There’s something weirdly dystopian about cis people shouting “Trans women are women!” en masse in an attempt to shut down concerns brought up by a trans woman
To be clear, this is what “Reblog to make a terf angry” gets you. A bunch of “allies” who pat each other on the back and say “No terfs here!” and then do nothing to examine their own prejudices. You get a bunch of cis people who assume as long as no one has an I’m A TERF bumper sticker, they’ve found a transmisogyny free utopia. And once all the mean, scary terfs are gone, they can just use all their trite, boring talking points to tell trans women to shut the fuck up.
Like, y’all really think we’re being dramatic when we say the world is dangerous for us. Not just because of terfs, but because of all of you. None of you really have our safety in mind, you just want to “imply” that we’re safe and “imply” that we’re welcome and “imply” that we won’t get assaulted for stepping foot into your inappropriately genital themed clubhouse.
No matter how much you scream “terfs not welcome” and “trans women are women,” it’s all but useless if you’re not willing to have a goddamn conversation with us where you bring your whole vocabulary, and not just what’s written on your Ally Flashcards.
Sorry that they’re kinda glitchy, ibis paint’s acting up again. I did two versions, one with the original starry background and one without. Hope one of these works out!
I can remember some, but I know @gender-resource and @variant-archive archived or collected them all. So they are able to correct me if I missed one or more.
FMN-in: feminine, masculine or neutral
Lin: maLe & femaLe; androgyne or androgynous; masc & fem (uLine and miniLe)
Amin: ambiguine, ambigue or ambiguous; ambitrois or ambivalent; ample/amplus
Aroamical (interchangeable with aroplatonic and arosocial): the desire of aromantic friends, aro social contacts or aro-spec platonic partners; the platonic/amical/social (interpersonal) attraction to aromantics; aromantix attracted platonically/interpersonally (socially/amically) to each other; desiring non-romantic relationships that aren’t essentially sexual.
[ID: golden-ish yellow, green, light green and dark maroon-ish yellow. End ID]
Its where you vibe with space and identify as a certian gender so u just. Squish em together.
Im a Cosmicgirl now!!! Anyone can use these if u feel like it suits you!!!
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sucrgender – a gender relating to sugar. this gender is spunky and unpredictable, yet kind and, well, sweet!
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exogender – a fluid gender that is determined by visual appearance. for example, if someone who is exogender presents masculinely, then their gender is exoboy. if the same person chooses to present androgynously, then their gender becomes exononbinary or exoandrogynous.
It’s so frustrating when people who block me and then reblog my stuff on main 🙄🙄😐😬
This gender falls under the category or genderflor, when one is gender fluid but never feels identity within the binary (female and male). Xenoflor, however, only passes through different xenogenders from day to day. An easy way to think about it is gender fluid only with xenogenders. One day an xenoflor person might identify as stargender one day then cat gender another. They might feel multiple xenogenders at a time, sometimes switching out how strongly they feel towards a certain gender.
The top yellow stripe and the bottom orange stripe represents the xenogender community and all the range of genders in the community
The middle stripes represents the stripes on the bottom of the genderflor flag, representing their place under genderflor
Strangers: “how do you know someone is nonbinary?”
How are you so gender essentialist you can’t gender someone else properly?
Someone who does not develop romantic relationships but rather ones centered around dislike for another instead like for another. Rivalromantic individuals fall on the aromatic spectrum in the case they do not feel romantic attraction, in fact, instead of developing crushes they would develop something called quishes. Quishes are similar to squishes, a platonic crush, but it the opposite direction. These people have a deep love to hate and that is what they build there bonds off off.
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pratigender – a gender relating to meadows. this gender is fae-like and delicate.
Voidwoman/Gendervoid Woman (purple) and Voidman/Gendervoid Man (green)
Gendervoid: A gender identity defined by absence; a blank space or void where a gender might otherwise be. Can be used synonymously with agender/genderless depending on the person.
Voidwoman definition: A gender that is both woman and void at the same time, a voidwoman experiences womanhood disconnected from binary womanhood due to or as well as the presence of a void alongside it. Can be used synonymously with agender woman or genderless woman depending on the person.
Voidman definition: A gender that is both man and void at the same time, a voidman experiences manhood disconnected from binary manhood due to or as well as the presence of a void alongside it. Can be used synonymously with agender man or genderless man depending on the person.
cusper is an lgbt identity defined by feeling like one is on the “cusp” between being transgender and a gender non-conforming “cis” person (ie: feeling like one’s experiences and feeling towards their gender falls between being a trans man and a butch lesbian),
one might not feel like either label solely defines them and their experiences, like both identities are important to them and inseparable to eachother, like their identity encompasses elements of the traditional definition of both labels, or like their identity exists at the intersection of both experiences.
they may transition partly, and be known as either gender in different contexts of their life (ie: gladly passing as a man at the workplace, but also being comfortable with being called their significant partner’s girlfriend).
some examples of people who might feel the term cusper fits them are:
a transfeminine gender non-conforming gay man; they may take estrogen , have top surgery and refer to themselves as a woman sometimes, but prefer not to have any other procedures or “pass” fully as a woman
a transmasculine butch lesbian: they may use he/him pronouns, have bottom surgery, and change their legal gender; but still be ok with being referred to and proudly identify as a butch lesbian and as a woman in certain contexts
edit: another definition was written by @beyond-mogai-pride-flags, that i feel describes the term a bit better. i’m keeping the original one up cause it still has some useful info, but here is their definition:
Cusper: someone who “cusp” between binary genders’ states; or staying between a transgender person’s identity and a “cis” gender non-conforming expression; i.e. being a trans duaric/ultramoric (or transhet) woman represented by the vincian label “bear”, “otter” or “twink”; a trans duaric/ultric man that feels joyful or genderly euphoric for being referred as “butch”
“there is no such thing as ,jewish features, because Judaism is a multicultural and multiethnic religious group and has been so for over two millennia. there are no ,jewish features, because there can be Jews from any ethnicity” and “there are features (like thick curly hair or a big nose) that have been associated with judaism and are not ~typical european~ features, that are common within European jews. these features has been mocked, villainized, deemed unattractive and were linked to witchcraft and being demonic or evil, and are still used to dehumanize Jews and differentiate us” are two coexisting truths.
the body positivity movement is just as much of a failure as the sex positivity movement. LMFAO
people centering their “body positivity” around fuckability and attractiveness rather than the idea that every body is normal is exactly what causes the “movement” to fail. and now corporations are latching onto it too. it was doomed to flop from the beginning and the term “body positivity” itself has become meaningless to me because it doesn’t mean what i think it does or wish it did a good 90% of the time. especially not coming from corporations.
real body positivity does not center attractiveness or beauty. it does not center sexual attractiveness. it is the idea that every body is normal, regardless of what it looks like. every body is deserving of care. limiting your body positivity to people who look good to you is effectively meaningless and it pisses me off having to see it day in and day out all over social media bro like just let the shit die at this point
I agree with this so much. The “body positivity” movement has evolved into “everyone is beautiful and you are a horrible person if you say they are not”. Not everyone is physically beautiful that would make the term moot. The point is IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE; physical beauty is not something that defines your value and when you keep going around telling everyone “no you’re beautiful!” it just puts more focus on their physical appearance as if that’s their most important prospect (the “compliment” is completely pointless at best and harmful at worst if they don’t feel the same way about their looks). Body positivity should be about taking focus AWAY from society’s obsession with attractiveness and instead highligting the fact that your appeareance does not define your value.
