A gender relating to the Squidbeak splatoon from Splatoon! May identify with or feel ones’ gender is affected by the Squidbeak splatoon, or identify as a Squidbeak agent in gender.
Flag colors – Colors pulled from Squidbeak outfits! Greenish-yellow and blue from the Splatoon 1 agent outfit, yellow and orange from Splatoon 2 agent outfit, off-black from both
A gender that is closely connected to all things of the modern halloween spirit. individuals who identify as hallowuso feels as though halloween is a part of who they are.
Flag number one. Cat and Tombstone. Original flag and desaturated for if the original is hard on the eyes.
Flag number two. Broomstick alternative. Original flag and desaturated for if the original is hard on the eyes.
A gender related to liminal spaces. It is detached and void-like
due to neurodivergence and/or trauma, and at times may feel like it
doesn’t exist or only partially exists. Can be combined with different
modifiers in relation to alignment if wanted, such as liminalboy, liminalgirl, and liminalnonbinary. Only to be used by neurodivergent and/or traumatized people. The flag is based off of levels 0-4 of the backrooms.
Toxigender- A gender that is dangerous, and toxic. Feels like radiation, and explosive energy. This gender is unpredictable, stressful, and confusing. It’s extremely strong and powerful.
Bonus!
Toxivoid- Same as toxigen in feeling explosive, dangerous, and unpredictable. This time it feels much more empty and void like. Can feel like you’re trapped in the apocalypse, all alone in an empty city.
Toxifluid- A gender that is fluid between toxivoid and toxigender.
a gender that’s connected to being gender neutral while being a magical girl! it’s associated with things such as hot pink ribbons, pastel pink glitter, silver heart wands, and all things magical.
Efthogender is a gender that relates to the fast shifting of a fluid gender based on external stimuli. Efthogender people have a central gender that the fluid genders never stray far from, ie always being masc-aligned or always being on a certain alignment system, for example.
Epinixine is a nixic combination of epicene and genderless. It designates a disconnectedness from being epicene and feeling partially genderless, or a fluidity between epicene and genderless.
Fasmagender is nonbinary with some connection to masculinity and femininity, but stands also alone as its own gender. It could possibly be described as an aporine-aligned version of androgyne. See also ambonec.
Femandrogyne individuals identify as a more feminine-leaning version of androgyne. As with the androgyne gender, it is a mix of male or female (or fluid) but in this case, female always outweighs male.
Femdraz is a partially masculine, but primarily feminine gender. It can be fluid or flux, but the femininity outweighs the masculinity. See also demigirl, femandrogyne, paragirl, themismasculine and bigender. The opposite is masqyne.
Geminogender is likened to being a given gender, but twice over. Most geminogendered people use pronouns styled with a ² at the end, like for example male².
Genderfaer people are genderfluid, but never experience pure binary male. Their fluidity ranges between feminine, masculine, neutral, and agendered genders but never the binary concept of male.
Demixenogender is when one partially or semi-identifies as any given xenogender. They may feel like their xenogender is only partially there, or that it does not fit them enough to be fully worth identifying as. Any reason works, so long as it’s partial. It can be a modifier as well for xenogenders, such as demigenderapianum or other examples.
Finandrogyne is described as being similar to femandrogyne, but more rigid in its definition and amount of femininity felt. Where femandrogynes may feel, for example, 72% female and 28% male, finandrogyne is ¼ male and ¾ female. Some identify as bigender or dodransgender, as well.
Confugender people are gender-flux or -fluid but don’t know what gender they are at a given moment, they only know that it changes. They also might have some idea of their identity, but wind up doubting it until it shifts again. See also alexigender.
Genderfloat people feel “above” gender as it were, being nonbinary and similar to agender, however genderfloat people want to present in a fluid manner, often androgynous one day and masculine the next (and so on). Gender is unnecessary to them, but they do not feel fully agender as they still may want to dress and present in a gendered manner.
Genderflorer people are genderfluid, but never experience femininity, pure binary male, or pure binary female. Their fluidity ranges between masculine, neutral, xeno, and agendered genders but never femme, male or female.
Genderfloret people are genderfluid, but never experience masculinity, binary male or binary female. Their fluidity ranges between femininity, neutral, xeno, and agendered genders but never masc, male or female.
Genderfrith people are genderfluid, but never experience agendered or neutral genders. Their fluidity ranges between masculine and feminine genders but never abinary or neutral ones.
