on the lesbian flag discussion, forgive me though, I know it’s not really my place to give my opinion, and please feel free to completely disregard everything I’ve said, use whatever flag is best for you 🖤

lgbtwonderland:

*requested*

Demihomosexual panromantic flag!

lgbtwonderland:

Monosexual alternative flag

Flag maker: https://official-loka.tumblr.com/

lgbtwonderland:

Monofemsexual: being sexuallly attracted to feminine identity spectrum individuals only, when you identify also as a feminine identity. Alternative to the term “lesbian” since not everyone feels comfortable with said term (especially if romantically you’re multiromantic or panromantic).

lgbtwonderland:

Monomascsexual: being sexuallly attracted to masculine identity spectrum individuals only, when you identify also as a masculine identity. Alternative to the term “gay” since not everyone feels comfortable with said term (especially if romantically you’re multiromantic or panromantic).

lgbtwonderland:

Omnisapphic: being pansexual/omnisexual but having a strong preference for feminine based identities

This sounds like omnigay/omnilesbian but for genderfluid people who are always sapphic

lgbtwonderland:

Ammolic (also known as: ametrian): a non-binary person who experiences sexual and/or romantic attraction (whichever is more accurate for your own circumstances) to other non-binary individuals and feminine spectrum gender identities.

venake:

I tried my hand at making a voidpunk flag! 😀

the purple and green represent ace, aro, nb and nd people. the circle in the middle represents a black hole, hence the lack of humanity/dehumanization. the white represents the unity of our communities.

what do you guys think?

mogai-haven:

Pluraessatagender: A semimasculine gender that feels multiple and somewhat shifting. This gender is very orderly and blocky, but with a side splash of childish fun.

mogai-haven:

Sezionegender: A gender that feels heavily divided or sectioned. While it is a single gender, it can be confusing and hard to describe as it’s split into distinct pieces that all fit together to make the whole.

neolabels:

uncommongenders-deactivated2021:

Not that I know of, but can be easily coined!
~Mod Fusion
There is genderspace, but that’s more to general space things like stars and comets.
-Admin Opal

Perhaps one of these may help?

Abimegender ※ A gender that feels profound, deep, or infinite

Aethergender ※ A gender that feels wide, commanding, breathtaking, and powerful

Aitherio or Aitheriogender ※ An ethereal, otherworldly gender that did not originate from this world, making it nearly impossible to define using words from within your own culture

Astergender ※ When your gender feels bright and celestial

Astralgender ※ A gender that feels connected to space

Caelgender ※ A gender Aesthetically associated with space, the cosmos

Condigender ※ A gender that flows through time and space, constantly changing, always moving 2) A gender of or related to space and time

Cosmicgender ※ A gender so vast and complex that you are only able to process a small bit of it at a time; like viewing the night sky through a telescope, you cannot hope to see all of it at once. However, you may gain more knowlage about parts of it the longer you focus on one part. May contain any number of subgenders within it that may present themselves to you. It is infinite in its possibility

Eldrigender ※ A gender that feels dark, nebulous, and unknowable

Faegender ※ A gender that changes with the seasons, equinoxes, moon phases, etc.

Gendercosm ※ A gender identity encompassing and surpassing the limits of the earth/society, without encorperating existing genders from society; a gender identity so grand and huge it cannot be explained by words

Nym ※ A gender which exists but is nebulous or undefined. Nymhs, derived from both nimbus and nebula, refers to a gender which exists but is nebulous in nature – definitely present but indistinct and unable to be defined in any more exact light. Drawing from this meaning the flag is loosely based off of Saturn and colors often seen associated with space, nebulousness, or lack of form. (fun fact: it can also be seen to resemble a stage of the formation of a protostar from a nebula but that’s less commonly known)

Stargender ※ An otherworldly gender that is beyond comprehension in earthly terms, as if it originated from beyond earth. 2) A gender that cannot be defined n matter how many other terms are coined 3) The gender of a star 

imoga-pride:

• Astralgender: A gender that feels connected to space. 
• Caelgender: A gender which shares qualities with outer space or has the aesthetic of space, stars, nebulae, cosmos, etc. Also used as an aesthetigender in caeporine, caelagender and epicaelinity.
• Contigender: a gender that flows through space and time and constantly changes, always moving; a gender of or related to space and time.
• Galaxiegender: A nonbinary gender that is vast and mysterious like the galaxy. Reserved for people who are both neurodivergent and spacekin/kin with anything related to space.
• Gendercosm: A gender identity encompassing and surpassing the limits of the earth/society, but doesn’t incorporate existing genders from society; a gender identity so grand and huge it cannot be explained by words. Not to be confused with cosmicgender.
• Stargender: An otherworldly gender that is beyond comprehension in earthly terms, as if it originated from beyond the earth; or a gender that is a star, otherworldly, not understandable in other earthly terms, or undefinable by other terms.

• Genderspace: an umbrella term for genders that are influenced or related to different parts of space, such as genderstar, gendergalaxy, genderconstallation, gendermoon, genderplanet, etc. the ending could be replaced with specific bodies for even more specific terms, like gendermars or gendercallisto.

• Astrogender: amplusgender(s) [fluid/flux/liquid] for when gender spectrum is seen from a galactic perspective; feeling like an astronaut navigating through potential genders that could be inhabited or not; identifying with anything involving space, stars, planets, etc.

• Astergender: a gender that feels bright and celestial.

• Celestialgender: A gender that is related to a planet, celestial body, or astronomical object in our solar system. See also: planetgender.

• Estrialgender: Not identifying with earth’s human gender binary due to being from another planet. Can also identify with a gender from another planet. See also: planaplogender and aliegender.

There are some other (xin)genders that I’m not sure to consider as related to space, such as luagender, lunagender, worldgender, earthgender, aliengender and sungender.

genderqueer-dream:

I’ve coined a new term: Cinemagender!

It’s a gender that is related to or influenced by any part of the cinema! It can be related/influenced aesthetically, or otherwise.

imoga-pride:

saturnic-vapour:

Aesthetiromantic(left) and Romaaesthetic/Roma-aesthetic/Romasthetic(right) flags!

Aesthetiromantic-romantic attraction which develops only after aesthetic.

Romaaesthetic/Roma-aesthetic/Romasthetic-aesthetic attraction which develop only after romantic.

Terms were coined by @imoga-pride , flags are mine.

I coined as romo- (romosthetic/romoaeshetic) but I like rom(a)- (romaesthetic/romsthetic/romasthetic) too.

See also: calliromantic and apress-.

xe-xyr-xem-the-pronoun-fox:

woopykitkat:

Thon/thons/thonself pride flag

Oof I never see anything for this pronoun set so here ya go

(If you harass me for using neopronouns I’m gonna fucking block you)

[ID: a five striped flag, in which the three middle stripes are larger than the first or fifth. all the stripes are horizontal. from top to bottom, the colors go like this: greyish brown, medium grey, greyish pink, greyish brown, medium grey. End ID]

genderplaylist:

Here you go, anon! Tell me if you want me to change anything/meant something different!

mogai-haven:

How’s this lookin’ for ya, anon? :3 (You can change the color of the question mark to fit your personal alignment (boy/girl/enby/etc).)

bugtypez:

[I made female and male aligned nonbinary Bi flags! I’d love an opinion. ]

i think theyre really nice!! but i think @pokereo. would be able to judge these better (hes male aligned nb!)

mogai-haven:

Peachigender: A gender that is sweet and juicy, like a ripe peach. This is most common as a fem gender, but it can also be neutral and masc as well.

mogai-haven:

Dulcéboi: A masculine gender that’s still heavily aligned with kindness and gentleness.

You might be a dulcéboi if:
-You identify as a boy.
-You have interests that one might consider “soft” or “gentle.”
-You’re very soft spoken or shy.

anisexualpride:

What IS Anisexuality Ani?

Anisexality is the attraction to ‘2d boys/girls/nb people. (Or 3d, you know what I mean.) Fictional drawn/animated characters. Usually pretining to Anime but can span way off to american cartoons, manga, or american comics. even maybe others ocs (Of course with artist consent if they can give you it.)

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Light blue: this symbolizes the sadness that we might not be able to actually date the fictional charters we love and have grown attraction to.

White: this shows that anyone can be anisexual, wlw mlm nblnb, disabled, or trans, whoever you are you can be anisexual.