Insensiligender: An experience where comprehension of one’s gender identity is perceived by oneself to be inaccessible, making the gender functionally undetectable and unable to be evaluated, resulting in feelings of genderlessness; an Agender identity rooted in gender imperceptibility and subsequent unquantifiability.
Etymology
From Latin, “Insensilis”modified to “insensili” meaning “Imperceptible” + “-gender”, an English neologistic suffix indicating genderedness. Coined by Gent (Gender-Resource), 2020.
Flag
This flag is inspired by the Uingender flag and the most common Agender flag, representing the fact that Insensiligender is both AGIN and UIN. The flag consists of six, horizontal, solid colored stripes of the same size. From top to bottom, they are dusty rose, light sage green, olive green, grey, slate blue, dark blue-grey and black. Flag by Gent (Gender-Resource), 2020. Each stripe has the following meanings:
The dust rose stripe represents inaccessibility.
Light sage green represents imperceptibility.
The olive green stripe represents having an unexaminable gender.
The grey stripe represents paradoxical gender(lessness).
The dark blue-grey stripe represents unquantifiability.
The black stripe represents genderless feelings and experiences.
i redesigned the demiromantic flag too!!! im not as close to this label bc im aroflux and dont always experience being demiro so if youre demiro and have suggestions pls give me some!!
Princessgender- a soft but grandiose gender; The individual with this gender feels that their identity feels majestic, imposing and grand, but also prim, cute and ethereal. Often involves a gender expression that is soft and feminine, but commanding and confident. May openly pursue reverence of their identity from others and/or be very vocal about their identity to others, with pride. Softer, cuter and less acute than Regisgender.
Quingender- a gender that feels majestic and royal; a very commanding and confident gender. This gender is aesthetically linked to nobility/royalty
Rigisgender/Queengender- A lofty, grandiose gender; The individual with this gender feels that their identity feels majestic, imposing and grand. Often involves a gender expression that is bold, commanding and confident. May openly pursue reverence of their identity from others and/or be very vocal about their identity to others, with pride. Feels more intense and bold than pringender.
Tyriangender- a gender that has ties to the fuchsia caste’s societal roles; a gender that feels connected to royalty/power, some degree of femininity, and the ocean. it can feel male, female, neutral, etc depending on the person (tyrianboy, tyriangirl, etc)…this is xenogender/kingender (it can be used as either, depending on the person).
I came up with two ideas, since the original flag kinda looks like it was two flags put together, just with one rotated. The top version is the horizontal flag and the bottom is the verticle one.
Colorqueer: Whether it be your gender or orientation, the common terms just don’t describe it well enough. Colourqueer is the act of associating your gender/orientation with colours; loud, soft, dark, light, vibrant, desaturated, etc. The whole rainbow and beyond is your playground and your colours might change depending on how you feel.
So, in the description for the gender I coined, I said “ A gender that feels like the void itself,“, but I don’t think I ever properly explained what that could mean for people, so I thought I’d give some examples.
Things neagender can mean:
You have a xenogender that’s tied to both the void and some kind of other gender, whether it be alignment, or vague connection, or anything else
You’re very similar to agender or gendervoid, but your experience is different or more specific
You’re very similar to agender or gendervoid, but you just want to use this label instead, or use this label alongside the other two
Anything else you’re able to think of
When I say “void” in neagender, it describes more than just nothingness. It can also describe a void feeling, or it can describe some sort of aesthetic or thing (like many other xenogenders), or, for you personally, it can in fact just mean a lack of gender, or a distortion of gender.
Void can mean:
An actual void, like one in space
Space itself, or the deep ocean
Liminal spaces, like the backrooms
Genderless
Feeling somewhat like another gender, but distorted
Anything else you want it to mean
This by no means is going to describe what neagender is like for everyone, I just wanted to provide some examples! Because I know “void” is a pretty nebulous word, so i wanted to share why I made this instead of just using agender.
Maiorisgender: (Latin for majority) Where your gender changes depending on the majority of your friend’s genders. Ex: If the majority of your friends are male, you’re male
Asteragender: a fluid gender that’s connected with the stars, but only to a specific constellation…Being asteragender feels spacey and detached, causing one to drift through life without much of a care. People who are asteragender feel a close connection to the night sky and are often passionate about the stars…
You might be asteragender if: -You enjoy stargazing and learning about space. -You’re an easygoing person who doesn’t care much for earthly concerns. -You feel a deep connections with a specific constellation. Looking at it fills an emptiness that otherwise lingers in your heart.
Astralgender: a gender that feels connected to space.
Astronogender: a standalone term and a way to group/describe all MOGAI genders related to space, planets, stars, etc. (not really including aliens).
Celestialgender: a gender that is related to a planet, celestial body, or astronomical object in our solar system. Umbrella term for linnutgender, sonnegender, lunirgender, mercugender, venugender, terragender, marigender, juperigender, saturnigender, uranugender, neptunigender, and plutigender.
Exoplafluid: fluid between celestial/space genders.
Genderlune: a gender related to the moon itself, not dependent on phases or time of day. The relationship can be aesthetic, spiritual, or of any nature that one experiences.
Genderspace: an umbrella term for genders that are influenced or related to different parts of space, such as genderstar, gendergalaxy, genderconstallation, gendermoon, genderplanet, etc. the ending could be replaced with specific bodies for even more specific terms, like gendermars or gendercallisto.
Lunirgender: any of the following:
A gender related to the moon.
A gender influenced by the moon / by the placement of the moon in the sky.
May be stronger during the night.
A gender influenced by a kintype to the moon.
A gender related to the Greek Goddess Artemis, the Roman Goddess Diana, or the Greek Goddess Selene, or the Roman God Luna, or any other moon deity.
A gender influenced by one’s devotion to any of the aforementioned goddesses.
A gender that can be otherwise explained or identified using the Moon.
Pancaeleste: identifying as every space-related gender (within one’s experience).
Pleustar: A gender related to both stars and rainbows! It feels bright and lighthearted!
I thought I should go with more general terms related to what you mentioned, but if you want me to add more that are related to more specific things (planets, blackholes, etc.) let me know!
~Mod Mountain
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actingender – a gender relating to the sun’s beams. this gender is ethereal and bright in a way that most people cannot comprehend.
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cochlgender – a gender relating to snails. this gender is slow and placid.
Atergender: a gender that is deep, dark, and intimate
Beltzaain: a xenogender related to the color black. Can be related to the night, the moon, space, technology, darkness, etc. from the basque word for black, beltza
Darkanian: a slightly AGIN/AIN gender related to dark, night, winter, lanterns, and/or cold wind or winds
Darkgender: a type of colorgender; a gender that can be described with the absence of color or can be described with dark colors/shades, or a gender that feels as though it is absent of color or is of dark colors/shades, or a gender that relates to the absense of color or relates to dark colors/shades.
Fanaine: a gender related to snowy nights, cool mornings, minimal sunlight, blue light, auroras, ice oceans, and heavy falling snow.
Gendernocturne: a gender that is individual to the user and is typically similar to “genderminor” and is closely related to nighttime.
Gendernoir: a gender associated with the noir style/aesthetic.
Grungegender: a gender strongly associated with dark and dark things or, alternatively, grunge fashion and lifestyle
Lachrymosian: a genderless gender related to darkness, night, quietness, and the feeling of coldness. it barely exists and can constantly appear and reappear.
Noxian: a xenic alignment to darkness or night.