Genderfrithen people are genderfluid, but never experience agendered, neutral, or binary genders. Their fluidity ranges between masculine and feminine genders but never abinary, solely binary (male/female) or neutral ones.
Genderfrither people are genderfluid, but never experience agendered, neutral, or binary male genders. Their fluidity ranges between masculine and feminine genders but never abinary, solely binary (male) or neutral ones. They can be binary female.
Genderfrithet people are genderfluid, but never experience agendered, neutral, or binary female genders. Their fluidity ranges between masculine and feminine genders but never abinary, solely binary (female) or neutral ones. They can be binary male.
Genderfruct is the state of being fluid between all genders, whether masc, femme, nonbinary, unaligned, xenic, neutral, agendered, binary, and anything else.
Genderlight, sometimes panzerogender, is when all of one’s genders combine with their antigender counterparts or opposites and become null. Generally this leads to genderlessness.
Genderspike is when one is mostly a “base” gender (example: demigirlspike), but experiences a sudden spike or shift to another gender for a brief period of time (example: demigirlspike shifts to neutrois). The base gender is generally the title of the gender, if one’s gender is “x”, then the term would be “xspike”.
Genderspirit individuals fluctuate between male, female and xenogenders. It is similar to a lot of all-encompassing genderfluid identities, but specifically includes xenogenders as a major facet.
Genderswap, not to be confused with gender swapping (art/literature where a binary person’s gender is swapped to the other binary gender) is when one is genderfluid but only switches between two given genders. (Example: genderswap person who is always either male or juxera.)
Girlfaeflux is a form of genderfluxidity where faesari and binary girl are the two shifted between. One can be faesari, female, or anything in between.
Heptagender people experience seven different gender identities. It may be in the style of genderfluidity, where a person moves between seven different genders, or genderflux, where a person has seven different stages in between agendered and gendered. They can also experience all seven genders simultaneously.
Impediogender is characterized by its mildness during peaceful times, but clearly makes itself known when challenged. If one is male impediogender but is addressed as female, the feelings of maleness intensify and spike.
Ilyagender is a gender that is tangible and definitely there, however it is not man, woman, neutral, or agender, nor any combination or derivative of any of these genders. It has no connection to any of them. It has no neutrality, femininity, masculinity or lack of gender about it, and that is what defines it.
Indigender is a gender umbrella that contains exclusive genders derived from cultures or races of indigenous people. Only BIPOC may use genders under this umbrella, and are not for the use of white people. It represents all indigenous genders and is not specific to any culture.
A gender that feels like the nostalgia of watching old horror movies and knowing exactly what’s gonna happen but still getting scared and watching over and over again because you love that feeling of shock you still get.
Coined by and flag designed by @victorianvampirebf, term name created by us (@abuingofluid). The colours come from colours that the flag designer’s synesthesia associates with the term, and the name comes from the latin words terrent (scare) and elit (movie). Couldn’t decide if I preferred it with or without the gender suffix so feel free to use whichever version!
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it’s a gender identification where the gender feels vague or hazy, like a dream! not that it feels partially hidden/covered, as i’m pretty sure that’s already a thing, it just feels foggy or hard to “see”
i don’t have any suggested pronouns, but if you have any ideas let me know 🙂
☆ this term and flag have been coined by me! you may repost with credit ☆
Genderaceriflorum: a gender that is connected to plants with maple-shaped flowers. Etymology: Latin, “aceriflorus” meaning “having flowers shaped like maple leaves”
genderfoncee: a dark, secluded, and feminine gender
vespertinusgirl: a feminine gender brought out of the dark. it’s related to the evening and darkness
femnoire: a feminine+xenic gender that is influenced by neon colors and feels dark, mysterious, and “busy” (like a crowded street)
darkrosegender: a neutral feminine flowergender relating to darkness and/or a goth aesthetic
feminfernal: a feminine hellgender; feminine agender where, in place of gender, one feels the fires of hell
tarantulae/tarantulagender: genderless with feminine energies and the appeal of being a totally unidentifiable eldritch being
vazmisgender: a gender that can be described similarly to azathoth – a calm chaos, vast, magical, nebulous (or connected to celestial bodies in general), crystal fluidity (it can change shape, but the gender itself never changes), able to be influenced by music, and connected to femininity
seraphgender: a gender that feels holy, sacred, powerful, and important, but not as strong as a deity. intended for seraphkin but can be used by anyone.