Purple: this shows how people who are anisexual can be into male or female or NB anime/animation/animated fictional characters. 

Yellow: this color means the happiness we have when we feel when we detox or calm down by watching the animes these characters come from. 

Pink: this is the loving feeling you have when you see cosplayers or fan art of these characters.

This one isnt a joke or a troll (Like ive seen alot of these end up being) and its made by someone whos actual anisexual (with 

bakugo.) and finding a community is very important to me!!!!

@beyond-mogai-pride-flags @valid-ismyaesthetic @uncommongenders @imoga-pride @mogai-flag-central

See also animesexual, anesexual and animehearted.

mogai-haven:

Piuttoboy: A feminine gender for people who still identify as boys. This gender can be used by anyone of any assigned birth. A piuttoboy is someone who identifies as feminine but still connects with the boy label.

You might be a piuttoboy if:
-You identify as a boy/prefer masculine pronouns, but…
-still enjoy being seen as “pretty” or “beautiful.”
-occasionally like highly feminine things, such as makeup or colorful clothing.
-want people to see you as a boy, but don’t mind presenting very feminine.
-occasionally feel euphoric when someone uses feminine pronouns for you.

queermxture:

Soft Romo Pride Flag

This is my proposal for the use of Scrap 151 by Pride-Flags on Deviant Art:

This term is already coined, so I’m not coining anything, but I think this flag would go perfect with the term soft romo! Not every aro-spec person relates to #noromo or at least not completely, due to orientations that experience attraction to some degree, attraction that occurs at some times but not always, attraction that depends on certain circumstances, or fluid/flux attraction. This flag would be great for those who fit in that category. I also think it’d great for people who don’t feel QPR/QPP fits them due to the reasons above or for experiencing alterous attraction. I’d also like to point out that there are romance positive aros that may use this term to represent their tolerance for romance/romantic acts, so they can of course use this flag too if they see fit. Can be used as a general phrase (vs #noromo) or to describe a relationship. Any aro-spec people and partners of aro-spec people can use this term. People who experience alterous attraction (whether aro-spec or not) may also use this term if they find it to be applicable.

This is the breakdown of the flag colors:

Blue represents those who experience alterous attraction.

White represents the wide spectrum of experiences that aro-spec people and their partners have and their relationship to romance/romantic acts and/or lack of traditional romance/romantic acts.

Pink represents those who experience romantic attraction to some degree, attraction that occurs at some times but not always, attraction that depends on certain circumstances, or fluid/flux attraction, and those who are willing to participate in and/or are tolerable of romantic acts and/or relationships. The pink can also be thought of as acknowledging the presence of an aro-spec person’s partner(s), who may or may not be alloromantic, and the willingness/tolerance for romantic acts with said partner(s).

Green to represent the aro-spec.

Having this flag to be used for this purpose would be amazing for the aro-spec community because QPR/QPP’s have the language for their experience and flags for their pride but there’s no soft romo flag. I also feel like #noromo is already pretty well established in the community, so, it would be nice if this term gained some traction too, and I think the flag will help accomplish that.

variant-archive:

Viren- : feeling attraction specifically to nonbinary men and male-aligned nbs, and not binary men.

Femen- : feeling attraction specifically to nonbinary women and woman-aligned nbs, and not binary women.

Can be used as a typical prefix for specific orientations, eg. virensexual.

Can also be used as virenboric or femenboric, which would be a general term to denote attraction to nb men/women/aligned nbs, as a standalone orientation or a descriptive term.

variant-archive:

Some alignments

Fluidian: a gender alignment that is fluid.

Fluxian: a gender alignment that fluctuates in intensity.

Multian: an alignment to multiple genders, or having multiple alignments.

Aporian: an alignment to aporagender or aporinity; identities that are not male, female, or anything between, but still have a gendered or aligned feeling of another kind.

variant-archive:

Shinygender: A gender that is essentially the same as a particular gender, but it feels like your experience with that gender is “colored differently” from the majority of others who share your gender- you experience a gender very differently from others with that gender. For example, a shinyboy would feel at least somewhat a boy, but would be a boy or interpret their boyness in a unusual way. It isn’t a requirement to have a gender alignment that doesn’t match your gender, but it can definitely be the case of why a person would use this term.