Nyctogender: where your gender is pure darkness or a gender consisting of darkness or related to it
Shadend: When one’s gender is a shadow or darkness in some way; up for interpretation. (Used like “I’m a shadend” [like ‘I’m a man/woman’] or “I’m shadend” [like ‘I’m nonbinary/agender’ or in any way you want tbh)
Spookygender: a gender that can feel dark, scary, and spooky. Is also is felt most in October.
I’m a radical inclusionist. I don’t think I have any right to tell anyone else what queerness is or how they’re allowed to experiment with their own identity. “Infiltrators” are a completely negligible problem, respectability politics is bullshit, and any downside of just trusting people with their own experiences is enormously outweighed by the problems caused by gatekeeping
here’s a few sexuality + cusper combo flags i made, kind of prototypes but w/e. feel free to use this (just only use it for yourself if you fit the identity ofc), no necessary need for credit but i’d appreciate it.
Noctirian – an AGIN gender that feels powerful and otherworldly. its cold and almost glows in the dark. opposite to Lumirian. made with divinity kin in mind, but can be used by anyone.
DRACHEGENUS: A gender defined by a deep, lifelong connection with dragons. The connection can be emotional, spiritual, etc., as long as it runs deep. Can be combined with other xenogenders or lean masculine (drachenboy/drachenmasc) or feminine (drachengirl/drachenfemme./drachenfeminine)
A gender that is light, airy, and steamy. May be hard to pinpoint, feeling nebulous like a cloud. Colors are taken from clouds, steam, and water! White and grey were requested as some of them. Similar to cloudgender, which has already been coined!a gender thats light, fluffy, and foggy.
i’m italian and poc. it was a vagueposting tbh, i couldn’t tell it’s a joke or not. the person i reblogged unironically posts anything. but i saw many unironic takes on fb like this. i enjoy the feeling of that, it sparks joy
I first coined fiaspec so I could have a simple way to refer to “everyone whose gender is woman, partially woman, woman-aligned/adjacent/approximate, fluid/fluctuating with womanhood, etc.,” and miaspec and liaspec came along naturally. When I posted the definitions, someone suggested xiaspec, niaspec, aiaspec, and agiaspec, so I gave them similar definitions despite not really knowing how they would be applied. Really I think there’s kind of a distinction without a difference between agiagender and agingender. Use them interchangeably if you want to.
For example, a woman is not agiaspec, so an agender woman is not agiaspec essentially but they may be agingender.
I hope you all don’t mind but I created a Sexuality flag for myself!
Expvoidality! A sexuality that’s simmaler to pan or omni but somehow expands beyond reason. Then it just kinda gets blurry and all the colors of your flags mix in to make a bright white!
You feel all soft and fluffy when you feel attraction to people and don’t want to hurt them, even if you’re normally aggressive.
You can mix this flags with other flags like the gay flag if you have a preference toward a specific gender. But as long as your love for all genders expands, then you can use it!
Feel free to use for yourself! 😀
I dunno what tags I should use but I think the mogai community might like it! Feel free to put more appropriate tags when you reblog. QwQ
This is NOT a sexuality linked to pedophilia, zoophilia, or necrophilia so don’t use it that way!
Gaudiumgender: (Latin for joy) Where how you feel about your gender currently is based on how happy you are. Ex: The more happier you are, the more female you feel
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dysgender – unable to experience or understand gender.
( flag by @wulfvillain ) not a meme i swear, but a gender term that my headmate uses that i wanted to share really quick jic anyone wants a description of it or relates!
definition: when you feel like you once had a gender, but it has since been removed or deleted. if fitting, you could also pair this with another term to signify which gender has been deleted, such as [REDACTED]boy, or [REDACTED]girl. so, for example, a [REDACTED]boy was once a boy, but rather than being solely agender or similar., they still believe that past connection to manhood is an important part of their gender, even though it is now missing. but, also, you could be just solely [REDACTED] when it doesn’t matter what your past gender was!
i feel like this could be useful for neurodivergent individuals (although not exclusive), maybe if it feels like you were almost a gender but not quite, and now you’ve let go of it, or similar situations. the way my headmate describes it is that, the fact that it’s missing is important enough to him to note – it doesn’t feel exactly like it is ‘null’ or that he doesn’t have one, because he can still almost feel the ‘residue’ of the missing gender.
mudkipic: a gender related to the pokemon mudkip marshtompic: a gender related to the pokemon marshtomp swampertic: a gender related to the pokemon swampert
torcheic: a gender related to the pokemon torchic combuskenic: a gender related to the pokemon combusken blazikenic: a gender related to the pokemon blaziken
treeckoic: a gender related to the pokemon treecko grovylic: a gender related to the pokemon grovyle sceptilic: a gender related to the pokemon sceptile
Reactionemgender: (Latin for reaction) Where you “react” to another person’s gender by changing your own. Ex: If you identify as female, and you come across a non-binary person, you “react” and become male. Results of reaction can vary.
[a tricolor flag with three horizontal stripes: raspberry, white, and orange. atop the stripes is a light green circle with the symbol of asteroid 2 pallas in the middle (like the venus symbol, but instead of a circle it’s a diamond).]
flag for some sort of thing i identify with. along the lines of “woman but not girl” and “i wish my gender was hazardous to unaccepting cis people”. could be described as a distant cousin to qupha, but i don’t have a name for it.
if you want to identify with this flag, go ahead! i would ask that if you do wish to use it for yourself you have some relation to the terms “trans woman” or “transfem”, whether that womanhood or femininity is in a binary way or not. otherwise, go wild- edit it (i feel the green is too light, and if i wanted to edit it i would change that), mess with its design, lift elements for your own usage…. i would also ask that any material created using this be free for reuploading by others, but of course this is not legally binding
flag meaning: raspberry, orange, and green for the varying types of womanhood; white for how womanhood can vary in “quantity”, pallas symbol to represent that feeling of “i want my identity to be hazardous to transphobes”.
blazon, just for fun and because it’s been an occasional special interest:
tierced per fess murrey argent and tenné, a pomme charged with the symbol of pallas
Lpsgender: a gender based around the littlest pet shop toys created by the brand hasbro. it is animalistic, yet synthetic and plastic. this gender is associated with kidcore, nostalgiacore, toycore, and nightcore.
A combo flag for aromantic/callistic/romance-repulsed for anon. Something about this flag is good, but I don’t know what. Maybe I just like good colors and symbols.
Consider throwing me a few dollars on Ko-Fi so I can keep making awesome content like this!
Gender or Sex Dysmorphia: characterized by one’s confliction between gender (immaterial sex/incorporeality or brain/mind) and sex (material gender/body or corporeality) in which a person thinks about one or more perceived defects or flaws in their external/internal appearance, while not essentially dysphoric.
Nebulaaroace: you have a hard time defining what is romantic/sexual attraction due to neurodivergancy, and there may or may not be a slim chance you experience it once in a while.
Nebulaaroaces are able to be in healthy relationships due to the slim chance, and this can be used as an umbrella term for any neurodivergent acespec or arospec person.
Non-trinary (or non-quaternary): abinary with gender alignment.
Umbrella term, means it’s not male, female, or neutrois (neither a mix of them). Xeniques and maveriques are non-quaternary (or non-ternary) examples. Agender could be seen as a ternary genderness too.
Note: they experience a specific type of exorism/nbphobia, called trinarism and quadrinarism [or qua/ternarism], different from binarism, people can assume there are just 3-4 kinds of gender.
Nonamory as a label appeals to me for how it situates non-partnering status within the same schema as polyamory and monogamy. Here’s my proposal for a nonamorous pride flag. I’ve seen other proposals with the null symbol, but I thought they could use more color and a visual callback to the polyam flag.