questiongender: when the gender is the journey. a constant search for gender, similar to questioning, but more solid. knowing the journey is the point, but being on the journey nonetheless.
quesingender: an umbrella term for all genders that are questioning in nature. can also be used as a gender itself by someone who knows their gender is questioning, but they don’t know what specific gender it is
abditusgender: an identity in which one feels as though they have a general idea of their identity, but their gneder is still hiding important aspects of itself or slowly revealing itself
credogender: a gender that exists and that you can understand, but you constantly question the label you should use because you can’t quite find the words for it
explorogender: a constantly changing gender dedicated to feeling and exploring many different genders at random times
migragender: for those who are questioning their gender and don’t want to pin it down to one or two words, who are flitting from gender to gender to see how they all feel
quesgender: when you know you have (an)other gender(s) in addition to the one(s) you’ve already pinpointed, but no matter how much you search, nothing seems to stick, nor can you figure out how to describe it yourself
undrion: a gender characterized by being comfortable with the fact that it is undefined or unknown
felicanaiva: a gender that is both content and questioning (one of a few definitions)
ignotic: not knowing your gender and often changing your labels. coined to be an alternative to ‘questioning’ that is specific to gender-questioning folks.
schrodigender: a gender which you can both feel and not feel
genderdox: multiple genders and nothing/genderlessness at the same time summed into one, like a paradox
(there may be more of these – i feel like i’ve seen more – but i could only find/think of these two)
genders that disappear and reappear:
switchfluid: a fluid gender in which one normally has a gender and uses pronouns, but it can switch off, leaving a blank space where the gender was and making pronoun and label usage complicated until their gender switches back on again. the ‘blank space’ could be an agingender or be entirely without label
recyclagender: a gender that once existed, disappeared, then came back as a similar (yet new) gender
squidgender: a gender that’s definitely there, but when you take time to examine it and work out what it is, it becomes obscure and sometimes disappears for a while
naufragiumgender: a gender simply abandoned. it’s similar to a shipwreck in that it disappears for a while and is rediscovered by advancing into the depths of gender
anogender: a feeling of gender that fades in and out, but feels the same when it comes back. a gender that constantly resurfaces the same as before it disappeared.
autumnifluid: a fluid gender that flows like leaves in autumn. it goes from being alive to disappearing, then returns at a later time
abracagender: a gender that feels magical and seems to appear and disappear at random, leaving you without a gender
definition: a trans person who completely lacks the femininity/masculinity normally associated with their gender identity, and does not wish to become more masculine/more feminine in order to fit better into gender roles or to “pass.”
the prefix polar- comes from the phrase “polar opposite.” this refers to the person being the polar opposite of what society believes women/men to look like, but still just as valid in their identity.
definition: where you refer to yourself as a girl or a boy for the sake of convenience or because your gender is too confusing but don’t really identify as that; e.g. personagirl or personaboy
coined by: definition by anonymous user, term coined by twerkingobserver
Stororomantic Only feeling familial love, not romantic love. E.g when you’re attracted to someone, you feel a strong familial attachment to them, like they’re an older sibling. It comes from the word ‘storge’, meaning familial affection
Glaromantic / Glarosexual: Attracted to people depending on the weather; only feeling sexual / romantic attraction when it is cold. Comes from the word ‘Glace’, French for ice.
Feuromantic / Feusexual: Attracted to people depending on the weather; only feeling sexual / romantic attraction when it is warm. Comes from the word ‘Feu’, French for fire.
Hearomantic / Heasexual: Kind of an all-encompassing thing for glarosexual and feusexual. Attracted to people depending on the weather and temperature. Comes from the word ‘Heavens’, the sky above.
Temporagender: A gender changing depending on the season. E.g you could be a demigirl in Summer, a magiboy in Autumn, a cis person in Winter, and a girl in Spring? It probably falls under the genderfluid spectrum; it comes from ‘Tempora’, the latin word for seasons.
definition: when your gender is angering. another way to put it is that thinking about/figuring out your gender is emotionally exhausting and now you’re mad at your gender. “ira” comes from the latin word for anger
definition: a gender which is almost recognizable, but is just slightly off; a gender which approaches a recognizable gender, before sharply veering off.
Definition: Either to feel very excited about anything to do with gender, especially your own gender, or to feel that your gender is entirely centered around your excitedness
Exci– deriving from the English word ‘excited’
Can be adhered to certain gender you feel closest to, or that is most encompassing of your excitedness.