Shiny- can be used as a gender prefix for any gender. For example, shinyneutral, shinyqueer, or shinynull.

(Yes, this is based on shiny pokémon.)

more-mogai-blog:

Here you are 🙂

– Mod Essence

mogai-haven:

Redvelvegender: A gender that is rich and sweet, similar to red velvet cake. The deepness of this gender varies from person to person and day to day, represented by the stripes being different sizes and getting gradually darker.

You might be redvelvegender if you:
-have a serious sweet tooth to the point where it becomes part of your gender expression.
-feel like your gender is sweet and rich.
-have a kind and loving heart, often to the point where other people have to stop you from doing nice things for them too much.

mogai-haven:

Sunduskgender: A solar gender that’s highly connected to sunset/dusk.

mogai-haven:

Asteragender: A fluid gender that’s connected with the stars, but only to a specific constellation (Flags featured are Big Dipper, Cassiopeia, and Orion). Being asteragender feels spacey and detached, causing one to drift through life without much of a care. People who are asteragender feel a close connection to the night sky and are often passionate about the stars. The stripes represent possible expressions (purple for femnonbinary, blue for masc, yellow for masc nonbinary, and pink for fem) and are muted to represent the darkness of night.

You might be asteragender if:
-You enjoy stargazing and learning about space.
-You’re an easygoing person who doesn’t care much for earthly concerns.
-You feel a deep connections with a specific constellation. Looking at it fills an emptiness that otherwise lingers in your heart. 

mogai-haven:

Respexigender: A neutral gender that’s filled with nostalgia and longing for the past.

lesbean-on-ice:

portugayse:

Papergender

A gender that feels thin and fragile/rippable and smooth like a blank piece of paper. I don’t have an idea for a flag but I imagine white and grey in there somewhere!

Paperboy – A male gender that feels thin, fragile/rippable, and smooth like blank piece of paper.

Papergirl – A female gender that feels thin, fragile/rippable, and smooth like a blank piece of paper.

Paperenby – A nonbinary gender that feels thin, fragile/rippable, and smooth like a piece of paper.

(If there are terms to close to this one please tell me so I can take this down!)

What about these for flags?

Paperboy:

Papergirl:

Paperenby:

mogai-haven:

Beachgender: A gender that’s like the beach. On some days, it’s calm and soothing. On others it can be stormy and turbulent. A beachgender person is lively and bright.
Optional pronouns: san/sand/sandself or sho/shore/shoreself.

Seagender: A gender very similar to beachgender, except a bit saltier and more prone to internal storms. A seagender person is more outwardly calm than a beachgender person, but internally they tend to be more turbulent.
Optional pronouns:
wai/wave/waveself or tie/tide/tideself.

Both beachgender and seagender people shift with the tides of their gender, and the
phases of the moon often influence their activity and energy levels.

Seagender and beachgender were already.

mogai-haven:

Parivitagender: A somewhat feminine leaning gender. Parivitagender feels equal and balanced. Someone with this gender is most comfortable living a calm, organized life. Their gender pushes them to naturally want life to be relaxed and soothing, and they tend to avoid arguments and debates because of this. Parivitagender people also tend to have calmer interests and hobbies, like reading books and enjoying their favorite shows rather than playing sports.
(Pronounced PAREE-VEETA)

You might be Parivitagender if you:
-identify as feminine.
-consider yourself a calm, relaxed person.
-enjoy reading, drawing, and similar activities more than active exercise.
-get upset when your plans are messed with or during arguments and debates.
-like to keep your life and living spaces clean and organized.

mogai-haven:

Metamorphigender: A gender that cycles through phases naturally. Different from genderfluidity in that someone who’s meamorphigender won’t phase back to an old gender once they’ve shifted out of it. Much like the lifecycle of a butterfly, shifting from egg to larva to cacoon to butterfly, metamorphigender cycles throughout a person’s life.

You might be metamorphigender if you:
-struggle to put a name to your gender because it’s always changing into something new.
-often cycle from masc to neutral to fem genders, but never one that’s exactly the same as one you’ve already been.
-feel your gender has a strong connection with butterflies, frogs, and other creatures that go through metamorphosis.