Green stands for solitude and the connection it brings to nature.
Purple stands for community and the nobility of sharing it among those who stand in solidarity and prioritize us.
Gray stands for identity and the grace of accepting all its ambiguities; whether nonamory is an identity versus lifestyle, an absolute, or corresponding to any particular sexual/romantic orientation is up to every individual subject.
Obviously I lifted the aro/ace colors to acknowledge the overlap of experience, but I don’t want to imply nonamory is always aspec. Hopefully changing the meanings and shades (I honestly searched “emerald green” and “amethyst purple”) will help that. (Also hope it isn’t too close to the genderqueer flag lol)
The null symbol stands for self-definition and its boundlessness; against totalizing norms, nonamory embraces Non-Applicability. The black circle stands for the complete self and the white line for love in all its forms – passing through the circle but never overwriting it, as love intersects with but never negates the nonamorous experience. (Also an allusion to ace rings and aro arrows!)
Obligatory disclaimer that graphic design is my passion; if anyone actually experienced would like to give feedback, adjust the colors, or propose a whole new design, by all means please do. Maybe this could be repurposed as an aroace/voidpunk/etc. flag, but I think I’m onto something with the symbolism at least. Thoughts?
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sexual attraction to agender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned agender people, attraction to aligned agender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sexuality, sexual attraction.
Néantagno (knee-ow-aag-no)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive romantic attraction to agender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned agender people, attraction to aligned agender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, romanticism, romantic attraction.
Néantunemo ( knee-ow-oo-n-moe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive queer/quasiplatonic attraction agender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned agender people, attraction to aligned agender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, queer/quasiplatonicality, queer/quasiplatonic attraction.
Néantpyo ( knee-ow-pie-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive platonic attraction to agender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned agender people, attraction to aligned agender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, platonicality, platonic attraction.
Néantflico (knee-ow-flea-co)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive alterous attraction to agender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned agender neutral people, attraction to aligned agender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, alterous, alterous attraction.
Néantsoqo (knee-ow-so-que-oh)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sensual attraction to agender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned agender people, attraction to aligned agender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sensuality, sensual attraction.
Néantmicbo ( knee-ow-mic-boe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive aesthetic attraction to agender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned agender people, attraction to aligned agender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aestheticism, aesthetic attraction.
Nebulatrans: definitely knowing you are not cisgender, but due to neurodivergency, finding a label ID quite difficult and you may or may not collect or coin multiple terms to describe how you feel
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sexual attraction to gender apathetic/gender neutral people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned/partially/entirely gender neutral people, attraction to fluid/flux/fluxidly aligned gender neutral people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sexuality, sexual attraction.
Neutreagno (newt-aag-no)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive romantic attraction to gender apathetic/gender neutral people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned/partially/entirely aligned gender neutral people, attraction to fluid/flux/fluid gender neutral people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, romanticism, romantic attraction.
Neutreunemo ( newt-oo-n-moe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive queer/quasiplatonic attraction gender apathetic/gender neutral people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned/partially/entirely aligned gender neutral people, attraction to fluid/flux/fluxidly aligned gender neutral people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, queer/quasiplatonicality, queer/quasiplatonic attraction.
Neutrepyo ( newt-pie-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive platonic attraction to gender apathetic people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned/partially/entirely aligned gender neutral people, attraction to fluid/flux/fluxidly aligned gender neutral people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, platonicality, platonic attraction.
Neutreflico (newt-flea-co)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive alterous attraction to gender apathetic/gender neutral people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned/partially/entirely aligned gender neutral people, attraction to fluid/flux/fluxidly aligned gender neutral people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, alterous, alterous attraction.
Neutresoqo (newt-so-que-oh)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sensual attraction to gender apathetic/gender neutral people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned/partially/entirely aligned gender neutral people, attraction to fluid/flux/fluxidly aligned gender neutral people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sensuality, sensual attraction.
Neutremicbo ( newt-mic-boe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive aesthetic attraction to gender apathetic/gender neutral people
Stripe meanings: attraction to unaligned/partially/entirely aligned gender neutral people, attraction to fluid/flux/fluxidly aligned gender neutral people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aestheticism, aesthetic attraction.
A term for an intersex person who would identify as/with their the gender they were assigned at birth (but not necessarily as cis or binary), but struggle to do so because of how perisexism has made them feel alienated from that gender and from perisex people who identify similarly. Advenagender can be thought of as a reclamation of one’s gender — as a way of saying, “I’m going to identify this way on my own terms, regardless of what perisexists have to say.” The -gender suffix can be replaced by whatever one sees fit (e.g. advena- woman, girl, era, feminine, etc. / man, boy, vir, masculine, etc.)
This term isn’t intended to replace “AFAB transfem / AMAB transmasc”; I coined it because I personally don’t identify at all with AFAB/perisex transmasculinity despite being advenavir, but other intersex people are fully entitled to the terms they feel suit them best.
This term can be used by anyone who considers themself intersex, regardless of the nature of their intersexuality or whether they’ve been professionally diagnosed.
An idea for a pronoun flag, which I’m calling a multivariantflag. This flag is for people who tend to use multiple variations of the same pronoun.
So one example of multivariant pronouns would be e/em/eirs, ey/em/eirs, ey/eir/eirs, etc. (Kind of like how I use any variation of ey/em myself.) Some people might use xe/xem, xae/xaem, and ze/zem pronouns. This flag is for you!
I may choose different colors. Maybe a wider range of hues but still variations of the same colors.
(image description; two flags. the flag on the left has five stripes, with an X taking up the middle three stripes. the middle stripe and the x are lime green, the top stripe is dark gray, the bottom stripe is black, and the second middle two stripes are white. the right flag is five stripes with the middle stripe being the thinnest. the top stripe is gray, then white, then the thin lime green stripe, then white, then black.)
My proposed apothigender flag!
Apothigender: being repulsed by the concept of having a gender.
Apothi- is borrowed from apothisexual/romantic. The flags are also similar to the apothisexual flag, with the top and bottom of the x cut off and the colors changed (left flag) and the colors changed + stripe pattern changed (right flag)
This gender was not coined by me + the flag is not entirely original! this is just what i propose for it. I believe i first saw suggestions for this by the @uncommongenders crew and some anons, so credit goes to them for the idea!
as always, please let me know of any problems (too similar to another term/flag, term already exists, etc) ill be happy to fix it.
Apothimte: (Apothim-tay) [ill be real idk how to say apothi, i say it uh-poth-ee?] being repulsed by the concept of having a gender. -gender removed for people who don’t even want gender in the name.
Often times, non ace aros are pushed to the side… but not here.
Welcome to
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A discord server for alloaros, Non sam aros, aro neus, and anyone not ace.
❥ System friendly (both pluralkit and systemtime)
❥ Microlabel and mogai friendly
❥ Small community
❥ Friendly staff
❥ Easy to read rules
❥ Aro centric!