Example: Excigirl, Exciboy, Excinonbinary, or for those lacking a gender but still feeling excited, Excinull is also another identifier.
I wanted to try my hand at making an all-inclusive lesbian flag, so here it is! It was specifically made with nonbinary, GNC, and/or mspec lesbians in mind, but as long as you identify with the label, you can use it!
So, I recently found the term “spadillic”, and I wanted to make a version of my aroace flag that matched the current one.
This is a really pretty flag! However after seeing the meaning behind the colors I’m not sure if they’re fitting.
Your aroace flag has purple representing asexuality and green for aromanticism, but if you’re “spadillic” you don’t necessarily identify with both those terms together or at all. Spadillics are people who experience romantic and sexual attraction conditionally, rarely, or not at all. It can be both an umbrella term and a personal label.
People under the Spadillic umbrella term include-
An asexual who doesn’t feel romantic attraction but doesn’t use the split attraction model/ also identify as aromantic.
An aromantic who doesn’t feel sexual attraction but doesn’t use the split attraction model/ also identify as asexual.
People who identify as both aromantic and asexual/ Aroace.
People who are on the aro and ace spectrums
People who don’t experience romantic/sexual attraction who want a term with no automatic associations with the split attraction model.
Etc
To put it another way. Some asexuals are spadillic. Asexuals who feel romantic attraction aren’t Spadillic. Some aromantics are spadillic. Aromantics who regularly feel sexual attraction are not. All aroaces are spadillic. (But not all spadillics would call themselves aroace). Some spadillics would rather use spadillic as it’s own term.
If you knew this already, carry on. There’s nothing wrong with having your own thoughts about how a flag should look. I was just concerned that you might have the wrong idea about what spadillic meant.
Oh! Yes, I know. I consider myself spadillic. The reason why I made the flag the way I did was mostly just an edit of the current one, which uses the og aroace flag. By making my own edit of spadillic I was hoping maybe more people would learn what spadillic is, because I don’t see a lot of people using it yet.
Also:
This flag is namely for people like me (aroace people who do not use the SAM/want a unifying term for those who don’t experience “normal” levels of sexual or romantic attraction without needing to go into further detail). I made an edit of my flag instead of a new flag because it was made specifically with aroace-specs in mind (and i just like making edits of my own flags) and people like me can fall under spadillic. I wanted to make an edit of the existing flag (which uses an aroace flag) with my aroace flag but honestly I forgot that I worded my flag tht way, which I apologize for.
Regarding this part ^ which I assume is what you’re talking about, yeah, my original flag does mention both the ace and aro spectrums, which is ultimately a mistake on my part. i probably should have said “lack of or different experience with romantic/sexual attraction” and I think I’ll edit that, especially since ive been recently iding as spadillic over ace and aro and would kinda like to be included under my own flag jfhbdjhgbdjfh
If I understand correctly, you are saying that you experience masculinity through your femaleness and that you experience femininity through your maleness. To my knowledge, there isn’t a word to describe that exact situation, but I do have some words that are quite similar. If none of the terms I list below suffice, please feel free to send me another message and I would be happy to help you coin a term or provide a platform for you to submit one if you would like to coin a term yourself. 🙂
Most similar to what you are describing would be the termsVidfirmaand Vidfirmus, which don’t appear to have been archived or even posted on tumblr, but on Amino. The definition of this term is quite lengthy, so, in my own words, Vidfirmus is an ambiguous gender where masculinity and femininity are uniquely distinct, yet drawn together into an androgynous form where masculinity is dominant, yet explicitly experienced through the perspective of femininity. Vidfirma is an ambiguous gender where masculinity and femininity are unique distinct, yet drawn together into an androgynous form where femininity is dominant, yet explicitly experience through the perspective of masculinity. If you feel like you relate to these two terms, I suppose you could refer to yourself as a Vidfirmis to communicate a bigender, gendervast, etc., though this term has not been coined to my knowledge. Why Vidfirmis? The dative plural form of “firmus”/”firma” is “firmis”, which is the same for the masculine, feminine and neuter case (trying to keep with the syntax of the coiner!).
Some other somewhat close (pairs of) terms include:
Femarsic & Venasic: a gender characterized by a feminine, Male energy and a gender characterized by a masculine, Female energy, respectively.
Femil & Melle: a Female gender that has no alignment toward femininity, but instead has masculine and/or other non-feminine alignment(s) & a Male gender that has no alignment toward masculinity, but instead has feminine and/or other non-masculine alignment(s), respectively.
