uber-gender:

A traumatized person who hoards identities (gender, orientation, religion, subculture, etc.) that are shocking and edgy as a defense mechanism to make others uncomfortable. That’s not a typo, it’s “horder” like a horde of monsters.

Flag color meanings:

-red for anger, hatred, and violence themes/identities

-pink for sexually provocative and perverse themes/identities

-yellow for gore, death, and decay themes/identities 

-orange for monstrous and unhuman themes/identities

-the grey stripe is for moral greyness

-the flag is designed to look like four exclamation points, to represent the shock of others