Under is tagging aro blogs! If you dont do promos just ignore this ❤
White Cindy: Twentieth Century Klamath Tw!inna’ek medicine woman, who was respected for her power after having demonstrated her ability to conjure lightning We’Wha: Famous Zuni Ihamana, who was a prominent cultural ambassador for Native Americans in general, and the Zuni in particular. Their cultural work and interactions with anthropologists allowed for multiple publications of Zuni culture. Osh-Tisch: A Crow Badé, who earned her name “Finds-them-and-kills-them” after rescuing a man named Bull-Snake and shooting a Lakota warrior during her participation in the 1876 Battle of Rosebud, alongside her friend and fellow female warrior The-Other-Magpie. Thunder-Woman: a powerful Cree doctor and medicine Ayakwew, who was the sibling of Chief Fine-Day. They are the namesake of Chief Thunderchild, who received his name after being saved from death and doctored back to health by Thunder-Woman. Ozawwendib: Ojibwe niizh-manidoowag who encountered multiple fur traders, such as Alexander Henry and John Tanner. She was noted as being an excellent guide in her assistance to trappers and fur traders. Hosteen Klah: a Navajo artist, medicine man, master weaver and Nádleeh. He co-founded the Wheelwright Museum of the American Indian in Santa-Fe, New Mexico alongside Mary Calbot Wheelwright, and his anti-assimilation efforts led to documentation of Navajo religion to be made available to future generations. Bíawacheeitchish: A Gros-Ventres two-spirit who was orphaned and taken in by the Crow after being raided, and took up traditionally male activities, and was encouraged in her pursuit by her foster father. She gained renown during a raid, fighting off multiple attackers and turning the tide of fortune, earning her name “Woman-Chief”. She married four wives and gained leadership after her foster father’s death. Kauholanuimahu: a King of Hawaii and Māhū, born circa early 15th century to nobles Laʻakapu and Kahoukapu. He succeeded his father as High-Chief, and Kauholanuimahu was then succeeded by his own son Kihanuilulumoku at his death.
Happy Pride, and Happy National Indigenous Peoples History Month <33 Homophobes/biphobes/transphobes/etc are not welcome on my posts and need not reblog.
the first 1 is just a funky pattern + some positivity, but the 2nd one is a possible omnique symbol?
its the trans symbol, interlocked w a female symbol, a male symbol, and a nonbinary symbol, to, yknow, represent how omnique is sort of a blend of trans+gay as a fluid identity??? idk but i came up w it during geometry and i liked it
First off, im not telling anyone who is abro that they cant follow my blog or interact with it. If you you want to interact with me, thats fine. Im also not gonna try and bash it or convince others to not identify with it.
As far as i know, abro- carries the sediment of “ sexuality is fluid”. Personally as someone whose had traumatic experiences because of that sediment and many lgbt+ people responding to me saying im a lesbian that “ sexuality is fluid” as some sort of passive aggressive lesbophobia, i do not feel comfortable doing anything for any identities that carry that sediment.
I also dont agree that sexuality is fluid on a base level. As a genderfluid person, i can agree that the name of my orientation must change depending on where it flows but the object of my attraction dose not change. Abro-implies it dose and even though i 100% support the notion that sexuality is confusing, strong preferences exist and can change for any reason at any time, i feel as though alot of that confusion boils down to internalized lesbo/homo/bi/skolio/etc-phobia, lack of self-confedience and trauma and not necessarily some form of schedule. Btw im not implying all abro- people are abro because they have internalized bigotry, low self esteem or trauma, im merely saying it because thats the only reason i can think of why someone feels as though the object of their attraction is fluid.
Im not saying im right or your right or abro is vaild or invaild. I just personally feel uncomfortable doing things for abro- due to personal experiences and a conflict of opinion.
I hope that answered your question, also i dont mean to come off rude or anything and im not mad. We’re cool as far as im concerned.
If you have some form of info concerning abro or a dif point of veiw, im always open to learning and accepting identities within reason.
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sexual attraction to pangender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to pangender people who are all alignments, attraction pangender people with one/two alignments, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sexuality, sexual attraction.
Infiniagno (in-fin-ni-aag-no)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive romantic attraction to pangender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to pangender people who are all alignments, attraction to pangender people with one/two alignments, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, romanticism, romantic attraction.
Infiniunemo ( in-fin-ni-oo-n-moe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive queer/quasiplatonic attraction pangender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to pangender people who are all alignments, attraction to pangender people with one/two alignments, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, queer/quasiplatonicality, queer/quasiplatonic attraction.
Infinipyo ( in-fin-ni-pie-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive platonic attraction to pangender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to pangender people who are all alignments, attraction to pangender people with one/two alignments, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, platonicality, platonic attraction.
Infiniflico (in-fin-ni-flea-co)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive alterous attraction to pangender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to pangender people who are all alignments, attraction to pangender people with one/two alignments, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, alterous, alterous attraction.
Infinisoqo (in-fin-ni-so-que-oh)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sensual attraction to pangender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to pangender people with all alignments, attraction to pangender people with one/two alignments, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sensuality, sensual attraction.
Infinimicbo ( in-fin-ni-mic-boe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive aesthetic attraction to pangender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to pangender people with all alignments, attraction to pangender people with one/two alignments, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aestheticism, aesthetic attraction.
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sexual attraction to androygne people
Stripe meanings: attraction to aligned androygne people, attraction to unaligned androygne people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sexuality, sexual attraction.
Autreagno (all-tr-aag-no)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive romantic attraction to androygne people
Stripe meanings: attraction to aligned androygne people, attraction to unaligned androygne people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, romanticism, romantic attraction.
Autreunemo ( all-tr-oo-n-moe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive queer/quasiplatonic attraction androygne people
Stripe meanings: attraction to aligned androygne people, attraction to unaligned androygne people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, queer/quasiplatonicality, queer/quasiplatonic attraction.
Autrepyo ( all-tr-pie-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive platonic attraction to androygne people
Stripe meanings: attraction to aligned androygne people, attraction to unaligned androygne people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, platonicality, platonic attraction.
Autreflico (all-tr-flea-co)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive alterous attraction to androygne people
Stripe meanings: attraction to aligned androygne people, attraction to unaligned androygne people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, alterous, alterous attraction.
Autresoqo (all-tr-so-que-oh)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sensual attraction to androygne people
Stripe meanings: attraction to aligned androygne people, attraction to unaligned androygne people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sensuality, sensual attraction.
Autremicbo ( all-tr-mic-boe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive aesthetic attraction to androygne people
Stripe meanings: attraction to aligned androygne people, attraction to unaligned androygne people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aestheticism, aesthetic attraction.
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sexual attraction to xenogender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to physical object related xenogender people, attraction to metaphysical object xenogender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sexuality, sexual attraction.
Nomeagno (numb-aag-no)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive romantic attraction to xenogender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to physical object related xenogender people, attraction to metaphysical object related xenogender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, romanticism, romantic attraction.
Nomeunemo ( numb-oo-n-moe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive queer/quasiplatonic attraction xenogender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to physical object related xenogender people, attraction to metaphysical object related xenogender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, queer/quasiplatonicality, queer/quasiplatonic attraction.
Nomepyo ( numb-pie-yo)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive platonic attraction to xenogender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to physical object related xenogender people, attraction to metaphysical object related xenogender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, platonicality, platonic attraction.
Nomeflico (numb-flea-co)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive alterous attraction to xenogender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to physical object related xenogender people, attraction to metaphysical object related xenogender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, alterous, alterous attraction.
Nomesoqo (numb-so-que-oh)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive sensual attraction to xenogender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to physical object related xenogender people, attraction to metaphysical object related xenogender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, sensuality, sensual attraction.
Nomemicbo ( numb-mic-boe)
An individual of any gender(s) ( or lack there of) with an exclusive aesthetic attraction to xenogender people
Stripe meanings: attraction to physical object related xenogender people, attraction to metaphysical object related xenogender people, being mono-gender, being multi-gender, being genderless, aestheticism, aesthetic attraction.
A while back, I came up with a term called “xen”, which is what you would call a xenic or xenogender person (Like how you’d call a male person a man or a female person a woman.)