Bisyndegender: one who is both a girl that feels personally associated with masculinity and a boy that feels personally associated with femininity.
Turian, also known as veldian, is a term for gay men and nonbinary people. It is for all men who identify as gay, as well as all nonbinary people who identify as gay/nlm. The word “Turian” stems from computer-scientist Alan Turing. Veldian is an alternative term for those who prefer not to use labels that include people’s names, and stems from velds, southern African grassy plains with flowers and a lot of sunlight. (The sun is often connected to masculinity, and a lot of the flowers have meanings that stem from love and/or passion)
Lavenian is a turian who is gender non-conforming. The word originates from “lavender”, a flower that is historically attributed to both GNC and vincian/mlm men. It is similar to the term lavender boy, but is specifically for those who identify as gay. Not all gnc turians need to use lavenian if they do not want to.
Both of these terms are all inclusive and anybody who feels they fit may use them.
This is a gender for those who prefer the term girl instead of woman because of the connotations that cone with being a “woman” and societies expectations
Kid/Childgender-
A gender for those who prefer the term kid/child over adult because of the societal expectations and connotations of being an adult
I really loved boygender and wanted to make a girl and kid/child version of it, please don’t use for a k!nk!! I beg! Love you all!!! (sorry this was su late, I asked the creator and didn’t get a notification about the creator responding, I checked finally and saw the creator said ish otay, thankies!!!)
This is a gender for those who prefer the term girl instead of woman because of the connotations that cone with being a “woman” and societies expectations
Kid/Childgender-
A gender for those who prefer the term kid/child over adult because of the societal expectations and connotations of being an adult
I really loved boygender and wanted to make a girl and kid/child version of it, please don’t use for a k!nk!! I beg! Love you all!!! (sorry this was su late, I asked the creator and didn’t get a notification about the creator responding, I checked finally and saw the creator said ish otay, thankies!!!)
im nervous to post this since a lot of people think xenogenders are cringe but actually im just doing what makes me happy and if you dont like that then why are you so upset about me being comfortable and happy with myself lol
pixelfeminine: a subset of demifeminine or polygender in which femininity is the smallest addressable element in an overall gender experience; being a tiny bit feminine and mostly other gender(s)
pixelmasculine: a subset of demimasculine or polygender in which masculinity is the smallest addressable element in an overall gender experience; being a tiny bit masculine and mostly other gender(s)
the first two flags are based on the original pixelgender flags, while the second are based on genderstalgia’s redesigns!
This (I believe) is the last of the Genderf- terms (under the genderfluid umbrella) that includes masculine genders. Genderfrith is describes as fluid gender that never encompasses genders that are completely removed from masculinity or femininity. This means that all the genders a genderfrith person experiences are either masculine or feminine, but never unaligned, neutral, or agender. If you want to specify that your gender is never fully woman, you can add -et to the end to make Genderfrithet. If you want to specify that you never experience being fully a man, you can add -er, making Genderfrither. Lastly, if you want to specify that you never experience being fully a man or a woman, you can add -en to the word, making Genderfrithen your term. Genderfrith and it’s flag were coined by @kalliepride , unsure who specifically coined the extra endings. The extra ending flags were made by @uncommongenders ! The flags are very similar to eachother so notice they are in order: Genderfrith, Genderfrithet, Genderfrither, Genderfrithen.
Demigyny or demigyne(s): being demifemale, demiwoman, demifem(me), demigirl, demigal &/or demifeminine. Either a standalone or umbrella term. You can be all these possibilities or multiple or one of them
-gyne/-gyny is often miscorrectly written as geny/genous/gen(ic) (as in pandrogeny), so some can call this demigeny/demigenous/demigenic for mistake.
I’m using my semigender flag template here with two colors picked from flags of demigender and androgyne/androgynous, but it’s to avoid demigirl flag iterations. Both angi terms are used interchangeably so the flags and -gyne.
Based on hemigynous. Alt words (not mentioned yet): semigynous/semigyne/semigyny/semigynic (semifemale, semigirl/semigal, semiwoman/semiwomen, semifem(me), semifeminine/semifemininity), hemigyny/hemigyne/hemigynic (hemigirl/hemigal, hemifemale, hemifeminine/hemifemininity, hemifem(me), hemiwomen/hemiwoman), demigynic (demifemininity/demiwomen).
pixelfeminine: a subset of demifeminine or polygender in which femininity is the smallest addressable element in an overall gender experience; being a tiny bit feminine and mostly other gender(s)
pixelmasculine: a subset of demimasculine or polygender in which masculinity is the smallest addressable element in an overall gender experience; being a tiny bit masculine and mostly other gender(s)
the first two flags are based on the original pixelgender flags, while the second are based on genderstalgia’s redesigns!