To go with my man, boy, woman, and girl flags, I decided to make this flag. It’s based on my recent xenby flag.
A xenogender defined by its connection to pebbles. The gender may be small, grey, smooth, solid, or be similar to pebbles in other ways. It may also be tied to pebbles through other means, like relating to the act of collecting pebbles, or skipping pebbles on a lake, or maybe the pebbles that make up a path or the bottom of a river. There are many possibilities and ties that may be unique to individuals. This gender is predominantly neutral and xenine in nature.
Flag is free to use when attributed to the term, with no credits necessary. Also, I’m a new blog so reblogs are appreciated if you liked the term. ^-^
[image description: a monochromatic flag with a very dark gray pebble in the center, surrounded by two concentric and horizontally stretched hexagons. the inner hexagon is light gray, and the outer hexagon is slightly darker gray. the background is dark gray.]
another xenogender: boogender (couldn’t think of anything better) i couldn’t find this so uhhhhh this is for my neurodivergent homies who are literally just walking boos aka me. boo/boos pronouns sound sexy but do whatever you want you’re awesome and hot either way ❤️
(the “demidemi” is because that attraction is demi to the aesthetic attraction, but since that’s already demi to something else that makes the sensual attraction double demi so demidemi. “Pangynic” means pan with a preference for women)
Actually here’s a full decoding:
Pangynic: pan with a preference for women
Demi: attraction formed only after another prerequisite bond or attraction is formed
Aco: having attraction that one wants to act on, but having an aversion to doing so due to some form of misgivings about it
Aego: experiencing a disconnect between oneself and their attraction, often preferring to fantasise about others or imaging a placeholder person instead of themselves
Ficto: attraction specifically to fictional characters
Aesthetic: attraction based on aesthetic factors, typically visual
Sensual: attraction based on physical but nonsexual feelings
Aesthetisensual: a combo attraction of aesthetic and sensual attraction, similar to how others may experience their romantic and sexual orientations as combined
Kircoric: a xenogender related to kircore (a combination of decora kei, scenecore, and trendercore, related to Danganronpa, pride hoards, neon colors, rainbows, and more accessories than should be possible)
This is based on my personal aesthetic but anyone is free to use it! The flag was made by my discord friend Georgia.
COLOR MEANINGS
Pink: Danganronpa Yellow: Bright colors, joy Rainbow: Pride Blue: Subverted gender masculinity
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dvdscreensavergender – a gender which feels like it’s floating around in the void.
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vhsgender – a gender that’s old and outdated but still enjoyed.
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mechanical genders
mechanical genders are on a spectrum from completely mechanical, to fully human.
machinegender – a gender that is completely robotic, with no humanoid characteristics
robotgender/ botgender – a gender that is humanoid in a very basic and primal way.
androidgender/ droidgender- a gender that is very humanoid. it might even be mistaken for a humanoid gender.
cyborggender – a gender which is part human and part mechanical. it might have been completely human at one point, or it could have always been part mechanical.
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candygender – a gender which is sweet and fluffy. this gender is usually regarded as childish, but it doesn’t have to be. candygender has a dreamlike and frilly quality.
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bittersweetgender – a gender that’s a variation of candygender. this gender is so sweet that it’s unbearable.
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bi-molded-pan – someone who fits the definition of bisexual, but still chooses to identify as pansexual because of personal reasons.
genderfaun – genderfluidity that never encompasses being feminine/female but may encompass being neutral or male
demiboy – part male part something else (other part may be known/unknown)
nanoboy – same as demiboy but the male part is the minority
magiboy – same as demiboy but the male part is the majority
bigender – experience 2 genders so male/a masculine gender can be a part of that
agender boy – masculine tied agender person
solarian – someone who has similarities in identity or experience with men (cool spacey alternative to male-aligned nonbinary)
novarian/solstellarian – combination of solarian and stellarian (like solarian but gender neutral experience)
there are A Lot out there but i hope this helps!!
– mod daria
u forgot ultraboy [an extension of comboy (extreme 100% fullboy), opposite of libragirl].
Woman and man are not inherently antigenders/ungenders!
they mean: women are adherently men
boy=/=antigirl 《¤》 girl=/=antiboy
hot take: the real opposite gender of binary man is nonbinary woman.
Then… how do you explain male-female genderfluid and bigender?
Plural genders can mix opposite genders.
Bigender people can have fluidity and/or gender static/stricticity, when they are bigenderfluid (flowing from woman to man and masc-to-fem, for example) they are in the multigender umbrella.
When they have a static bigenderness they also are plural gender people (more specifically, plurigender), even if they are on the multigender umbrella.
So they can be both feminine (non)binary and masculine (non)binary.
Other example: you can flow from antigirl to monocomboy, or monocomgirl to antiboy as they are ‘opposite’ gender.
I have recently coined plurigenderness in order to not appropriate multigender umbrella.
But that is not an intrinsic characteristic of the male and female genders.
A gender identity is only antigirl when it could be combined with any other gender identity but girl, leading to mutual self-destruction or a similar concept of nullifying. In my case, pangender x panungender/panantigender leads to the formation of infinite “zerogenders” as I call them (for being neither positive nor negative genders), or potential gender seeds, in both directions under potential circumstances, but it is still a spore gender state, they are inactive until interactions with other people make them blossom again.
The mutual destruction of pangender and panantigender leads to only a few intact genders that did not get fully dissolved away in the caustic combination, either genders that are based on how I logically and philosophically feel about gender as a concept:
1. I am alike everyone and close to their identities in how I signify myself as a human, preferring no particularly form, shape or taste (neutrois), and unlike everyone and alienated from their referentials of what gender is meant to be due to my mind being an experience other to theirs (maverique) in infinitely complex ways (metagender).
2. What I seek from gender as a social role, which is a trail of karma – fame, glory, power, recognition beyond the span of time, worship and knowing that my touch upon this world has changed it forever for the absolute best (narcissistic rahugender) as opposed to self-actualization and the wisdom to know that being pushy about my ego-driven goals will cause alienation for the people I’m attempting to help, or rather, pretending to attempt to help because making the world become a mirror of my own ideology and self-conception feeds my ego like nothing else (reflexive ketugender).
3. Awareness that living in a binary society makes me reproduce masculinity and femininity even as a mostly-unaligned abinary person, and I should feel okay about recognizing that, even if I feel apathy about it all, because there are nice elements to masculinity and femininity anyway, and in fact they are fun as long as they aren’t pushed onto people, the only genders allowed or involved in unconsensual roles and hierarchy detrimental to one of the parts (mollinonpuer, mollinonpuella); or even understanding that in some ways I am put in situations in which I act and am seen as the man in the room, or the closest to a womanly figure in comparison to themselves and what they expect of people like me, and this allows me to kind of relate to how they feel even though I still very much want to be recognized first and foremost as someone who is neither male nor female (molliproxvir, mollijuxera).
4. Blues about how I will never embody much of the gender spectrum as well as I wish I could (to me gender identity and what I take from other people through the vessel of this language is a sign of my attraction and empathy towards other people, which is rare and to be treasured as an autistic and narcissistic person who has grown cynical of most human interaction), because we live in a transmisogynistic and exorsexist society and my mind has adapted to it, which is not a privilege but still forces me to naturalize being seen as a man and ~functioning socially as one~ even if it is unconsensual, and maybe I am just overanalyzing things and this alienation is common for cis men but I run away because I want to defend the silenced and oppressed very very much (oblimasculine exiccopostboy illusononbinary) vs awareness of how my experience is alike other transgender people, how regardless of the outward visibility of my gender narrative I am every new day unlike men and growing closer to and within a global community of nonbinary dreams, love and ideological unison, how I was never a binary man and couldn’t be more unlike them, and was just led to believe though because people tried to force me to be a cog in their system of oppression, and that one day perhaps I will be free and people will be forced to recognize this new me (pretransneutral entropostboy).
5. Unless otherwise modified due to engagement with the rest of humanity through media consumption, empathy towards certain narratives, reaction against violence or control (generally people being exorsexist or transmisogynistic towards me under the guise of feminism make me go para(antigirl), sorry not sorry), persistent attraction to others or engagement in relationships of all sorts; or the other, hidden, unknowable and fantastical mes beyond this rationalistic ego that I call myself through dreams and daydreams or immersed as a gameplayer in a fictional reality, I am stuck with this core gender that is the black hole left from the (pangender x panantigender) supernova; as a cadogender, I always fall back to it (it has its pull, as gravity); as an abimegender, it is deep, profound and infinite (my mind could go in infinite directions and I would still damn myself before I could find a good reason to not feel like neutrois and maverique aren’t the sole rational answers to the gender question, from my humble perspective); and it even fits the definition for an apollogender! I can escape my gender for limited amounts of time, so does that mean that this black hole has routes to parallel universes? the parallel universes represented by the minds of other people, their wills, desires, afflictions, experiences, emotions, which I can never metasimulate through my own emotions in a meaningful way due to my neurodivergences.
I am antineutrois-maverique and antimaverique-neutrois as my core gemigender but those genders are not the exact opposite of each other. The stable core of my gender is always comgender, sort of bold, while a pure antimaverique would probably be soft as maverique is defined as a very autonomous and unorthodox gender identity that can’t easily be made sense of to outsiders and can’t be properly tied to the rest of the spectrum, and it is also by definition extant (albeit demimaveriques exist), and my gender always favors neutrality before masculinity and femininity, while a pure antineutrois would probably be all about the most ‘colorful’ genders that show themselves as unlike all the others (my flavor of maverique, while defining itself in opposition to neutrois, is paradoxically more loyal to the part of the definition of maverique that is /not male, female or agender/ than the one that defines it as /not neutral/).
As you can see, antigenders/ungenders are not a hard science (ciência exata) and they can be defined in ways that vary from person to person. I am antigender because I make sense of gender as groupings (often binaries) of logical choices and options, so it is natural that they logically conflict to me, even as I identify with both.
I’m feeling risqué so I’m gonna ask @mogai-watch what she thinks, as I feel like MOGAI identities indeed often sound beyond a tangible hold in traditional logical terms, if this seems clearer when put in context.
I feel like she’s gonna be befuddled the most not by the fact that I feel like a mix of neutral and weird with small hints of inflated ego-related desire, realistic self-judgment, femininity, masculinity and dysphoria, but rather by the fact that I see myself as a collapsed star of every other possible label.
Well, just like I was able to make sense of those words in a tangible lens that applies to my experiences, I could do that to most other MOGAI identities. I’d say that they aren’t false or irrational but often rather unfalsifiable, in that most nonbinary people could relate to them at least somewhat proximally.
In fact an old theory from the deep reaches of 2013 Brazilian nonbinary Facebook groups was that all nonbinary genders were just variations of about the same gender, but rationalized in distinct ways.
I’m not a discourse blog but since I have appeared twice in her blog, I feel confident about trying to reach dialogue. She has as much exposure to the community as I do at this point, just from a distinct perspective.
Reblogging this here because I love how I explained the concept of gender identity and because I coined the concept of zerogender years ago (even using explanations based on the L’Hôpital’s rule) but it can’t be found on the internet, just on a very small copypaste of my text that ended up on Reddit.
Rainbow family, MOGAI/LGBT+ or Queer parenting: referring to intersex / altersex / marginalized oriented / gender-aligned people raising one or more children as parents or foster care parents.
This includes: children raised by same-gender couples (homoparenthood), children raised by single IMOGA parents, children raised by duaric couples where at least one partner is LGBT+ (ultric parenting), children raised by transgender (or otherwise disigender) parents, etc.
Colors from intersex, LGBT+, trans and disigender alternate flags. ~ ap
Changed family to parenting. Since rainbow family is something else.
Cancegender (also known as Agenderfluid): Agender as “base” gender but experiences fluid/fluxing gender feelings in tandem with their emotions. These gender feelings may confuse or upset the individual and cause their emotional state to go haywire, which causes more gender changes, or a fluid gender identity where one’s “base” gender is agender. They may experience other gendered feelings, but they always return to feeling agender.
Singleish: a non-monogamous attitude towards intimate relationships where an individual, not in any form of primary, committed intimate or romantic relationship, wishes to experience dating or seeing multiple people at the same time, with no expectation of long term commitments. Such an individual is differentiated from being a ‘player’ through the honesty and integrity they bring to their dating approach, without concealing any of the relationships from the other people they are seeing.
This flag is for all arospecs!! I really hope yall enjoy this flag ❤
Edit: The small yellow stripe isnt suppose to be there! You can edit it out if you wanna use it :)! I will be reblogging the post with ones without the stripe in a moment, sorry about this!
version without the mistake ^^;;
[ID: Two six-stripe pride flags with the colors in order top to bottom: dark teel, muted dark green, sea foam green, light grey, fuscia, dark purple-red. The second flag has the words “aromanticism as a whole, mico and mogai identities, fluid and flux identities, solidarity in all arospecs, romance positive arospecs, romance respulsed arospecs” with one phrase per line. In the priginal post there is a thin yellow line between the sea-foam and light grey stripes. End ID]
Demisebaonic- A gender which is based on or connected to Demise from The Legend of Zelda; a gender which is strong, dark, fiery and dangerous.
Dinbaonic- a gender based on or connected to Din from The Legend of Zelda or the Triforce of Power, a gender which is powerful and intense and may be connected to fire or lava.
Faroric- a gender based on or connected to Farore from The Legend of Zelda or the Triforce of Courage; a gender that feels courageous and full of life and may be connected to nature or lightning.
Fiercedeitic- A gender that is connected to the Fierce Deity from The Legend of Zelda; a gender which is strong and demonic, with a darkness to it similar to majoric, but shrouded in mystery, too vague to truly understand, and unexplainable- at least with known terms.
Hyliagender- A gender that is connected to Hylia from The Legend of Zelda; a gender that feels bright, powerful and pure, and as if it is more than itself.
Majoragender- A gender which is connected to The Legend of Zelda: Majora’s Mask
Majoric- A gender that is based on or connected to Majora from The Legend of Zelda; a gender which feels dark and powerful but as if it being trapped, possibly due to trauma. Not to be confused with Majoragender, a gender connected to the game Majora’s Mask.
Nayruic- A gender based on or connected to Nayru from The Legend of Zelda or the Triforce of Wisdom; a gender which feels wise and mature and may be connected to water, ice or the sky.
Skywardgender- A gender which is connected to The Legend of Zelda: Skyward Sword
Windfishgender- A gender which is connected to the Wind Fish from The Legend of Zelda; a gender which is powerful, strange, and vast, and connected to dreams, the ocean, music and islands, with feelings of longing and nostalgia, like staring out into an empty ocean alone, singing a song to yourself.