The first yellow stripe represents allosexuality and sexual attraction, the second line represents the spectrum of allosexuality, and the third represents occasional sexual attraction.
The very last stripe represents asexuality and lack of sexual attraction, the one above it represents the asexual spectrum and the one above is for
one’s feelings towards romantic relationships and actions (repulsed, neutral, positive)
.
The grey lines represent the confusion as to whether you’re one or the other or bordering both, but understanding you’re not “practically allo/straight”
The white stripe represents validity of your attraction, confusion, orientation, and experience.
Librafaunet is an identity where most of someone’s gender is agender, and a small amount (anywhere from 1% to 49%) is genderfaunet. I based this flag off the demifaunet flag.
attraction to people who have a gendered feeling (eg. female, demiboy, maverique), and not people who are unaligned / neutral (eg agender, neutrois).
im not sure where to put xenogenders in this, since they are genders, but it’s not really connected to a /gendered/ feeling (hence the use of ideas / objects / etc to describe it). i guess it would vary from person to person if their gender is “gendered” or not…
see also: gender-
mostly just making this for a character but. others can use it
Someone who is a
post-rubor aromantic can quickly get crushes on others and have romantic
feelings for someone but once the excitement of a new
romance/flirtation is gone, the romantic feelings disappear and they
feel like any other aromantic person: not developing romantic love. The
romantic feelings can last as little as a couple days or as much as a
month.
Many of these feelings are based on the feelings of
others. For example if you are an empath, you can often feel when
someone has romantic feelings for you, but begin to block them out
quickly, hence the fast dissipation of your own romantic feelings.
The original flag is linked in the header. I edited the colors to be less harsh on the eyes, and reorganized them to flow better. I also made a simplified version for easier recreation.
[Image ID] First image is a flag with eight stripes. From top to bottom, the stripes are burgundy, dark red, orange, pale yellow, sky blue, dark blue, dark grey, and black. The second image is a simplified four-stripe flag. From top to bottom, the stripes are dark fuschia, pale orange, medium blue, and very dark grey. [End ID]
Ollzirkusgender is a gender relating to old circuses (oll zirkus is old circus in German). It is similar to circuscoric, but instead of relating to modern circus elements like balloons and clowns in neon clothes, it relates to lion tamers, acrobats, strongmen, seers, and anything else you might find at an old-fashioned circus or carnival.
Specio- : A neurosexuality defined as “in which when one becomes sexually or romantically interested in someone, that said person becomes their special interest”. Note : only for use by autistic folk & not to be confused with speciosexual !
Speciosexual was coined on or before February 24, 2015 by tumblr user cinderpelt via MOGAI-Archive. There was no pride flag, so I created one inspired from the fascigender flag.
Subset of liminalcoric, it is a coric gender centered around the aesthetics of
emptiness, eeriness,
melancholies, and absence. It is also based off of liminal spaces. Derived from the word kenopsia.
steampunkic: a (xeno)gender related to steampunk; a gender aesthetically related to steampunk steampunkgender: a genregender related to steampunk; a subset of scifigender related to steampunk
i was kind of surprised i couldn’t find any steampunk genders, so here’s a couple!
hyperfixgender: a gender that fluctuates depending on your current hyperfixation
coined here! since this is similar to fixigender (with fixigender being fluid and hyperfixgender being flux), i used similar colors to the fixigender flag.
praelumromantic: a romantic orientation that can only develop after one has experienced trauma that makes forming romantic bonds difficult or impossible. those who are praelumromantic may experience the desire for a romantic relationship, but are unable to attain one for trauma-related reasons. one could still be praelumromantic after securing a romantic relationship, as the hardships of trauma can persist even after reaching that milestone. only to be used by traumatized people whose trauma specifically affects their ability to form romantic bonds.
the prefix ‘praelum’ comes the latin words ‘praeteritum’ and ‘malum’, meaning ‘past’ and ‘hurt’ respectively. ‘praelum’ is pronounced ‘pray-loom’. the first flag is the base design, and the second is a rough draft of a version with a scar symbol.
the color meanings are: – red: trauma – dark pink: possible attraction – white: slight attraction – grey: no attraction – purple: bonds that are not romantic in nature
this term was anonymously submitted, i am not the coiner!