Zeldagender- a gender based on The Legend of Zelda
these flags are for people who are gay for men and align with transfemininity in some way! based off of this gay flag. meant to be fem, general/neutral, and masc (left to right). top set is just a brighter version :]
first two stripes = gender presentation purplish blue = community/solidarity light green = green carnations/growth last two stripes: connection to homosexuality in conjunction with gender and agab
you can use these for icons and stuff, just dont use them for yourself if youre not gay for men, not camab, dont align with transfemininity in some way, or if you fit my dni.
Ambinarity (ambigender + n-arity): experiencing both binary genders simultaneously; binary ambivalence/ambiguity. Similar to femache/machembre it’s a midbinary experience, but also a full xorgender.
Not to be confused with am(bi)binary in alibinary issues/system. Ambinarie isn’t essentially being bigender, it could be gendervast or multigender.
Oribragender: A gender related to the day/night cycle (dawn, sunrise, midday, sunset, dusk, evening, midnight, and back to dawn), not specifically fluid between genders during these times (though it can be), more of a gender related to the concept of the day/night cycle.
Can be used as Oribraboy, Oribragirl, Oribraenby, Oribrafluid, Oribraflux, etc.
Comes from the latin words Oriens and Umbra, which mean dawn and dusk respectively.
The colors come from the colors of the sky during the day/night.
[Image description start: a flag with 9 stripes, going from top to bottom in the order dark purple, lighter purple, red, orange, slightly yellow white, light gray, blue, purple, and a slightly darker purple, with half a sun on one side of the flag and half of a moon on the other side, image description end.]
Flag made with flag templates on the neopronouns deviantart.
I JUST HAD TO CLOSE MY EYES FOR A SECOND AND LIKE……..DIGEST THIS WHA T THE HELL
You know why
clowns actually originated in egypt to entertain royalty- they wore weird masks and imitated gods. there were also clowns in ancient china, greece, and italy. it wasn’t “black face and then switched to white face” like i saw in the notes– the clown white paint was invented in 1801.
the big, red nose is associated with alcoholism/being drunk (heavy alcohol usage can lead to severe rosacea and swelling of the nose), because drunkards in ye olde times were seen as fun for the whole family. the overlined lips create an exaggerated smile). curly or big hair was seen as whimsical and fun, as was a lack of hair (if you look up ‘vintage clowns’, you’ll see their hair is puffed out to the sides or upwards. nowadays, people probably wear afros because they’re cheap, and don’t involve lots of styling.
i am passionate about clowns
They are a terrifying breed of monster, and must be eradicated from the face of the earth, but it’s relieving to know they weren’t born from a place of racial prejudice.
@johnnyjoestarrelatable has great stuff on the origin of clowning, but he’s missing a crucial point: there was a phase in the 1800s where Clowns made fun of IRISH people. There’s a reason it was white paint at one of the most anti-Irish times in history. There was already an offensive caricature of Black Americans– the minstrel shows. The clown was designed to make fun of another of America’s most hated ethnic groups, the Irish Catholic.
Red frizzy hair (red hair being more common to people of Irish descent)
It should be noted that this was not the origin of the clown, or even the white face paint clown (this actually I believe is French? I think it comes from the evolution of the mime) But a particular variant of clowns that became popular in the 1800s was intended to make fun of the Irish.
“Clowns have fluffy hair to mock black people. Then they painted their faces white, to mock black people.”
So, since I’m still seeing this around MOGAI (and adjacent) spaces, here’s your friendly reminder that f*mboy is a transmisogynistic slur, and if you try to reclaim it as a TME, you’re being transmisogynistic.
There are plenty of other terms you can choose from to describe yourself as a feminine boy. Just to make it easy for you, here are some of the terms I know:
Gay/lesbian and MLM+Sapphic solidarity flags for anon.
Gay/lesbian flag was created using the Larkspur Gay and Monument Lesbian flags. In creating it, I figured that the average of the two flags’ stripes was 6.5 and thus made the stripe in the centre smaller, or about half the size of the rest of the stripes. The outer stripe gradients were created by merging the respective colours from both the flags, purples to purples and blues to blues.
For the MLM+Sapphic flag, I created a gradient using both the mlm and sapphic flag colours and “combined” the respective symbols, adding my own touch to it as well.
if you care about trans women, you need to care about all trans women. that includes trans women whose gender expression is gnc. that includes Black and Indigenous trans women. that includes all trans women of color. that includes aspec trans women. that includes Jewish and Muslim trans women. that includes all trans women of faith. that includes trans women who are sex workers. that includes nonbinary trans women. that includes trans women whose gender and attraction labels might be in conflict with your idea of what you think it means to be a trans woman. no one but ourselves can decide what it means to be trans women.
Planckgender: Similar to pixelgender in that it seems like the smallest quantifiable amount of a gender, but it’s not exactly; it’s just that going any smaller than that doesn’t make sense to the individual.
Horshugender: A binary gender that is so extremely intense that it actually begins to resemble the “opposite” binary gender. (Name comes from “horseshoe”.)
Spiralgender: A fluid identity where your gender seems to go in circles, but it never quite returns to the exact same gender, only to a similar one.
Imagigender: An alternate gender line that is perpendicular to the male-female gender line. Just as imaginary numbers range from minus infinity*i to zero to plus infinity*i, the imagigender line ranges from one imaginary gender to agender to a second imaginary gender. These two genders need names but I don’t really know what’s best for them even though I definitely feel like the “minus” one is me! Maybe they’re proxvir and juxera?
Also, you can be an imagigender and a “real” gender at the same time. See also the…
Complex Gender Plane! The male-agender-female line and the imagigender line are perpendicular to each other, overlapping at the zero point. You can be male and an imagigender at the same time and this would basically be a point on the complex gender plane.
Gender roots of unity: These are male, female, and the two imagigenders, and also every complex gender that lies on the circle that has that same absolute value away from agender.
Hypergender: A gender that is so intensely male or so intensely female that it goes beyond male or female. (Named for hyperreal numbers.)
Genderessimal: Any gender that is infinitessimal, but still not quite agender. Includes nanogenders, pixelgenders, planckgenders, etc.
Biastosexual/-romantic/-platonic/-sensual/-alterous: An orientation in which the attraction you experience dissipates when and if it is reciprocated.
These are all pretty interesting!
Hypergender already has a definition though
Hypergender: Experiencing a gender with more intensity than is common for your identity, e.g. hyperboy, hypergirl, hyper(gender) etc.
That sounds a lot like preterbinary
Preterbinary: Beyond the the gender binary/spectrum of male and female.
Also Biasto- already exists as akoi/lith
Akoi- / Akoine- / Lith- / Akoin-
An orientation where: A person feels a particular kind of attraction, but does not wish to have it reciprocated OR A person who feels a particular kind of attraction, which fades if it is reciprocated or if they enter a relationship with the person they are attracted to.
-Hermy
Given that Hypergender is already used to describe a gender identity that is felt more intensely than what is common for one’s identity, I would like to suggest the following to distinguish the two:
Excedogender: A gender that is experienced so intensely that it exceeds or goes beyond what is encompassed by a given gender.
Artificiumgender: (Latin for trick) A gender that changes depending on how people perceive you. Ex: If someone thinks you’re male, you tell them you’re female.
Rewording the definition:
Artificiumgender: An experience in which one’s gender changes to be contrary to how others perceive you.
Secretumgender: (Latin for secret) Where you have a true gender, but you never tell anyone what it is. This gender is a placeholder for your actual gender.
Rewording the definition:
Secretumgender: Describing one who has a true, indubitable gender, but they never reveal what it is.
ID: Pikachu from the Pokémon smiling and holding a white sign with black text. The text reads: Black lives STILL matter even if your feed is “back to normal”.
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