I think Caedromantic already covers this?
Caedromantic: Describes a person who used to experience romantic attraction, but no longer does due to past trauma. (Source)
(There’s also a bunch of terms relating to neurodivergent experiences which may possibly be applicable too)
Suppose caedromantic is mainly defined in terms of attraction whereas this seems more focused on actions, but like….for a long time there’s been a tendency to define based on attraction, and framing things around action is more recent thing. And like, the original definition of something isn’t set in stone, the meaning of terms can expand with those who use it to encompass other similar topics/can have multiple definitions if needed.
Just wanted to point this out bc to me it seems like the definition for this falls under caedromantic such that there’s not necessarily a need for another term, and know people may not necessarily be familiar with caedromantic.
well, they do have different definitions – a praelumromantic person struggles with forming romantic bonds, which doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t feel romantic attraction anymore. i can kind of understand your concern, but i’m of the belief that any term can be an umbrella for other terms, and that terms having an overlap doesn’t mean one is unnecessary. and especially since someone who’s praelumromantic could be 100% alloromantic, i think it’s a useful term.
aroacespec/ayspec: being both arospec and acespec. ‘aroacespec’ is more commonly used, but ‘ayspec’ (based on ay) may be preferred by those who do not use the split attraction model.
a gender influenced by or relating to don’t go away by kate rusby; a don’t go away musicagender. it feels frosty and slow moving while taking everything in, and is related to winter and late autumn.
furfluid (1st flag) – a fluid gender that changes like the moulting of fur from summer to winter or winter to summer. it may be slow and gradual or feel patchy or blotchy, with fragments of the other gender remaining.
furflux (2nd flag) – a gender that fluctuates like the moulting of fur from summer to winter or winter to summer. it may be slow and gradual or feel patchy or blotchy, with fragments of the other gender remaining.
I used quadrinary as embedding four gender arities, originally quaternary, since it could be either quadrinary (quaternary) or trinary (ternary), so I had put “non(qua)ternary).
The tertiary/third gender was neither (neutrois), the quaternary/fourth was none (agender/genderless) or both (androgyne/ambinary).
The ternary part could be both neutrois and agender. So basically trinary=quadnary, they are interchangeable most of the time.
definition: a gender identity that is directly affected, tied to, or influenced by the earth or nature. or; a gender identity similar to/the same as that of some form of earth deity.
note: this gender identity is not to be used by duotheistic pagans or wiccans, because of the general consensus in those faiths that the earth deity being worshiped (mother earth) is a female. it can be used by non-duotheistic pagans, non-wiccans, and non-pagan otherkin whose kintypes are nature-based (naturekin, forestkin, faekin, plantkin etc)
Genderhibernavisse: a gender that is full of masculine and winter genders, chilly like snowy winter afternoon air, frosted like the pavement after it snows, dark and frigid like a brumal day, peaceful and placid like the icy ocean on a dark-skied day in December in a peaceful harbor, the cold water running against the shores and the docks, having the scent of melting snow, stormy and brumous like the blizzards prevalent in winter, and gray-blue like the sky on a snowy December day. It is connected to snow, ice-sheets over a river, the frosting of the windowpanes of a home deep in the mountains, storms, winter, flowers buried by the snow, the coating of the homes with snow, trees growing bare in a valley orchard, coniferous and deciduous trees mixing together, deluges in creeks, comforting like the snow tapping on a cabin, chilly like the wind that comes afterward, blizzard-like wind and snow, the sound of water running off in the distance after the snow, and placid winter days. It can be vibrant and algid/gelid. Etymology: Latin “hibernavisse” meaning “to have passed the winter”
which basically means that your gender is masculine but it also feels undead in a way? Like, you can only associate your gender with masculinity and dead/undead, rotten things. I coined it because zombiegender didn’t feel close enough but zombiemasc feels like me so much! Common pronouns for it are zom/zombie, rot/rots, and gore/gores!
New Definition: Faunflux is a gender similar to genderfaun and genderflux. Faunflux is where your gender fluctuates but you don’t feel any female or feminine genders. Faunflux people may feel genderless, unaligned, masculine or binary male.
a xenogender that is closely connected to the horror movie genre, but more specifically, horror slashers!
HUGE THANK YOU TO MY FRIEND GOJI (@/GojiDoesIt) ON TWITTER FOR HELPING ME MAKE THE FLAG!!!
ok so! i know slashergender & horrorgender were both already a thing, but i wasn’t a fan of the flags designs nor the meanings behind their stripes and i wanted to make something that felt deeper and more personal i guess. i wanted it to have deeper meaning! cuz i’m a sucker for deep diving into things, i like to be wordy! so the big stripes in this flag represent the deeper meanings i’m talking ab, and the slash marks represent more aesthetic type stuff!
first the big stripes:
PURPLE: The horror genre as a whole! Everything scary and spooky and creepy and haunting and fun! Being scary as fuck! Being a blight to normal society!
TEAL: Masks that many slashers wear (including Leslie Vernon, a slasher inspired by other slashers!) and the concept of masking for autistic people. Also being in the closet for LGBT+ people.
WHITE: Neurodivergency and trans + non-binary people!!! Self explanatory, this stripe is for all us neurodivergent trans ppl out there trying to live our best lives 😀
GREEN: The Final Gender Circuit, a reference to the Final Girl Circuit trope in slasher films. You’re chasing your gender through the dark woods like a slasher does with their final victim, questioning and questioning and trying to find the label(s) that best fit you.
BLACK: Feeling a connection with horror characters! This can be with either villians or heroes, but mainly meant for the villians.
the slashes running across the flag, obviously being from a weapon, like the fingerknife glove!
RED: BLOOD N GUTS!!!!
NEON BLUE: Supernatural horror! The Ring, Poltergeist, scary magic lightning!!!!
NEON GREEN: Sci-fi horror!!!! Alien, Predator, The Thing, Re-Animator, you name it!!!!
ORANGE: Manic glee!!!! Halloween (the holiday and the movies!)!!!! Jack-o-lanterns!!!! Fire!!!!
obviously this flag is meant for autistic & other neurodivergent ppl, but i don’t particularly mind if ur neurotypical and use this! go right ahead! feel free to make icons and such, have fun! also there’s no specific pronouns used for slashergender so feel free to use any that you want! some suggested ones could be slash/slashes/slashself? up to you! THANK U AGAIN TO MY GOOD FRIEND GOJI!!!
I dunno how this works but I’m gonna do my best! I’ve decided that no currently-existing label properly fits my relation to gender and my gender identity, so I made my own.
Presenting: Jaegergender!
Jaegergender is named after the Jaegers, large mecha from the Pacific Rim movie franchise, although you don’t necessarily have to be a Jaeger or identify as one to be Jaegergender. Those who identify as jaegergender may identify with some or all of the following:
A strong parental instinct, or need to protect others around them, even at the cost of their own health
Identifying partially or entirely as robots of some sort (including traditional automatons, machines, computers, programs, mecha, Jaegers themselves, Transformers, androids, cyborgs, etc.)
Ambidextrousness or cross-dominance
A belief that they should be either unable to feel pain, or be dismantled painlessly
Difficulty speaking or selective mutism
A distaste towards organic bodies and/or the maintenance they require
Feeling most at home when behind a screen or connected to the internet
Highly empathetic
Being physically fast or mentally quick
Being patient or stubborn
Various forms of neurodiversity, including but not limited to autism, ADHD, and/or bipolar disorder
The Jaegergender flag:
Dark blue: empathy, connection to others/the environment/the internet
Light blue: the concept of being artificial, physical/mental speed
Light grey: being constructed of or related to metal
Dark grey:
patience, stubbornness, and protectiveness
Yellow and purple dots: change, polarity, and contradiction. This can include neurodiversity, the inherent contradiction of feeling artificial but being organic, or a general sense of unbelonging.
I use it/its pronouns, but those who identify as jaegergender could probably make a case for using any pronoun(s) under the sun.
Interaction is encouraged!! If you have questions or comments (either positive or negative) then please comment/ask/DM me. I’m very new to this so I’d love any input I can get!
so a friend of mine thought of a funny little neurogender and i gave it a funny little flag because bert is a funny little comfort character (who’s really autistic-coded actually? wow) so um. fellow nonbertnary people how we feelin
HOLY SHIT IVE BEEN SEEING POGGENDER ALL OVER TWITTER AND I JUST WANNA SAY TY EVERYONE FOR USING THE FLAG AND PRONOUNS ITS SO COOL TO SEE IT EVERYWHERE ILY ALL LOTS ❤
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